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female
age
36-40,
*ulu1
writes:Hey.My boyfriend has recently broke my heart.I started a new job about 6 months ago and there was this guy that worked there that I got on really well with. As the months went by we started gettin really close.Two months after I started he asked me out and I said yes, although he asked if we could keep it private from everyone else at work to begin with which I was fine with.Things were going really well with us and I was so happy that I enjoyed going to work everyday!I got offered a new job with better money, so I decided to that I was going to take it. Me and my boyfriend both said that it would affect our relationship as we would still see each other.A month after I started my new job i got a text from my boyfriend sayin that he no longer loves me and wants nothing to do with me. He won't answer my calls or texts.I can't eat or sleep properly and it is starting to affect my work.Why has he done this to me?Please help
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reader, love-struckxo  +, writes (11 August 2009):
 I can't honestly tell you why he did this to you. I'm sure he has all the excuses in the world. Clearly he is a selfish human being and just leave it at that.A guy like that isn't worth your time or your heart. Things change in relationships all the time. It's hard to believe isn't it? You never think it's going to happen to you. Don't sit around and mope about this guy. You only live once, so live your life for yourself and not anybody else. Don't let somebody dictate your happiness. Get off the couch and move on with your life. If he's not moping about you, then why should you mope about him? Your just letting him win. Everytime your ringing up in his cell, your giving him the satisfaction of knowing that he broke your heart.Tomorrow the sun will still shine, and the world won't stop turning, my dear. ITS NOT OVER FOR YOU!!Claim back your pride. Don't call him, don't email him. Don't think about him. Go out and have drinks with your girlfriends and just keep on smiling.xxx
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