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... Send *ickett0410 a private message | | | *ickett0410's profile:Heyy, Im 16 and from Swansea-Wales (for people who don't know it's the country next to England)
I don't really "qualify" to help people to be honest. But i like helping people. So i'll do my best to try and help. I'm currently taken to a great guy. And am just learning all about life atm really. I'm not exactly the best person to ask for advice from. But if you want a wider range of advice then i'm your girl:) Also, i've kind of just gotten over a really bad patch in my life (yes i know im young yadda yadda yadda but it was still bad) and I want to try to help people that need it, just like the people that helped me when I needed it :D
I love drawing and being around the people I care about. Im currently studying art, psychology and sociology (well, more. But those are the ones I actually like :D) And expressions facsinate me tbh :) |
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I'm at the end of my tether with our relationship! What should I do?
Q. I have been going out with my boyfriend for a year and 4 months now and i really am not happy anymore. I love him to pieces but he is always making me feel small. I have to go home whenever he wants to see one of his friends. I cant be there ...
A. 7 August 2009: well tbh your answer is in your first sentance, "I have been going out with my boyfriend for a year and 4 months now and i really am not happy anymore." If your not happy anymore then you shouldn't be with him babe. by the sounds of it he's ether ... (read in full...)
Falling out of love is a possibility even if things seems fine?
Q. Heyyah Everyone I was just wondering Can you fall out of love with your bf/gf if they have done nothing wrong because i was madly in love with my boyfriend dale and now i dont no i feel like i only want to be friends but we have split up befo...
A. 6 July 2009: yes it is i guess. If the love wasn't strong enough at the start then it sounds like you've just drifted apart. It sucks but it does happen.... (read in full...)
Why is she doing this to me when I'm sure she wants me as much as I want her?
Q. The most beautiful woman - physically and as a person - has been on my mind for a couple of years now. Then 18 months ago, we started seeing each other for drinks etc. We told each other we were in love and would be together just as soon as we could ...
A. 5 July 2009: i totally understand what you mean, But like you said you can feel the conection and stuff. and if that conections real then she'll come to you, maybe she just needs some time first. She could have other stuff on her mind right now. But talking to ... (read in full...)
Why is she doing this to me when I'm sure she wants me as much as I want her?
Q. The most beautiful woman - physically and as a person - has been on my mind for a couple of years now. Then 18 months ago, we started seeing each other for drinks etc. We told each other we were in love and would be together just as soon as we could ...
A. 5 July 2009: I think she's just feeling really bad about what she's doing to her current boyfriend. Because when she's with you in person, your the one on her mind. And she forgets she's already with somebody. But when your apart and she's around her partner ... (read in full...)
Help me please - I haven't heard from him since yesterday! I'm so worried!
Q. Hi, I am currently in a long distace relationship with a guy in florida.. We have never met, Anyway yesterday he was at the theme park .. and he sent me a message saying "hey i can't text much but i am going home very soon and i will call y...
A. 2 July 2009: calm down hun, it's only a night. Maybe he's just busy or something? Give it a day or two. i'm sure he's fine.... (read in full...)
How to get closer with my girlfriend?
Q. Hey folks! I feel a little helpless about what's going on between me and my girl. So here's the story in short. My relationship with that girl is rather young and a "little" complicated. At first I have to say that it's actually an internet b...
A. 28 June 2009: anytime :) i'm glad to have helped. Well if i'm honest. I don't think it's fair for her to not know, because you may be getting your hopes up and end up getting hurt :\ and that's not fair. But that's just the pessimistic way to look at it so:) I ... (read in full...)
How to get closer with my girlfriend?
Q. Hey folks! I feel a little helpless about what's going on between me and my girl. So here's the story in short. My relationship with that girl is rather young and a "little" complicated. At first I have to say that it's actually an internet b...
A. 27 June 2009: I think you just need to actually ask her outright, cause yes she does have ther stresses but she shouldnt be mistreating you because of it :)... (read in full...)
How to get closer with my girlfriend?
Q. Hey folks! I feel a little helpless about what's going on between me and my girl. So here's the story in short. My relationship with that girl is rather young and a "little" complicated. At first I have to say that it's actually an internet b...
A. 27 June 2009: Maybe she's scared to commit? Because you are 6 years older than her and have dated before presumabely. Because 2O is still very young. But she shouldn't really be treating you like that. She's almost treating you as a safety net. She shouldn't ... (read in full...)
Am I cheating on my real boyfriend with my online guys?
Q. hello, well i have a boyfriend in real, and i have maybe 9 guys online. i just wanted to know is it considered cheating on my real bf? and one guy i met online and know is planning to come see me!! im scared i will try to avoid it. am i che...
A. 27 June 2009: I think if your real boyfriend doesn't know about them then yes. But if he knows and is okay with that then no your not. Put yourself in his situation. Would it upset you if he had 9 online gf's?... (read in full...)
Help! He wants to have sex with me but I'm not ready. What shall I do?
Q. I'm 13 years old and I have a boyfriend (16). Until yesterday, we were only kissing each other sometimes. But yesterday evening he wanted to have sex with me. I said i didnt want to, but he didnt listen and started to rape me. After I started crying ...
A. 27 June 2009: yes, you definately should.
telling your parents is the definate first step.
i hope your okay.
and dont ever feel pressure to have sex. sex was meant to be an act of love and was meant to be like a conection. and if you dont want that yet th... (read in full...)
