I think there's something wrong with me because I've never had a boyfriend!
Q. I seriously think something wrong with me because am 21 and never had a boyfriend abd I know am not an ugly girl. Im confident about the way I look but at the same time I do find guys that talk to me but they are not my type usually they are ghetto ...
A. 29 August 2008: Enjoy life.
I didnt have "real boyfriend" until I was 23. Since then, they'll all over me like there's no tomorrow :)
So don't worry about, don't stress yourself and focus on your education so that the guys that count will be even more impres... (read in full...)
Do you think I made the right decision on backing down in the relationship?
Q. Ok so me and this guy are in a relationship, both of us are with other people as well. My guy just found out that his mom has cancer so I thought the best thing for our relationship would be for me to back down. He is all his mother has and with all ...
A. 29 August 2008: You should let him know that you understand that he's having a hard and difficult time and you realize that its best for him to be with his mom.
But at the same time let him know that you'll back down but if he needs you you'll be there for him ... (read in full...)
Why do people think relationships should be so easy and give up too quickly?
Q. Everyone, I've been here for sometime and I'd like to ask for your opinions on commitment and dedication in a relationship. I was raised in a traditional Eastern European family. Our attitudes towards relationship are: -No matter...
A. 26 August 2008: Everyone, thanks for your responses but I want to clear up my post.
I did NOT mean sticking by with people who you feel feelings of lust for, that you have been dating for a few weeks or a few months or people who have clear mental problems... (read in full...)
Starting a new relationship - How slow can it go?
Q. I have always believed that if a romantic relationship is to be formed between two people, it must happen quickly. If things go slowly and drag out, then usually someone ends up "friend-zoned". With this in mind, is it reasonable to expect...
A. 25 August 2008: I think it differs from person to person, some people like to get into relationships quickly (I personally agree with you) other people like to take it slow.
But as a general rule, a lot of women will be much slower with the physical aspect o... (read in full...)
I'm in a 5 years long relationship and cheated on my girlfriend. I can't get this other girl out of my head. She has a boyfriend too. Any advice?
Q. Hi I'm 22 and in a 5year long relationaship, but recently a girl I used to have the hots for arrived back in town, so we met up and went for a drink, I walked her home and one thing led to another... anyway she text me the next day saying how g...
A. 25 August 2008: This will be harsh, but.. 1. Reverse the situation. Imagine it was your gf that cheated on you like this - how big of a jackass would she be? What would people say about her when they found out. Would they say, oh yea she has a valid excuse, or... (read in full...)
Does fate exist or am I just way too ridiculous?
Q. Last week an old school friend approached my aunt in a club and asked her to pass his number to me and get in touch...as I am too shy a person to call out right I texted him, he has not replied.I have not been able to get this guy off my mind which ...
A. 25 August 2008: I think that fate does exist. Your case, however, it not fate. At least you dont know until you date the guy for many many years.
What you're going through is a very simple psychological reaction - someone showed interest in you, you were fla... (read in full...)
I'm stressed, and sexually weak. I never used to be like this.
Q. i am 22 yrs old male.i am felling some sexual weak ness from last 3 months.sometime my penis doesnot erect some times it erect,and it's losing it's length, i am feeling very stressed.i don't what should i do,my physical condition is very good. i ...
A. 20 August 2008: Maybe you're just lacking some nutrients?
Do you have a poor diet? Working out a lot lately? Stressed at work/not sleeping enough? Some major emotional event?
All of these things can impact nutrient balance in your body, and when that happen... (read in full...)
Why wont my boyfriend kiss me when I go to visit him in Prison?
Q. I'm 16 + my boyfriend is 17, he's still a virgin. Its not that which i am confused about. He's in prison + when i go to see him + ask him for a kiss he simply laughs + tells me that im not gettin 1. He's only ever kissed 1 girl. Why doesnt he ...
