Was he just being nice to me, or is he interested in a relationship?
Q. Please help...I'm very confused. There is this guy that I am interested alot. He is what I would call the perfect man. He may have some flaws but they are tiny. We used to go to school together but never really saw each other. Resently one of ...
A. 20 October 2007: maybe he not has interested has you think maybe he was and when he met you he had second thoughts and someone told you this well if he continues to be nice in a short while you know and don't always believe what people tell you good luck... (read in full...)
My first serious relationship ended yesterday! I can't stop thinking about him or what he's doing - I'm going crazy!
Q. Yesterday, I got dumped by my boyfriend of 2 months. It doesn't sound like a long time at all, but I fell in love with him so quickly. It was a long distance relationship and he was depressed because we didn't see enough of each other. So he said ...
A. 20 October 2007: two months is not long enough to be hurt a month from now the next guy you meet will replace him easy good luck ... (read in full...)
Professor crush.
Q. I believe I have fallen in love with a professor. I have been attending community college for almost 2 years now and everytime I see this professor ... I just get really goofy..I saw him this morning when I was going to make up and exam..he alway's ...
A. 20 October 2007: well that can happen but i stay far away unless you want to be cause of broken marriage good luck... (read in full...)
Who do I choose, my ex-boyfriend or my current boyfriend?
Q. My ex-boyfriend and I broke up a few weeks ago. We were in love, it just happened to be at the wrong time for him. So he ended it with me. A little more than a week ago, I started dating my current boyfriend. He is everything I have been looking for ...
A. 19 October 2007: i think your ex boyfriend is doing it not becomes he wants you back but just to make trouble he had his turn why did he not keep you and give you the same things has the current the current one cares very much but you should not be sleeping with the ... (read in full...)
While on a date, how do you know if the girl wants to kiss you?
Q. Hey. I just have a question quickly, if you're on a date how do you know if the girl wants to kiss you? thanks Anonymous...
A. 19 October 2007: she to younge i think you should be with someone around your age good luck... (read in full...)
He gave me hope we'd get back together.
Q. hay guys! my heads in bits at the mo and my hearts shattered i just dont know what to do? im 22 ive had my fair share of heart ache and i really thougth this time was the real deal u no! id been going out with this guy for just over a yea...
A. 19 October 2007: well i think you see that it was not true and of course your heart has to mend before you can love again give it time don't ever talk with this guy and change places so you don't meet up with him until the sun has come out in your live again and cry ... (read in full...)
How can he say he loves me and I'm his soulmate but still leave me??
Q. hi, I've been split up with my bf for 3 months now and it seems to be gettin harder. I love him so much and miss him more everyday no matter what i do i can't seem to move on . He told me that we needed to sort our heads out and he would love th...
A. 19 October 2007: i think he answer your question since he has not bother to contact you by now he may have someone else or he rather hung out with his friends stop waiting and start looking your heart will mend and you will give that love to someone else instead of ... (read in full...)
Was I being totally selfish and clingy and was it too much to ask of him to hold me a few minutes? He said he was tired from work and didn't feel like it; I felt rejected.
Q. Hey all, I am in a bit of a dilema, Me and my fiance' have been together for 2 and half years. We met on the computer and a little over a year later I moved to be with him. About a month and half ago I found out he had a one night stand with his ...
A. 19 October 2007: if he already cheated on you once chances are it will happen again and this business i to tired i could have to broken arms and when you love you would still be able to show that love how hard is it to lye in bed and put you arm around someone and ... (read in full...)
This are his excuses. Should I wait for him to make up his mind or move on?
Q. its melba again. The issue is that he said that the problem is not me, that he has problems and wanted to solve them alone as some of them the are so bad that i would think the worst of him. He said that he does not know whats happening to him, as ...
A. 19 October 2007: leave him tell him call me when you find out and go out and meet other people he does not know what he wants good luck... (read in full...)
How do I have him back without feeling stupid if he refuses the reconciliation?
Q. i recently split with my boyfriend over some thin stupid really but things were said and now i want him back i dont no how to do this without lookin stupid if he knocks me back...
A. 19 October 2007: just be honest if he cares he come back we he does not because he does not care of course i don't know the whole story why you split up good luck... (read in full...)
I feel he should be more committed and that he treats me poorly but my shouting and crying don't seem to be working. How do I spend more time with him without feeling I'm forcing him to?
Q. Hi. I've been seeing a guy on and off for the last nine years ... a long old time. We got together when we were still at school, I'm 25 now. After an 8 month break we got back together in June 07. In the past we have both hurt each other - we ...
