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30 March 2009: I always feel like I bottle my emotions, and I don't let out how I really feel. This isn't a question, this is a chance to tell the world how I really feel. I hope it will make me feel better. I say things I know I don't mean, but I say them anywa...
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The programs on tv just make me want a baby!
Q. Heyy :) this isn't a major problem but just something i'm curious about. i've been watching the programmes 'underage and pregnant' and i imagine they were broadcast to try and stop teens from becoming parents and to stop/be more careful when hav...
A. 30 July 2009: Listen to me and listen to me very carefully. I am one month pregnant and I'm fifteen years old. YOU DO NOT WANT A BABY. I am devastated and so is my family.
I can't even begin to stress. I was like you once. I thought it would be all good. It... (read in full...)
Why do I have constant nightmares?
Q. I'm a thirteen year old guy and I'm starting to get scared because I never have dreams I only have nightmares I usually have a really long nightmare every night and I'm starting to get scared can anyone tell me why I am having constant nightmares??...
A. 20 July 2009: Search what your dream means on Dreamdictionary.com
you can also get a dream catcher, maybe that will help.
Try to go to bed thinking pleasant thoughts.
:)... (read in full...)
Why do I miss him more in the mornings?
Q. My boyfriend and I recently called it quits. These last couple days have been a struggle, but I'm slowly getting by. I want to know why I only miss him in the mornings, I mean I will wake up and I will long for him and I will want to call him and ...
A. 17 July 2009: Sorry about your loss. I can't really tell you why you miss him more in the mornings, but somedays you will miss him more then others. Somedays you will want to run to his house and get back together, other days you will think he is a pathetic ... (read in full...)
Should a virgins first time be with a virgin?
Q. Hi, this question has been floating around a lot and I wanted to know what your guys opinion is about it. Most people imagine their first time to be special and wonderful, but can it still be special and wonderful if the guy or girl your having...
A. 14 July 2009: I personally think a virgins first time should be with a virgin. I've heard a lot of stories about how girls regret it because they couldn't connect with the guy like they would of wanted because he had already done it so many times. Others ma... (read in full...)
I don't feeling comfortable exposing my breasts to my BF
Q. I am very paranoid about exposing my breasts, I'm not sure why. My boyfriend is very respectful of it and never asks me too but I can tell it is beginning to hurt his feelings like I'm not comfortable around him or something...any confidence ...
A. 14 July 2009: I use to be like you too, I hated when my boyfriend looked at my breasts or even touched them. I was very self conscious of them, probably because they didn't look like they were straight out of a porn magazine. It's okay though, I got over that,... (read in full...)
How can I take compliments better?
Q. I'm not insecure, but I'm really bad at taking compliments from guys so sometimes I think it comes across as insecurity. Here's an example: Watching tv with a guy I'm seeing when a female celebrity comes on and he says "wow, I love her! She's so...
A. 13 July 2009: When your boyfriend says, "your beautiful" say, "your not so bad yourself" or say, "your pretty cute as well"
Recieve a compliment - give a compliment. If you don't want it to get too mushy, then I suggest saying something I have said up there.
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She's only 15 and I have feelings for her, is it wrong?
Q. I really need someone elses imput on this situation.I have feelings for a girl I know. The problem is Im 18 and she is only 15. Most people would probably wonder why an 18 year old would want anything to do with a 15 year old. Im not a pedophile or ...
A. 9 July 2009: It's not wrong to have feelings for her. I am always one to say age is just a number. If she is interested and you are interested then i say go for it.
but wait until shes 16 to have sex with her - because if you guys ever break up or her parents ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I cheated
Q. heyyy i'm 19 and I have a boyfriend of a year who I absolutely LOVEE!! I couldnt imagine my life with out him... but something happened about a week ago that I just can't get off of my conscience. I was at a party and I accidentally hooked up with a ...
A. 9 July 2009: You either tell him and hurt him, and possibilty hurt your relationship, or you can not tell him and feel guilty. it sounds like a lose lose situation, either way you are hurt in the end. do you think you guys are strong enough to work past i... (read in full...)
Is it okay to have sex on your period?
Q. so i`m on my period and me and my boyfriend want to have sex but i`m not sure if i should. is it okay to have sex when on your period? what should we do, like lay down a towel?...
A. 3 July 2009: Me and my boyfriend usually wait until the second or third day into my period. The first and second days can get really messy.
Use a condom, and put a towel underneath of you and after you both might want to take a shower as sometimes there is... (read in full...)
Help me please - I haven't heard from him since yesterday! I'm so worried!