A. 20 August 2008: I think the real question that needs to be addressed here is not why your boyfriend doesnt want to kiss you, its WHY YOUR DATING SOMEONE WHO'S IN PRISON!... (read in full...)
Has anybody try this before?
Q. Has anybody try this before will it really delayed my period because I have a trip on saturday I really want to go to!! Humphrey's Symptoms Of Delayed Menses #11, 32 Tablets by ClubNatural" I read couple of people use it and they said it r...
A. 18 August 2008: Hey,
This is based on homeopathic medicine which is safe. Its pretty standard treatment used in alternative medicine.
You can try taking it - it might work or it might not.Homeopathic medicine really varies from person to person, so for s... (read in full...)
Has anybody try this before?
Q. Has anybody try this before will it really delayed my period because I have a trip on saturday I really want to go to!! Humphrey's Symptoms Of Delayed Menses #11, 32 Tablets by ClubNatural" I read couple of people use it and they said it r...
A. 18 August 2008: Hey,
This is based on homeopathic medicine which is safe. Its pretty standard treatment used in alternative medicine.
You can try taking it - it might work or it might not.Homeopathic medicine really varies from person to person, so for s... (read in full...)
I no longer see a future with him. What should I do?
Q. I have been with my fiancee for almost 3 years. He is 27 I am almost 20. I love him, but no longer see a future with him. Every little thing he does gets on my nerves now. The only thing he ever wants is sex. He grabs my boobs or my butt in public, ...
A. 18 August 2008: You're 20. What you should do is break up with this jerk, go to school, get a job, meet a decent guy.
There is no reason for you at 20 to be settling for a life with a disrespectful guy, his baby and his baby's mama.
Also think about how ... (read in full...)
Is he interested, and are relationships a good thing to start at work if you keep it outside work hours?
Q. I have fallen for this guy at work, who is single. I think he like me and I thought he was quite shy, however, I have recently heard a few things about him, like he is a bit of a player, he can't be trusted etc. He has started talking to me on the ...
A. 18 August 2008: Depends how big the office is. From personal experience (not mine but from my old office) is the company is under a hundred people and you are in the department/have the same managers/work together on a regular basis or see each other - BAD idea.
... (read in full...)
I really like two boys, one really likes me and the other one tells me I'm pretty and how he wants to have sex with me.
Q. hello, im a 14 year old girl and i really like this boy called andy (16) i met at a swimming pool where he works and i think he likes me but i really like this other boy called jamie (17) but all he seems to talk about is how pretty i am and how he ...
A. 18 August 2008: Any guy who tells you straight out that he wants to have sex with you is someone to stay away from.
If the five posts below didn't convince you and he still makes you feel special, think about all the other girls that he's said the same thing to... (read in full...)
Is he serious? Or sparing my feelings?
Q. Hey there dear cupid. My boyfriend and I of a year recently split, okay, he dumped me. I posted another question a while back about if it was best for me to walk away etc. because he's been having such a hard time with finances, work, family a...
A. 18 August 2008: I realize where you are coming from but I still think you're setting yourself up for disappointments.
He says that he's stressed and has problems and can't be with you now. Great, let him figure out his problems and learn how to deal with str... (read in full...)
I don't know how to show my ex I still like him without making a fool of myself...
Q. My boyfriend and I recently split up and I want him back.He like's someone else but still likes me a bit.I really dont know how to show i like him without making a fool of myself.Does anyone know any good tips on getting your ex boyfriend back. T...
A. 18 August 2008: Hey kinkyboots,
Dont you think you're being a little harsh? Your ex is your ex for a reason but people make mistakes and often losing someone special makes you realize your mistakes and want to change. The road to love is not a smooth one.
... (read in full...)
Stuck between a career or my lover: Do I give him up or go to school?
Q. Alrightyz, even if you don't answer, thank you for reading. But i am hoplessly tore between the most horrible decision ever. Ever since i was a little girl i've planned to move to california right after high school to get my degree in aquatic ...
