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writes:I didn't call the man i used to date the last year after he said to me that he didn't want to marry me or see me often. I intend not to call him again because i would like to find a real relationship with a man and i would like to be with someone that he is really interested in me and spend a lot of time together. However, i don't know how i should react if he calls me. What should i say to him? I like him but the problem is that he doesn't want to be committed. I want to say him that i am not interested in someone who can't be committed to me. If he calls me i want to make him decide. I don't want to be offensive. I want to make him realise that i am interested in him only for a real relationship and he would be the one that he would accept it or not. What is the best way to react? Reply to this Question
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reader, ladysuzanna  +, writes (16 October 2007):
 answer guys like that you said goodbye not for the fact he does not want to marry we do not say i don't want to see each other often when might mean he just wants to play the field or he likes what your giving him sex wise or maybe something he does not have that you do your wonder what a car money i also live with a person for six years then i found out after all that time is was not me but what i had and what this guy is saying is exactly what my said and he never commited either so i hope it gives you a good idea of i telling you but also i do not know you whole story but i think he likes to play the field good luck
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reader, crystlay  +, writes (16 October 2007):
I agree...I met a guy and he was expecting different things from a relationship than i was and it didnt work out at all, i just ended up getting hurt.
Maybe u could just be friends, find someone else who wants the same as u, they are out there.
gd luck and take care
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2007): You are looking for a long term relationship. He is not. You each want different things from each other. This is not a good foundation for the kind of relationship that you are looking for.
Forget him and try to find a man who wants the same things in life as you do.
Phil
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