Fall of something wonderful
Q. I never thought I knew what the word 'agony' meant until I left my girlfriend of three and a half years. Something so simple and pure...and I destroyed it in one afternoon. All she ever wanted from me was love. She gave more than I did, and asked ...
A. 17 June 2009: Awwh :) that really is sweet. :)
Well, at the moment she is really hurt by the sounds of it, probably just as much if not more than you. So when it all settles down, if your truly meant to be then she'll come back to you.
It's my oppinion that... (read in full...)
Help me understand my boyfriend
Q. Right, well i've been with this guy for nearly 9 months now, and it's the most serious relationship ether of us has ever had. We've both had kinda rough childhoods tbh I've just gotten over a really rough time in my life, and for the first time i'm ...
A. 16 June 2009: Thanks :) Tbh, I knew him for a long time before (well. long to me) for about a year before.(coming upto 2 years by now) And I tried to help him with my friendship and stuff, but we kinda both ended up falling inlove? And for a while. well. I had ... (read in full...)
What does a leather bracelet/fabric bracelet mean these days anyways.... anything?
Q. so, im gonna see this chick, and noticed she is wearing a leather ''friendship'' bracelet ... i am a bit older than she is, (its a surfer style thing, and im a surfer, but just not for years and years) -- so the only place i can ask this, without ...
A. 15 June 2009: tbh, it's just jewelry really. Meaningful or not. Unless its an engagement/marriage ring. it honestly doesn't matter which hand you wear it on.... (read in full...)
I'm not cheating but he's accusing me of it!
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for 2 yrs and we are both very very insecure, i dont accuse him of cheating on me but he thinks that i am because i am always working and working for long long hours and sometimes even 6 days a week, we dont live together ...
A. 15 June 2009: It is hard to hear that, exspecially from somebody you care about. It almost feels like their betraying your trust. Why not confront him about him, and ask him what's making him feel this way and how you can help. I understand most people do use ... (read in full...)
Tips for getting over my first crush!
Q. Dear cupid, I've had a crush/been in love with this guy for three years now. He is a nice guy - confident, funny, easy to talk to (goodlooking too!) - but I don't think that us being together would work. I just want to be friends with him now. I ...
A. 15 June 2009: I had the exact same problem, but i dont know if this'll help or not? But my friend always uses the saying "You can't truly get over someone 'till you find somebody new to care about". Maybe you should go out on a date with somebody else to get your ... (read in full...)
What does a leather bracelet/fabric bracelet mean these days anyways.... anything?
Q. so, im gonna see this chick, and noticed she is wearing a leather ''friendship'' bracelet ... i am a bit older than she is, (its a surfer style thing, and im a surfer, but just not for years and years) -- so the only place i can ask this, without ...
A. 15 June 2009: You can wear it on ether arm. I wear one on my right though, my friend got it for me one time when she went away and i've kinda worn it since,may sound gross! but it's like a friendship thing which actually is really cute looking too.
You can get ... (read in full...)
Help me understand my boyfriend
Q. Right, well i've been with this guy for nearly 9 months now, and it's the most serious relationship ether of us has ever had. We've both had kinda rough childhoods tbh I've just gotten over a really rough time in my life, and for the first time i'm ...
A. 15 June 2009: Thankyou :) We had a long talk after I replied and we talked about EVERYTHING, literally. But it was nice as nether of us opens up alot. By what he told me it sounded alot like he was insecure and i'm willing to help him :)
What sorta things d... (read in full...)
Help me understand my boyfriend
Q. Right, well i've been with this guy for nearly 9 months now, and it's the most serious relationship ether of us has ever had. We've both had kinda rough childhoods tbh I've just gotten over a really rough time in my life, and for the first time i'm ...
A. 14 June 2009: thanks guys, just seriously I don't understand what goes on in his head. "QuirkLady" you was a really great help and all the others too :)
I asked him what could I do to stop "suffoacting" him and he just went all quiet and said he didn't know.
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Help me understand my boyfriend
Q. Right, well i've been with this guy for nearly 9 months now, and it's the most serious relationship ether of us has ever had. We've both had kinda rough childhoods tbh I've just gotten over a really rough time in my life, and for the first time i'm ...
A. 14 June 2009: (carried on) I know he likes his "private time" so now and then I ask does he want to be left alone. But he always replies, no. please stay. always.
So basically, I just really need to get advice on what's going on in his mind. please help... (read in full...)
How can I leave him after 23 years? Hes making my life hell!
Q. I am in a realtionship for 23 years, we have a 15 year old daughter. We are not married, that is not the issue. The issue is, we get no respect, I am constantly getting yelled at like I am a verbal punching bag by both my daughter and her dad, ( ...
A. 13 June 2009: If he really is as bad as you say, you definately should not stay with him. You don't deserve to be treated like that. Maybe you could stay with a family member until you get back on your feet?... (read in full...)
I hate being smothered by love, I feel crazy
Q. please help me im very confused. i just broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years. hes still crazy in love with me but thing is i feel smothered by love. and now this other guy who i've only properly met a week ago but who i've sort of known for a few ...
A. 13 June 2009: I totally understand how you feel, I havn't had many boyfriends, but the ones i've had have all thought I was the "one" and it really is sort of scary. But, maybe you should just tell your ex-boyfriend that you need some space from him. This might ... (read in full...)
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