A. 18 August 2008: Go get your degree. There are so many wonderful guys out there (esp in CA!!!!!) and you're way too young to change your life for one guy. ... (read in full...)
Is he serious? Or sparing my feelings?
Q. Hey there dear cupid. My boyfriend and I of a year recently split, okay, he dumped me. I posted another question a while back about if it was best for me to walk away etc. because he's been having such a hard time with finances, work, family a...
A. 18 August 2008: Hey, I would make a conjecture here that his intentions are not to get back with you in the future. I think that he's still in touch with you for reasons that are not necessarily related to romance or your future together - he thinks of you as... (read in full...)
Unhappy in this relationship, work it out or take a break?
Q. My fiance and I have been together for 2 plus yrs lived together for over a yr. The past 5 months, we've been arguing daily about pointless things. He gets so angry and defensive anytime I talk to him or ask him anything! I get frustrated and sad ...
A. 18 August 2008: I dont mean to be harsh, but you sound a little bit like a pushover and someone who is not very secure in herself. You say that he was dating someone else after you guys were a couple - I think for most people this would be a deal breaker, but you ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to show my ex I still like him without making a fool of myself...
Q. My boyfriend and I recently split up and I want him back.He like's someone else but still likes me a bit.I really dont know how to show i like him without making a fool of myself.Does anyone know any good tips on getting your ex boyfriend back. T...
A. 18 August 2008: Yes.
1. Accept the break up and give him space. About one-two months of space.
2. Get over the break up. Move on with your life. Figure out why you broke up. If you see him in the meantime, don't act sad, depressed, desperate, nag, etc. Be pol... (read in full...)
I am jealous of my long-distance BF and fight with him over the phone, how can I change?
Q. Hey people i need your help.am jealous of my boyfriend.we are in a long distance relationship.every weekend he goes out clubbin and i dont like the idea.i just feel jealous since myself i dont go out.so on sundays i just feel i despise him and when ...
A. 17 August 2008: I think that babyduck is being a little harsh. There are many reasons why people in their 20s are in long distance relationships - school and work are the biggest ones. That being said, I think that ldr's should only be engaged in if you eventually ... (read in full...)
What does he really think of me?-I need all the advice I can get!
Q. Hi well heres the thing its a long story but im going to give you a brief outline A Month ago i slept with a guy who iv been on a date with well 2 nights together ,[didnt do nothing]. Anyway he dumped me cus his head was a bit fucked up anyw...
A. 17 August 2008: Agreed with older sister below, you're way to easy. I mean, he says you wanna come over and you end up having sex with him? I mean, no man will ever take that kind of behavior seriously. ... (read in full...)
I just got the job of my dreams but I'm still madly in love with my ex.!
Q. I just got the job of my dreams but I'm still madly in love with my ex. He has been txting me and recently sent me one saying he was thinking about me. I also recently found out he spoke to a friend of mine and told her that if the woman he loves ...
A. 17 August 2008: There are two things to consider here. One, like the first poster said, its very rare to find someone that you have that connection with and if your in love with him after four years, that is a very strong connection. You dont want to give up the ... (read in full...)
How can I orgasm easier?
Q. i cant orgasm when my boyfriend fingers me. when hes fingering me he does it rapidly and hard and i like it, but i just cant seem to orgasm. it feels good when he eats me out too, but not even close to an orgasm. Any tips on how he can eat me out so ...
A. 15 August 2008: Thats because both you and your boyfriend are inexperienced and too young.
For guys, orgasming is usually physical and automatic.
For most women, orgasms are mostly the mental state you are in. At your age, there is no way that you have th... (read in full...)
Can anyone give me a suggestion on a good place to meet guys?
Q. I feel kind of silly asking this, but could anyone give me a suggestion on a good place to meet guys? I don't go to school anymore, and I don't work in an environment in which I'd meet anyone that I'd want to date. Guys in bars and clubs seem t...
