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writes:My ex-boyfriend and I broke up a few weeks ago. We were in love, it just happened to be at the wrong time for him. So he ended it with me. A little more than a week ago, I started dating my current boyfriend. He is everything I have been looking for in a man and he treats me well. Things were going well until the other day, when my ex-boyfriend wanted to talk to me in person. He told me that he wanted me back and a bunch of other sweet things. I ended up sleeping with my ex-boyfriend and I haven't told my current boyfriend yet. I want him back too because I still love him and I don't love my current boyfriend yet. I'm just afraid of getting hurt by my ex when I know my current boyfriend will be there for me. It's hard to choose between someone you know is right for you and someone you love. I just need your opinion on who would be the better choice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2007): I'm currently going through something similar with my current girlfriend. She hasn't seen or heard from her ex in a few months and suddenly he wants her back. Her entire family and friends call her stupid because, not to show off, I treat her with nothing but respect and I've given her feelings that she said she would never get anywhere else. The problem is I think she still loves this dude and to be quite honest, I can't be with someone who loves to guys. I know it sounds wrong but I would much rather be the "what if" guy because she obviously left her first BF for a reason so she'll be second guessing her relationship with me.
As far as you cheating on your current BF. TELL HIM!! I would want to know that way I wouldn't be waisting my time. There's someone out there for everyone so if I was cheated on I know I could find someone with a clean plate who would never do such a thing to me especially when she knows how much I love her.
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reader, ladysuzanna  +, writes (19 October 2007):
 i think your ex boyfriend is doing it not becomes he wants you back but just to make trouble he had his turn why did he not keep you and give you the same things has the current the current one cares very much but you should not be sleeping with the x becomes your not being honest with the current you stand a chance of losing both good luck
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reader, rcn +, writes (19 October 2007):
 You owe it to your current boyfriend to tell him you cheated on him. I really don't think you're in love with either one. Usually a few week time for people who really do love someone,they're still healing from a break up, not going out with someone else.
Choose the ex, let your current boyfriend find someone who has enough respect to be faithful.
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