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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes: My boy friend is not nice to me anymore and I think he is ignoring me in way or another , just making himself busy in anything and that annoying me and makes me sad , one time, I asked him what’s wrong , he said nothing and he said if you ask this question again there would be something wrong , I didn’t argue , and I started seeking for help a friend of mine advised me to make distant between me and my bf, to hang out with out even telling him where I am and ignore him but in nice way and showing him that I am busy , and he said that (I must be nice to him) and acting normal , I tried last week to make this but I failed , and I found it difficult so how I would be able to make distant between me and him without showing him that I have changed ? is there any useful tips that helps me to make this easy for me , I mean the Distant ? Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, love-struckxo  +, writes (19 July 2009):
 In healthy relationships, you shouldn't have to play games and make distance.
You should be open and honest with eachother, and it's obvious you can't be. So why are you still with this guy?
If he doesn't respect you anymore, and tries to ignore you. Then what's the point? Don't chase this guy around anymore. His actions speak louder then words.
Either break it off, or ask him why he is acting this way. If he chooses to ignore you - or not tell you. Then tell him you aren't putting up with this.
The world would be a better place, if we all just learned to stand up ourselves and refused to be someone elses doormat.
I know this isn't what you want to hear, but..
Tomorrow the sun will still shine, and the world won't stop turning, and I promise you are better off without him.
Good Luck
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