A. 19 October 2007: you relationship sounds like my only mind is worst do like i going to do respect is important you have been with this guy for nine years that a long time i have been six the day i moved in with him three years ago the moster came out yes i was hurt ... (read in full...)
He argues with me, just because. Will our counselling be a waste of time?
Q. So I'm with a 32 yr old and I'm 26...when we met we got along sooo well. Then we moved in and found out he gets bothered by the toilet tissue being downside or if something is laying there for more than 20 min, etc. He has a really bad temper and ...
A. 19 October 2007: you do not hate someone because you help them you do it becomes you love them seems to me i think it would be hard to share his life with any women and if he gets mad for toilet seat and other things i don't think you want someone you always have to ... (read in full...)
He likes me but does not love me, should I wait or let him go?
Q. i have been going out with this guy whom i love so much,but after some time he told me that he wanted me to give him space for two months as he has some problems.during the talking we had some arguement and he started saying that he likes me but ...
A. 19 October 2007: answer let him go spaces for what he should know if he cares only in two months what will it be in six moths find someone that know what he wants good luck... (read in full...)
Can anyone advise me on how to do it?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a while and i want to know how to give a hand job and a blow job to please him as best i can, please can you help?...
A. 19 October 2007: you might try buying a book with pictures good luck... (read in full...)
We haven't even hugged/kissed once!
Q. hiya... I've been going out with my boyfriend for 6months now after a long time being good mates , but we havent even hugged/kissed once, With his X he hugged her all the time, i don't understand why he wont, i admit that im to shy to make the ...
A. 19 October 2007: answer i think is clear to see he like you has a friend but he does not share those feelings for you yes you should be hurt and tell him drop dead he needs to be told just what kind of person he is belive me when someone feels something for someone ... (read in full...)
Our life schedules clash...Wheres the time for me, his wife?
Q. My husband and I have different schedules. I go to bed, he is downstairs on his computer. I wake up, he is asleep until 10am (he works from home). Then he takes a nap during the day so he can stay up at night. Do I have the right to ask him to ...
A. 19 October 2007: answer seems to me the good habits have been lost i live with one just like that never sex affection never to busy for other things but never time for me yes it hurts i would talk to him about it shape up or ship out that's the decided i made why ... (read in full...)
All my life I have suffered from Body Dysmorphic Disorder
Q. All my life I have suffered from Body Dysmorphic Disorder but i really want to change it now but i dont know how. Its a lot better than it used to be. I'm 22 now and still incredibly shy and quiet around new people and always worrying what they ...
A. 19 October 2007: you could right want you wanted to say and express yourself so not thinging all these stupid things and give your self a chance you are stronger maybe that a average person is look at singer that are blind people that don't hear but still dance i ... (read in full...)
They both say they love me, I don't want to choose, is it okay to stay involved with both?
Q. is it possible to be inlove with two people at the same time? both say they really love me and i dont know how to choose or if to choose. i am going mad...
A. 19 October 2007: you can like two people has friends do they know that each other exist and how do you feel or is it the idea that turns you on i live that a long time ago and time took me to the one i should really like good luck... (read in full...)
Is this love, or is this friends with benefits?
Q. I was separated and became involved with someone who was a friend. She spent alot of time with me (she was going thru the same thing) and was very affectionate. It seemed like we had something very good happening to both of us and others around us ...
A. 19 October 2007: maybe she just need a friend that sometimes happy if she does not want that you can made that happy talk to her and if she does not want that then stop seeing her because you will get hurt because right now you in love but it is a two street good ... (read in full...)
How do I not scare this woman off?
Q. Okay so heres the deal, Ive never really been a dater. Ive always been the type of guy who would pick up some easy company for the night(I know i a scum bucket) Ive been in one major relationship my whole life and that was for about 1 year before ...
A. 19 October 2007: well take it one step at a time and see where you go only time well tell even if your busy you must take the time to know and understand each other and be honest so she see the real man not someone that pretends he someone else the person she likes ... (read in full...)
We're in love but both of us are married.
Q. Here's my story,I am inlove with this guy and he's inlove with me also, but both of us are married.Both of us are really attracted to each other and we have a whole lot in common. We get along pretty okay. At the beginning we used to talk on ...
A. 18 October 2007: Answer: He has a wife, and he has children. Your marriage was arranged. His wasn't. I think he is just playing a game. I bet you're not the first. Maybe I am wrong, but you should not play around when you're married. Leave him, then you can ... (read in full...)
Why does he react this way towards me?
