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36-40,
anonymous
writes: hay guys!my heads in bits at the mo and my hearts shattered i just dont know what to do?im 22 ive had my fair share of heart ache and i really thougth this time was the real deal u no!id been going out with this guy for just over a year, we were perfect together, then with his new job he had 2 go away for a while! when he came bk he'd changed so much moodly and not like the guy i loved an known!then he told me he didnt have feeling for me and we broke up.we tryed the friend thing, but ended up in bed together several occasions! then we were getting close again texting meeting up on dates etc....id not seen anyone the 6 wks we'd been broken up because he gave me hope we'd get bk together.... and i loved him.then he came in to our local night club with another girl... i was so heart broken, he just didnt understand! he didnt feel like he'd done anything wrong but im my eyes and my head and his actions made me think we were getting back together!!now im so angry? i dont no what to do with my self my friends have set me up with this new guy and he seems so sweet is understanding but i just cant do it im angry hurt i just dont no what to do with my self im keeping busy, i have not cryed because i think im still in shock! i just dont no what to do! plz help any advice would be welcome
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reader, ladysuzanna +, writes (19 October 2007):
well i think you see that it was not true and of course your heart has to mend before you can love again give it time don't ever talk with this guy and change places so you don't meet up with him until the sun has come out in your live again and cry hundred times if you want it helps the pain to go away and talk to your good friend becomes that also helps and start looking a little at a time just look next time before you leap good luck
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (19 October 2007):
Obviously he does not have love for you that you were expecting. We all make mistake, then we must move on. It's hard at first but it gets easier as you go. After this you shouldn't be thinking about getting him back. You don't want that.
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