A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey. i'm almost 15 and my bf's almost 16. we've had sex about 9 times. the first time we did it it really hurt. and since then it always hurts in the beginning. then when it's all the way in it doesn't hurt but it doesn't feel good either. he tries so many positions and different ways to do it but it wont feel good for me. it does for him... is there something wrong with me? he feels ashamed of himself because he can't get it to feel good for me. and i'm kinda getting annoyed because i get so horny and then it doesn't feel good. what's wrong here? thanks. and don't tell me i'm too young.
View related questions:
horny Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2008): hi i have the same problem and ignore them because its nothing to do with ur age because i am nearly 19 i have exactly the same problem and i get really horny too n when i have it it hurts at 1st n i do get really wet and i dont no why cus i either dont feel nothing or it doesnt feel good the only time it feels good is when i orgasm but i have bin like this since my 1st time n that was nearly 4 years ago but after feeling too imbarissed to see my doctor about it i have an appointment monday so u should do the same and have some check ups they might be able to help u
A
female
reader, PsyCookie +, writes (14 August 2008):
 Sorry, but I will have to tell you the reason you don't feel pleasured is because you're too young.
The reason is because your body hasn't fully developed yet. You're still growing. Your bones and muscles haven't positioned themselves correctly in your private area, which may cause uncomfortability when sex happens.
You could try to do more foreplay when you do the act. Buy sex toys or use more fingers. And oh, don't brag about your sex life and try to keep it secret. You don't want nasty drama around your family.
And I forgot, ALWAYS use protection. They don't only work to prevent pregnancy, they protect you from STDs too.
...............................
A
female
reader, les +, writes (14 August 2008):
It sounds like he's too big and you're still really young and small. I had a guy who was too big for me once... NOTHING made it feel good. A couple of years later after my body matured, it was amazing!
...............................
A
female
reader, xalfiex  +, writes (14 August 2008):
 ok, excuse the icky question here, but are you totally 100% soaking wet when it gets going? because if not, then is gonna feel like he is sandpapering your cervix. you need to be well lubricated. try alot of foreplay or lubes, and see how it goes. if not then he may be like, really big and you've just got to "stretch" to accomodate him. because you are only 14, your body hasn't finished developing fully down there. but give it time, my love!
...............................
|
