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writes:This bloke at work arranged to go chum me to a night out, however he blew me out at the last minute with no explination, we didn't speak for a few months, he sent me a text saying we wanted different things and recently he has started to show an interest in me. I think this guy just wants a one off and nothing else, he keeps asking me to his flat to watch a DVD and stay the night. I am a little confused as I don't now if he just wants a one off or something more.
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reader, xKx__  +, writes (14 August 2008):
It sounds like he just wants a one night thing. If your into it and know thats all it's going to be go for it!
If he wanted anything else, he would be courting you, like asking you out on dates.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (14 August 2008):
 Why not suggest a normal, run-of-the-mill date and see what he says? Go have a meal together, or go listen to some music or see a play. If he balks at this, then likely he's only interested in a one-off.
What did he mean that you two wanted different things? Does he want no-strings-attached visits and do you want a proper boyfriend? Generally, when a man tells you something like this, he's being honest, so pay attention! Don't convince yourself that you'll be able to change his mind; most of the time, it will not work.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2008): You're probably right, but why not make the most of it and use him for sex? Tell him to stuff his DVD where the sun doesn't shine and get down to the real business in hand.
If that's what you want, that is. If not, you can still tell him where to shove his DVD.
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reader, les +, writes (14 August 2008):
Its simple. Dont have sex with him. If he stops talking to you after the sex if off the table, there you go.
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reader, Lilly Rose +, writes (14 August 2008):
 Men dont ask women round to watch a dvd unless they want sex lol
If he is decent let him take you out for a meal or cinema then your find out if hes only around for sex..because if he only wants sex he wont stick around. Just dont give in to him...you want to be respected darlin!
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