Q. there is this guy in my class, he keeps looking at me. i have no interest in him whatsoever. i had never talked to him before. what he has done to me and reacted to me is making me feel uncomfortable and a bit angry. this is the first time he has ...
A. 18 October 2007: well i think he likes you but because you never talk to him he does it to bug you i think there a bigger chances he like you good luck... (read in full...)
How do I save her when she doesn't want my help?
Q. my best friend since kindergarten just told me that she is a lesbian. we have been friends all our lives and i dont know what to do homosexuality is a big big sin and i know that she will go to hell for it. i told her this and she said that god lo...
A. 18 October 2007: answer she is how she is and you can not tell her to like men instead of woman the world has changed a lot there is more and more people like that you can not help the way she thinks you have to except her like that or never talk to her again you ... (read in full...)
Many mental problems in our family, any advice to my questions.
Q. Okay here is a seriously family problem i need help with let me give some background first. *scroll down for the questions* I'm 16, I have 6 older sisters, 5 of them have mental problems, only me and one other sister dont. As we're not allowed n...
A. 18 October 2007: yes the world is a beautiful place but you are strong and have a good head on your shoulders and your mother maybe hates you for that i think you father would care not to let her back into you life the best thing is try to find some good friend some ... (read in full...)
How do you know if a guy wants to break up with you or not?
Q. How do you know if a guy wants to break up with you or not?? I have been seeing a guy for 3 months, we get to see eachother bout once a wk but lately this has become less and less and i feel that he has withdrawn from the relationship. We have up ...
A. 18 October 2007: you have only know him for three months the guy problem knows you care very much about him so if the placing else where he knows you will forgive him he does not think of you find someone that does not loose there phone and treat you like a lady it ... (read in full...)
Health concerns for sensitive area
Q. I hope you can help me. I have been having problems with my clitoris - it has inflamed and increased in size for a few days to the size of a peanut and then it collapses released some discharge and is sore for a few days going back to its normal ...
A. 17 October 2007: answer talk to a doctor and see what he tells you or a health person your body is telling you something good luck... (read in full...)
I don't understand his language
Q. If a man simply cannot say "I love you" is it possible that he replaces these words with another phrase, such as "It's suppose to rain today so drive carefully."? My guy says this or something similar whenever I tell him I miss him, or I love him or ...
A. 17 October 2007: i think because he does not so he just say it a different way i give you a example i lived with a man for six years last three he never told me he loved me never buy a card with the word love no sex no affection after a while i grew to hate him my ... (read in full...)
Why do I stay when he beats me?
Q. why does my boyfiend beat me up? i have been with him just over 6 months and we have started having sex but only because he wants it. if we aregue he always hits me. he starts arguements to bilittle me and he says hes scared of me breaking up with ...
A. 17 October 2007: yes i know someone like that he does exactly what your boyfriend does then he all loving with her this started three years later she left him get far away from him before you end up dead this guy is sick and need of help and if you stay he will ... (read in full...)
I thought her plan of moving included me but she stopped calling and the relation of 5 yrs just ended! How do I not lose faith in the concept of love?
Q. Hi, I am a 25 year old man who has just been 'dumped' by my girlfriend of 5 years (who is currently 24). I know that there is no good way for people to end a relationship but in our case she gave me the impression over the last few months (whil...
A. 17 October 2007: yes some people use a person sometimes you love them but the other person is not really in love just were to blind to see five years is a lot to throw away but if it had meant to be it would have sometimes god does us a favorite he just don't see it ... (read in full...)
My half brother is married to her elder sister. We see each other in secret. Our families disagree. How can we win this?
Q. I'm 25 and i'm really, truly, madly, deeply in love with my girlfriend. She's 20 but the problem is everyone(my folks and hers) swear they wont let us get married cos my half bother is married to her elder sister. I know she's also crazy about me ...
A. 17 October 2007: he only your half brother if they can he happy do as my nephew did they got marry came back home and that was that good luck... (read in full...)
I'm waiting it out to see if he calls me.
Q. An ex is calling to let me know that he has arrived safely to his out of town worksite. He says he wanted to let someone know that he was ok and how to get in touch with him in case they needed to. Strang thing is he had already called his best ...
A. 17 October 2007: seems to me he should have called the person we love first and now he giving you the number i find out what happen in between where he was and what he did something may be wrong unless he can explain i check out his worksite at night if i was you ... (read in full...)
I am not coping with this break up well
Q. Help me please, because I really don't think I am capable of dealing with this situation. I really love this guy and he loves me. We broke up 4 weeks ago. The reason for the breakup was basically, his alcoholism. We've been together for mor...
