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writes:i have a problem..i met this girl about 5 months ago and originally we were just friends.at the time she was going through a tough time with her ex having cheated on her.Since then though our friendship has grown and for me i want it to be something more.at times i feel that this is what she wants as well.we have had relations with each other and have always acted more than friends when together but i've recently found out that she was seein her ex behind my back even though we arent together this really hurt me.I want to be with her so bad but she keeps going hot and cold with me, one minute i feel she wants it too and the next its as if were barely even friends.. im really confused and dont know what to do i really miss her and i cant not have her in my life. sayin that i cant go on like this i've spoken to her and all she has said is that she is still gettin over her ex yet she still gets into bed with me!Im so confused and dont no what to do as its affectin me meetin other people?
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reader, junebug  +, writes (14 August 2008):
i total agree with les. She not a whore she just isnt completely over her ex. Its differnet if she is still getting in bed wit him and u! Then i would adivise u to leave.but she needs u in her life to have someone like a rebound but also just a friend.so just give her so time and hopefully its not a every long time.so dont worry but try not to get to attached just in case.ya never know if they might work things work and then thats gonna hurt u even more. Good luck honey.xoxojunebugxoxo
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reader, les +, writes (14 August 2008):
Its called a rebound. She is still emotionally into her ex, but she misses the companionship of someone and needs the physical validation, which is why she gets into bed with you.
She's not a bad person, but coming out of a relationship is tough especially if you were really attached to that person. There is nothing to be confused about here, it takes time to get over people. Whether you should stay with her or not is your decision but who knows how long its going to take...
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