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writes:a man that I love is very ill - we weren't get along very well. we just had a baby - the baby wasn't even a month old yet and he left me.... if he gets feeling better - should I let him come back - even if that means us fighting alot and me being unhappy (just for the baby). he lives 900 miles away and i want him to have a relationship with his son - what do I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks dapone for that - its scary thinking of all the things wrong with him
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reader, dapone 1  +, writes (17 October 2007):
 hi
i can tell you what has caused three of your husbands complaint high blood pressure,is an affect of diabetes,congestive heart failure is cause by a natural chemical in the body cholesterol, there are two affect to this one is a good part which clears the vain to stop them becoming blocked, the other cholesterol blocks them up again,things like junk food, chips ect, all block the small vains in the heart, all the other affect can also be affected by diabetes, liver failure,heart failure, respiratory failure,this is due to of the failure pancreas,it stop making insulin which in turn does not break down sugar in your system, all the above can and are treatable with different types of drugs, i can not list the drugs because there are so many types, each person is different and takes different drugs, most people who diet and take there drugs on a regular basis recover from the ill side affects that is type 2 diabetes, type one diabetes has the same affect except instead of taking tablets you inject insulin into your blood stream,this still means that if you take care of yourself eat proper food you can live a long and happy life.
hope this will help you
best wishes
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (16 October 2007):
hi
because you have a baby i believe you have enough on you plate to cope with, it is true what others have said, baby's do pick up on moods and argument that adults have in ear shot of then, they are very aware of there surrounding at a very young age, i am sure that you and baby would be better off with out this person in your lives, it will be a big burden for you to continue this relationship,it will be hard at times, but the joy your baby will give you will make up for that, i hope you will make the wright decision and stay away from him.
i wish you lots of luck and hope we have helped you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questiona question asked was what is he ill from? you name it and he's got it -- high blood pressure, congestive heart failure, diabetes, anemia, serious edema, etc.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2007): Althought your baby is very young, I'm sure he'd want his Mum to be happy even if he can't express it yet. He will know and sense when your angry, upset etc - and fighting even in front of a young baby is no good. He will learn things like arguing and fighting to get what he wants.
He can still have a relationship with his Son even if your not together. What's the point in being together if it makes you unhappy? That isn't going to do your child any favours. I do think it's a question that you should already know the answer to, just because your not together doesn't mean he can't be involved.
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reader, ladysuzanna  +, writes (16 October 2007):
 answer depends what he is ill from and i don't think he would much help and the child is better living in a happy home and not one where there unhappiness and a lot of angry unless this man becomes better from his illness i say no he can see his child without hurting you both you should think of you and the baby ask yourselves does this man really care if he could go so far away from you and his new born child i am making a guess about his illness if it drugs and drinking find someone who real deserve you and the child good luck
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