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writes:Het[:I'm tara, and i went out with this guy [ill call him #12] #12 was very sweet and always making me happy, i always gto into trouble though cause iwould have to sneak out to see him and my parents didnt like him, so i was grounded a lot, but then on day after school i took the bus to his school to surprise him and i was super excited, when my friend and i got to his school he was happy and we just hungout but then my parents started calling my friend mimi and #12's cell phone and i was sad cause in thier messages my parents were like your neve r going to see him again blah blah blah. so i was really sad and he like didnt really do much to comfort me and he laughed at me when i told him my mom took anti-depressant pills cause of me... :[ and it hurt my feelings a lot... and after his mom took me to my friend mimi's house. then some guy [we'll call him #13] was like talking to me on aim and he made me smile, and feel really happy and made me feel beautifull and just the works(: so in january that guy #12 broke up with me because i texted him teling him i might not be able to see him for a while maybe a week, and he replied with " then what's the point of us being together?" and like my heart just dropped and i thought that meant he was breaking up with me, so all my freiends asked him if he broke up with me and he said "no... well actually i geuss i did", and then the next morning i found out right after he and i broke up he got together with this other girl. so i was pretty unhappy as you coud imagine): afterwards on February 9th, 2009. I met #13 for the first time and i was really happy, when he asked me to be his girlfriend[: and i just thought the world about him [i still do] so we've been going out for 6 months, and suddenly #12 wants to have me back and everyoneis asking me if i would leave #13 for #12 and they ask if i would consider it and im just horribly confused i love #12, but when i was with #13 i had such a connection with him, as i do with both of them and now i just don't know what to do :[
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reader, love-struckxo  +, writes (19 July 2009):
 I think you should stick with 13, because of the way, 12 mistreated you. 12 seems really immature and doesn't really know how to care for you properly. If you have a connection with 13, why would you give that up for a guy that treated you like dirt anyways?
I know it's a tough desicion, but regardless of what anyone says, you will do what you want to do. Somewhere in your heart, you already know what you want.
I certainly wouldn't go back to a guy after six months of being with someone else. If he wanted you back - he should of tried in the first month or so.
and if you really 'LOVE' 12. He will have to prove himself.. which I doubt he will.
Stay with 13, you will be much better off by the sounds of it.
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