Q. Hi, I am currently in a long distace relationship with a guy in florida.. We have never met, Anyway yesterday he was at the theme park .. and he sent me a message saying "hey i can't text much but i am going home very soon and i will call y...
A. 2 July 2009: He's not dead - calm down. If he was died, you probably would of seen it on the news, or somebody would of wrote something on his facebook wall with the bad news.
I know how it feels, I am in a relationship and I cannot go a day without seeing m... (read in full...)
I still love him, need advice on how to move on!
Q. I broke up with my abusive ex-bf 6 months ago exactly and I am worried that I am still thinking about him far too much. I have sought so much advice and tried to get on with life and have fun being single, but he is still in my head. Just to f...
A. 29 June 2009: I was going to answer this question, but then I realized that lovestruck-xo said everything that needed to be said.
I wish you the best of luck
Keep your chin up.
xoxoxoxo... (read in full...)
I need encouragement about my LDR!
Q. I'm currently 16, turning 17 in two weeks, so in essence i can be referred to as 17 in this. I just visited my long-distance relationship girlfriend, for the first time ever, and we've been dating for a year and a half. I love her with all my hear...
A. 25 June 2009: Don't feel discouraged, I know it seems like a long time before you can see eachother again, but it will come faster then you know it. My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship since november and we have managed to make it work,... (read in full...)
My mom's boyfriend did this to me, what do I do!
Q. Well for starters, this isn't an easy topic to discuss. I've had so much guilt, and frustration built in that I don't think I can do it anymore. My mom's boyfriend has been living with us now for almost 2 years. At first he seemed really cool, an...
A. 24 June 2009: It's going to hurt your mom, no matter what. There is not a right or wrong way to put it, and theres definetly not an easy way.
I hope that you will tell your mom, and she will believe you, and be relieved that she didn't pursue her relation... (read in full...)
A poll regarding virginity
Q. I am wondering at what age most people lost their virginity? This is a really interesting subject to me and I am just curious, I googled it and it says the average age is 16, but thats seems a little old to me. It also said like only half of the ...
A. 17 May 2009: I was 13... (read in full...)
If he wants anal then go gay!
Q. What is up with guys wanting to try Anal!! I am tired of every single guy i have dated wanting to try it. I am a girl I have a vag... If he wants anal go gay!!... Please explain how a guy sticking his dick in a butt hole with poop coming out of be ...
A. 15 May 2009: I totally AGREE with you! Glad i'm not the only one who finds it utterly digusting. Thank you.... (read in full...)
How can I keep my friend and my boyfriend apart?
Q. I've had this crush on this guy for 4 years and when he asked me out, I was so thrilled. We have been dating for 5 mouths now. But 3 of those months have been on the rocky side. I was getting a feeling that my boyfriend had a crush (huge one) on my ...
A. 13 May 2009: Tell them both how you feel. Tell them how uncomfortable you are with the situation. If your friend was really your friend she would back off a little, and if your boyfriend really cared, he would do the same. Tell your boyfriend to stop playing ... (read in full...)
How can I fix the way I feel?
Q. My grades have dropped, im tired all the time, and it seems ive been eating A LOT!!! Every time i start liking someone, i get so confused that i seriously just wanna go to sleep and forget about EVERYTHING and i actually just realized that ive been...
A. 13 May 2009: I totally relate to you on some levels. When me and my boyfriend broke up, I would go to school - sleep - eat - sleep - wake up, and do it all over again, for like two weeks straight.
but I snapped out of it, and told myself I need to live lif... (read in full...)
Best place to lose your virginity?
Q. I'm ready, and I'm gonna lose it. The question is where? Ideas anyone? The beach? The woods? Not some sleazy hotel room or my bed. This is the first time you'll always remember. I want to make it memorable in so many different ways, and...
A. 13 May 2009: First time sex is rarely ever 'out of this world' amazing.
I suggest you do take it under the sheets, it's comfortable, and why would you want to loose your v card in the woods? that would be a mess, wait until your a little more experienced befo... (read in full...)
I'm over him... so why does my heart still race when I talk to him? I can't understand it!
Q. I'm 14 nearly 15 and for about 2 years I really liked this guy but a lot happened, we never went out and we stopped talking. I got over him and started going out with someone else. We dated for 3 months and have recently broke up. Me and the fir...
A. 8 May 2009: Obviously, your not over him. A part of you still feels that way about him, maybe now your chance if your interested.. don't let it pass by good luck xxx... (read in full...)
Would this be considered an abusive relationship?