A. 15 August 2008: Hey,
I know how you feel about bars and clubs, but contrary to most people, I think they are a pretty good idea, as long as you combine it with other activities, like hobbies, suggested here.
The trick to meeting decent guys at bars is wher... (read in full...)
I don't have the confidence to ask him outright if he just wants sex. Do you think he wants to get to know me?
Q. Hello, I am looking for some advice on a guy. We chat every couple of days, he has never asked me out, however, he is always making comments about coming to my house for a night inn or me staying at his for a night inn. I was just wondering if ...
A. 15 August 2008: Is this someone you know in person or someone you met online but have not met in person yet?
If this is an online friendship than you should not be inviting a stranger into your house or going to a strangers house either. Your first couple o... (read in full...)
I am trying to find out if this guy only wants sex, and that's it, how do I determine this?
Q. This bloke at work arranged to go chum me to a night out, however he blew me out at the last minute with no explination, we didn't speak for a few months, he sent me a text saying we wanted different things and recently he has started to show an ...
A. 14 August 2008: Its simple. Dont have sex with him. If he stops talking to you after the sex if off the table, there you go. ... (read in full...)
He is overly obsessed about this new car!!
Q. My problem is with my husbands obsession over what is supposed to be a joint car and it is causing arguments all the time. He has always been a bit possessive over whatever car we have had in the past but I have always been "allowed" to use it to ...
A. 14 August 2008: He's a man and men develop crazy obsessions. My dad is obsessed with computers. He spends his entire weekend taking a computer apart and putting it back together the weekend after and then back to taking it apart again. Its useless, its stupid, but ... (read in full...)
I really would like to be more with her, but she's been seeing her ex behind my back!
Q. i have a problem..i met this girl about 5 months ago and originally we were just friends. at the time she was going through a tough time with her ex having cheated on her. Since then though our friendship has grown and for me i want it to be so...
A. 14 August 2008: Its called a rebound. She is still emotionally into her ex, but she misses the companionship of someone and needs the physical validation, which is why she gets into bed with you.
She's not a bad person, but coming out of a relationship is toug... (read in full...)
I've become attracted to a guy at my new school, who is similar to my BF in personality, I'm so confused. Do I try to make my LDR work?
Q. Hey there, I'm a 16year old girl and i've been going out with my boyfriend fo rjust over a year. This summer i finished my GCSE's and left to go abroad to boarding school. Me and my boyfriend were together everyday until I left, and just before ...
A. 14 August 2008: Hey, I'm going to give you some advice that you probably might not like, but just think about it. You're 16, you're really young and this is a WONDERFUL period in your life. I think that you should be going out with people, and dating different... (read in full...)
Should I have sex even though I'm just 13?
Q. ok im 13 and i want to have sex. i have a boyfriend, and we have been dating for about 4 months and i think i am ready he is 14 and is a freshman in high school i am still in middle school (8th grade). but my main question is, should i even though i...
A. 14 August 2008: I'm 25 years old and I still wait two-three months before having sex with a guy to make sure that he's worth it and I'm not setting myself up for heart break or an emotional disaster.
I'm 12 years older than you, which means that I've had abou... (read in full...)
Sex doesn't feel good no matter what position he tries. Help!
Q. hey. i'm almost 15 and my bf's almost 16. we've had sex about 9 times. the first time we did it it really hurt. and since then it always hurts in the beginning. then when it's all the way in it doesn't hurt but it doesn't feel good either. he tries ...
A. 14 August 2008: It sounds like he's too big and you're still really young and small. I had a guy who was too big for me once... NOTHING made it feel good. A couple of years later after my body matured, it was amazing!... (read in full...)
I really don't want her to date others as well as me, and I don't know what to do next.
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 years. I'm the first serious boy friend she has had. She now says she wants to see other people (just on dates) but still go out with me. She said something she needs to get out her system to make sur...
A. 14 August 2008: As Tisha said, your girlfriend probably feels very secure in the relationship. After three years, its only natural to get accustomed to whoever you're dating, and if neither of you is making it a point to grow and continue the excitement in the ... (read in full...)
