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writes:My boyfriend and I recently split up and I want him back.He like's someone else but still likes me a bit.I really dont know how to show i like him without making a fool of myself.Does anyone know any good tips on getting your ex boyfriend back.Thanks for your help x
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reader, EsmeraldaR  +, writes (24 October 2008):
Hey girl!
I could go and tell you to forget about him, but hey, that’s your choice to make.
If you are really serious about wanting him back, I am positive that you CAN win him back, BUT..
Yes there is a pretty big BUT involved. There are some very good psychological tricks you can use on almost any ex boyfriend or to get him back, even when he says he never wants to see/hear from you again.
The question is, do you REALLY want him back, even if it means you’ll have to use tricks and mindgames on him to get him back?
If the answer is yes, then you could have a look on this website. They offer some awesome and powerfull methods that will practically guarantee you to make him love you again:
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Best of luck!
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (18 August 2008):
 If he is chasing after someone else then i would let it go and move on.
I agree with Kinkyboots about remembering the bad times and why you split. We all tend to see our ex through rose tinted glasses. The mind plays cruel tricks. Ive got back with an ex before after a few months split. I forgot about the fact he snorred like a steam train, got up atleast once every night for the loo waking me up, wanted to be with me 24/7 having me feeling shattered and suffocated, drank like a fish, wanted to live on takeaways, i was fat and broke again, and went through it all a second time and it allllll came flooding back.
Dont do it.
Make the break, work on you, then move on.
Sounds simple doesn't it. With a strong enough personality it can be done.
C xxxxx
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reader, Angle79  +, writes (18 August 2008):
 Its not healthy to stay with unfinished feeling! -- I would say just be honest. Tell him how you feel, Once you know Yes or No, its clear for you to make the next step. It can be a bit embarrasing to say that to you ex, but its worth to try if you still feel for him. Goodluck to you. xx
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reader, les +, writes (18 August 2008):
Hey kinkyboots,
Dont you think you're being a little harsh? Your ex is your ex for a reason but people make mistakes and often losing someone special makes you realize your mistakes and want to change. The road to love is not a smooth one.
To say that your ex is your ex and focus on the negatives that broke you up I think is a belittlement to both the ex as a person and the relationship. Everyone has good and bad qualities, and one should def realize those qualities. But just because someone made a mistake in the past and might not be perfect is no reason to not give them a second chance.
Thats why I say, give it sometime and if you still want to be with him, then its def worth trying.
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reader, les +, writes (18 August 2008):
Yes.
1. Accept the break up and give him space. About one-two months of space.
2. Get over the break up. Move on with your life. Figure out why you broke up. If you see him in the meantime, don't act sad, depressed, desperate, nag, etc. Be polite and nice and don't linger around him.
3. If you've done 1 & 2 properly, you have the relationship in a new perspective and probably know why you broke up and know if its him you really want to be with. If the answer is yes, then casually start to contact him more and see him for brief periods of time, just to go out and have fun. After a couple of weeks of having fun, and being comfortable with each other on a platonic level, then you can start to discuss the relationship, what went wrong and if its worth getting back together. If you decide yes, and want to try again, then you can sleep with him.
If all of this seems like too much of a pain, then its your brain telling you that dont like him that much and he's not worth it.
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reader, Vanessa1983 +, writes (17 August 2008):
 I think the best thing you can do is just be honest. Theres no shame in that. You simply still like him, if you tell him and he says no, then you have your answer, and you wont have made a fool of yourself as you wont be going around trying to make him jealous etc (which can be very transarent).
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