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How do I not scare this woman off?

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Question - (19 October 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 October 2007)
A male United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Okay so heres the deal, Ive never really been a dater. Ive always been the type of guy who would pick up some easy company for the night(I know i a scum bucket) Ive been in one major relationship my whole life and that was for about 1 year before it came to a screeching halt. Since then Ive never cared to be in a relation ship again. But I started this dating service this year online, and I actually meet someone I really wouldnt mind to carry on a relationship with. We went out twice so far. Once for coffee and Once for lunch. That was over a course of two weeks. Frankly I like her enough that Im willing to take another crack at relationships again. But my question is how to get her. I found myself hesiating tonight from sending her a text message to ask her out for a third time for a night on the town. Now I am a very busy person and she knows it. I want to get this girl but I dont want her to think Im a straight up werido cause number 1 we met on the Internet and number 2 we have only met twice. I dont want to seem creepy and dont want to f this up cause I tend to foolishly rush into things please help.

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (19 October 2007):

Don't expect her to put out on the third date.

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A female reader, ladysuzanna Canada +, writes (19 October 2007):

ladysuzanna agony auntwell take it one step at a time and see where you go only time well tell even if your busy you must take the time to know and understand each other and be honest so she see the real man not someone that pretends he someone else the person she likes right now is you and if it is meant to be it will but you must play the game of love fair good luck

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