My soulmate married someone else. Do you think he will divorce like he told me? Can it work between us?
Q. Please. Please can someone give me some advice, as I feel like I am going insane and cannot cope anymore I met this man (my soulmate) 8 years ago and, and It was love (or a connection) at first sight, I remember sitting in the pub and being in...
A. 13 August 2008: While I do believe in soulmates, I also believe that there is more that one.
Stop abusing yourself and find the next one. ... (read in full...)
Is it over before it really began??
Q. Hello, Please help me. I have just been seeing a wicked guy for about a few weeks now. We have met up a few times and have discovered that we really get on. He used to text me all the time and we spoke on the phone for hours. He kept telling ...
A. 13 August 2008: Honeygirl said it right, he is irresponsible. Also, at this age he's not an idiot, he knows what he's doing is wrong and probably doesn't care. When you get annoyed at him and then apologize for it.. this an obvious ploy on your part to keep him ... (read in full...)
I know he cares but why does he want to play the field?
Q. I'll try and keep this as concise as I can. I was with my ex boyfriends for 9 months, we were very happy together, fell in love quickly and it just felt 'right'. We split up because he became distant, I thought it was him falling out of love but it ...
A. 13 August 2008: Hey girl.. you have to slow yourself down by a lot.
My boyfriend of nine months broke up with me too a while back, like yours, and I'm not sure if it was because of problems too or b/c he feel out of love with me. I suspect its the former. ... (read in full...)
Out of a relationship into another, right or wrong ?
Q. isit ok to go straight out of a serious relationship into another, personally i feel that theres nothing wrong with it but you must make sure your ready to be into another serious relationship, but id like your opinion please give me your awnsers...
A. 12 August 2008: I think you're a little bit young to be in something that would be considered a "serious" relationship, so i wouldn't worry about it too much. ... (read in full...)
I have to make a choice between my boyfriend and my education.
Q. i went out with my boyfriend 2 years ago, then we got back together last year, its great because although we hadn't seen each other in the two years we were apart, we just got the spark straight back and it was like we hadn't even seperated. i'm ...
A. 7 August 2008: I am a strong believe that at your age, you should put your career/education first. You're still very young. I realize that you love this guy very much and afraid that you might regret it a lot, and I thought that way too, but once you hit your 20s ... (read in full...)
Every time I meet him, there's an awkward silence... and then sex. What do I SAY to him?!!
Q. Me and this guy have known each other for a year. We started off on the relationship side of things, which later turned to friendship as things weren't working out the way we planned. We meet up every couple of months, but everytime we do, ther...
A. 7 August 2008: Well, I dont think you should be afraid of losing him as a friend, but you guys don't really sounds like you're friends..
You say that there's an awkward silence and that you end up having sex. Where do you guys go.. as friends? Do you go over ... (read in full...)
He wants to meet up for sex, and I do too, but how can I be sure he's not a psycho?
Q. I think I already know the answer to this one, because of what my friends have said - but I need a second opinion. I recently met a guy online through our blogs and we've been emailing quite frequently. He's suggesting that we meet up for sex,...
A. 6 August 2008: If you dont want anything apart from sex and don't mind hooking up with a complete stranger... why don't you just go to a local bar or nightclub and find a guy and hook up with him?
Getting NSA sex is probably one of the easiest things in the worl... (read in full...)
After a great night with him, he hasn't called me!
Q. This guy I met on a thursday texted called asked to hang friday we finally did saturday and had an amazing time. he acted like he was really into me and went had fun laughed etc. nothing I can think went wrong. We went back to him place at the end ...
A. 6 August 2008: Chalk it up to experience: guys rarely call girls who have sex/oral sex/hook up with them two days after meeting them. Or the first date. Even the second date is questionable. However, dont be surprised if one of these weekends you get a drunken ... (read in full...)
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