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How do I have him back without feeling stupid if he refuses the reconciliation?

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Question - (19 October 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 October 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i recently split with my boyfriend over some thin stupid really but things were said and now i want him back

i dont no how to do this without lookin stupid if he knocks me back

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (19 October 2007):

Danielepew agony auntIf you want him back, you need to tell him, and then run the risk of being rejected. Sorry, there is no other way. If you don't want to do this in person, perhaps you can send him a letter, or e-mail, or a text message, whatever. But, if he doesn't want anything with you, the situation will be the same.

Take care.

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A female reader, ladysuzanna Canada +, writes (19 October 2007):

ladysuzanna agony auntjust be honest if he cares he come back we he does not because he does not care of course i don't know the whole story why you split up good luck

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (19 October 2007):

kenny agony auntThe only thing you can do is arrange to meet him somewhere and just explain to him that you feel it was really stupid what you split up over. Tell him your sorry and never wanted to split up in the first place. Give him time to think about it and if he decides he wants to give it another shot then all well and good. But if he decides its not what he wants then at least you will know where you stand and can move on with no shame.

I hope it goes well for you, take care x

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