Q. I already posted a question, but it's getting worse.. This clingy, attatched boyfriend is getting rediculous... My phone was messed up and basically unusable. And so I got an old one a friend had given me. It was tmobile, I have att, my boyfriend ...
A. 7 May 2009: My ex boyfriend was not abusive physically, but emotionally, yeah he was. He tried to control my life, who I hung out with, what I did, my hair.. etc. It went on and on for months, and he still had the nerve to say he loved me! I just laugh now, I ... (read in full...)
How do I blow my new man's mind in bed?
Q. I'm starting a new relationship, and I want to know how to blow my mans mind in bed. He is always on top, and I want to go on top and show him a good time. Any tips?...
A. 4 April 2009: Bend your head back, and really ride him..... (read in full...)
How to I encourage him to come out?
Q. hi. well long story short i love my bf to pieces (yeah im gay if ur wonderin lol) and well im out and people r totally fine wiv it, but he's not and its really putting strain on our relationship. I mean i cant even look at him in a way which even a ...
A. 4 April 2009: Just support him, until he is ready to make that desicion.
You could also tell him that when he IS ready to come out, then you will be there every step of the way, helping him and supporting him, and you will always stick by him, maybe that wil... (read in full...)
How do I know if I was in love with her?
Q. hi im 15 and i was wondering what does it feel like to be in love? when do you know your in love? i think was in love and i think well i know she loved me back but she chose drinkin and smokin over me and yeah im still hurtin cause it was 4 days ago ...
A. 15 March 2009: It really depends. I am fifteen as well.
I truly believe you can be love at this age
so if anybody tells you, 'your too young'
please screen them out as I have done so!
The way I can tell if I am love, (and I have only been once) is it feels di... (read in full...)
Is it true that you can catch sexual infections/illnesses from having sex a lot?
Q. Is it true that you can catch sexual infections/illnesses from having sex a lot?...
A. 5 March 2009: Your mom is probably saying that to scare you out of having sex. Either way, you can only catch an STD/STI by coming in contact with the disease or infection, for example having sex with someone who has it.
If you and your partner are both cle... (read in full...)
I need to tell my parents that I may have schitzophrenia
Q. This can really change my life and the people around me. I am ready to tell my parents that I may have schizophrenia, I am ready, I am not that afraid, I am, but I can take it, I just don't know how to tell, my mom, someone help, this can really ...
A. 4 March 2009: My doctor said that if I didn't stop smoking the pot I would end up getting schitzophrenia...
Tell your parents, it's nothing to be ashamed of,
nobodys perfect.
Best of luck lady.... (read in full...)
I had underage sex and now I'm worried that I'm pregnant
Q. hey im underage n i slept wid my bf about a week ago and im really worried i could b pregnant because ive been feeling sick in the mornings and ive been getting worried and im too scared to tell my bf or go to a chemist to get a test in case they ...
A. 4 March 2009: Your not pregnant.. it would take much longer then a week to start feeling sick.. next time stick to condoms or get yourself on the pill ... (read in full...)
We fight all the time but don't want to break up.
Q. me and my girlfriend are always fighting. It's becoming a daily routine. But we don't want to leave eachother. What do I do ?...
A. 3 March 2009: Sit down with her and have an open dicussion. Dig deeper and see what is causes all your problems, and sort them out.. ... (read in full...)
Is it too early to propose to her... I'm 14!
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 6 months now and I'm a sophmore in high school and she is a junior and she's going to enlist in the national gaurd and me in the navy but I really really love her and I was thinking about proposing march 31 her ...
A. 3 March 2009: Try a promise ring. It's like the step before proposing. It's both of you guys making a commitment that you will wait and be together until you decide to propose.... (read in full...)
Rough month with my boyfriend of 1 year. Is it too late to make up?
Q. My boyfriend left me because he needed "space", instead of respeting his decision i cryed and made a whole lot of drama for 2 weeks. he got very angry, later he got better and said we should start as friends, we had sex and he said he still loved ...
A. 3 March 2009: My mom always told me, 'don't chase the boys, let the boys chase you' which is exactly what you must do. Cut off all contact with him completely, no matter how much you love and miss him, you cannot let him know it! If he really does love you, he ... (read in full...)
We're underage but want to have sex, where can we buy condoms?
Q. i'm under 16 and i want to have sex with my bf the only problem is we need some condoms and we dont no if we are aloud to buy them and where ...
A. 28 February 2009: Anybody can buy condoms, pregnancy tests.. under age or not. Just go to your local store or to a doctor.
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