A. 17 October 2007: it not the fact he from a different country i would not go out with someone who drinks and is abusive stop feeling sorry for him and think of yourself if you help him and still he not trying hard to kick the habit there a good chance he never will ... (read in full...)
Went abroad and back but still not over him
Q. I split up with my boyfriend of 18 months almost 6 months ago, I struggeled alot at the loss of my best mate of 2 years, and rather than dealing with the pain i ran away to do volunry work in ghana, for 3 months. but having returned 2 months ago he ...
A. 17 October 2007: i wrote you twice becomes you when away to forget him that does not work it does not matter where you go your hurt follows i tryed that read the other e-mail and try that if you like to write me at my e-mail you can good luck... (read in full...)
Doesn't he get it?
Q. Dear Friends,my bf has made all plans for him to go on holiday, without taking me into consideration at all, and YET he claims that he Loves me, and wants to be with me! I dont know if im exaggerating,but if i Do love and Care for Somebody, would ce...
A. 17 October 2007: answer a trip alone for a month well six months is long enough to know how much you like someone and i would not even think of go on a trip without someone i care to spend ever moment with he should still be crazy in love with you well i guess you ... (read in full...)
Went abroad and back but still not over him
Q. I split up with my boyfriend of 18 months almost 6 months ago, I struggeled alot at the loss of my best mate of 2 years, and rather than dealing with the pain i ran away to do volunry work in ghana, for 3 months. but having returned 2 months ago he ...
A. 17 October 2007: answer no see him keep your mind busy stay far away from him you have made it this far keep on going and the cloud will turn into sunshine the best way is to cut him right out of your life yes now and he cross your mind but each day will get better ... (read in full...)
Is he taking a second look?
Q. I flicked my hair when I walked past this guy who is 2 years older than me in school to try and get his attention and he just stared at me for about 5 seconds like he was thinking about something and then he said "do your tie up a bit there" and he ...
A. 17 October 2007: answer is that all the said seems very strange i really don't know about the situation to tell you if he does or not write give me a little more information good luck... (read in full...)
Girls just wanna have friends
Q. Hey i just moved to a new country and i had met new friends and we all hang out alot but both of them started liking me, i like them to but i dont want to be more than friends, i dont even know them that long.. i dont know what to do i tried talking ...
A. 17 October 2007: answer you have been honest with them they can't except the
the fact that all you want is to be friends find new friends and just don't answer there calls or hang out where they do after a little while they will give up good luck... (read in full...)
How can I accept that one of these days the only girl I've ever loved will find herself another sweetheart? Especially whenever I believe nobody will love her as much I do.
Q. My ex really wants us to have a friendship after we finished 3 1/2 months ago after she became tired of the long distance aspect of our relationship. We were together for 2 years. I accept that I'm probably thinking irationally when I believe that ...
A. 17 October 2007: answer you know when someone breaks up with you it hurts you believe so much in that person i have a son of 27 he is a only child he lived with this girl for three years he has changed very much since his smile is never there he never answer the ... (read in full...)
Should I let him come back if only for the sake of the baby?
Q. a man that I love is very ill - we weren't get along very well. we just had a baby - the baby wasn't even a month old yet and he left me.... if he gets feeling better - should I let him come back - even if that means us fighting alot and me being ...
A. 16 October 2007: answer depends what he is ill from and i don't think he would much help and the child is better living in a happy home and not one where there unhappiness and a lot of angry unless this man becomes better from his illness i say no he can see his ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want to commit! What can I do?
Q. I didn't call the man i used to date the last year after he said to me that he didn't want to marry me or see me often. I intend not to call him again because i would like to find a real relationship with a man and i would like to be with someone ...
A. 16 October 2007: answer guys like that you said goodbye not for the fact he does not want to marry we do not say i don't want to see each other often when might mean he just wants to play the field or he likes what your giving him sex wise or maybe something he does ... (read in full...)
How can I accept that one of these days the only girl I've ever loved will find herself another sweetheart? Especially whenever I believe nobody will love her as much I do.
Q. My ex really wants us to have a friendship after we finished 3 1/2 months ago after she became tired of the long distance aspect of our relationship. We were together for 2 years. I accept that I'm probably thinking irationally when I believe that ...
A. 16 October 2007: give your self time to forget go out and look around you and you will see a lot of beautiful things to help you forget in time you accept it and besides what are you losing someone who does not even care you deserve better than that ask yourselves a ... (read in full...)
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