I can't climax with my boyfriend. How can I relieve the sexual tension?
Q. Hello, I have a sex question. I posted about this topic yesturday but have more to add. I've been with my boyfriend for a little over two months now, im 18 hes 25. And Lately he says all ive wnated to do is have sex, and i have. Im consantly "h...
A. 9 January 2013: Well right now since ive been pushing, there is no foreplay, its just ill do it if youll shut up about it... and he hates when i guide his hands, saying he knows where to put them... Im not sure if well do better if i just hold off on it for a while ... (read in full...)
Is there anything I can do to reduce my sex drive?
Q. Hello, I have a sex question. I've been with my boyfriend for a little over two months now, im 18 hes 25. And Lately he says all ive wnated to do is have sex, and i have. Im consantly "horny" when im around him, and when im not with him i thinkg a...
A. 8 January 2013: I can only get off bu cliterol stimulation...... (read in full...)
Things have got out of control, One minute it's good and then Boom he deleted me. What can I do?
Q. hello! I’m in a very difficult situation. Let me start from the bringing. My cousin's friend told my cousin he liked me, but I currently had a boyfriend so he didn’t pursue it, after me and my bf broke up, I got his number and we started texting,...
A. 10 October 2012: Okay, so i sent a closure text message for me, and he didnt reply so that says everything, i may pick it up again next month... but you ladies are right we both need time, thanks... (read in full...)
Does he have feelings for me and is afraid of being hurt?
Q. Alright guys, im having a huge dellima... I met this guy through my cousin, and it seemd like a good idea. We atrted texting, we met once but it was brief, and i knew there was just something about him. I thouhgt about him off and all, and he final...
A. 21 September 2012: Well, he finally texted me last ngiht syaing he needed time, then said he wasnt a dependable guy right now and that he hated ignoreing me... wtf does that mean? hes not dependable?? andif he hated doing it... why is he??... (read in full...)
I've lived in the same small town my entire life and it's getting depressing. I need a change. What should I do?
Q. I've been feeling depressed recently due to many things. Mainly school, growing up, and love. I'm going to be a senior in college and I'm studying business. But I hate business because I dislike math. I can't stand all these graphs, numbers, and ...
A. 22 July 2012: Even with your major, you still will graduate college, wich is good! you can still get good jobs not doing what you majored in! or if you want to do other things, you dont have to major, theres small classes you can take to get you on your way! in ... (read in full...)
He says I am becoming obsessive and we need a break!
Q. I need advice... and fast! Me and my boyfreind have hit a rough patch, its like im the only one trying in the relationship, hes been stressed and i know that but he doesnt show me he cares anymore, i asked him 2 call me twice! at different times ...
A. 22 July 2012: hey, thanks for all the comments! i didnt call him for 2 days and he recently called me, on his own, and we had a decent talk, not about the fight, he told me some reasson on y hes stressed and he told me he loved me, first, and the conversation was ... (read in full...)
Do you ever look?
Q. Ok question: Do any of you women or men in any type of relationship ever ever snoop or look thru draws, files papers laying out computer, phone looking thru the boyfriends/girlfriends things when they arent around? Am I the only one who NEVER ever ...
A. 16 July 2012: Yes, ive gone through my boyfrineds ENTIRE room, you cant really know someone unless you do... you learn alot from things you find see... but i wouldnt go looking unless you expect the worse... it isnt a bad thing! unless you tke it to whole ... (read in full...)
My husband ogles other women, flirts with other women in front of me, and is mean about my body since I had our baby.
Q. I had our baby 5 months ago. During my pregnancy, I was on serious bed rest, and meds, for 3 months, then after, I had to recover from Caesarean for another few months. I was approx 110lbs when I got pregnant, and gained quite a bit of weight due ...
A. 16 July 2012: Well for one, dont feel bad about your body, it was the home of YOUR baby, you grew it right there, it sahould be a beautiful thing! but i do understand wnating to get the weight off and its good your tring! baby weight is one of the harests to ... (read in full...)
How can I get more hours in my work???
Q. This isnt a relationship question but i hope to find some answers... I work at a pool in concessions, so there is no need for alot of us, theres 2 managers, 3 team leaders, and 4 part timers, im part time, the thing is, i work 3 days- 4 hour shifts, ...
A. 13 July 2012: there are literally no jobs. thankul i got the 1, but its pointless if it doesnt give me anything... (read in full...)
What should I do? I still have feelings for him, even if he is cocky. Is there hope we could try again?
Q. A while ago I started seeing a school friend but it was really brief only a few weeks and he started seeing someone else. So I was annoyed at him for dumping me and cheating on me with this ottper girl (kinda why we broke up but he didn't know I kn...
A. 7 July 2012: There is aways hope! he seems like he likes you too? Just embarresed or scared around you. hes not sure what to do with the feelings he has, but honestly i would talk to him about these feelings... but i also wouldnt put aside that he's broken your... (read in full...)
I'm underweight and looking to gain weight... What should I do?
Q. I’m underweight. I’m 23 year old, male. My height is 5'9 feet/179 cm, weight 143 pounds/64 kg. I want to know how can I increase my weight? Which type of foods are good for me? Which types of exercises will help me? Can I join a gym? I feel I need ...
A. 7 July 2012: I'm thinking any excersies that builds your muscles... like weights, pull ups push ps, you dont want to exercise to lose weight so really body builds, and food wise you want to eat to gain doesn't mean your food can go to unhealthy, Spaghetti is g... (read in full...)
How do I handle my boyfriend's drunk father?
Q. I'm living with my boyfriend for the summer because i wanted to be closer to him. His dad is an alcoholic, he drinks a 30 pack a night and on the weekends its double that, and always gets drunk, and when hes drunk, he is not the best person to be ...
A. 7 July 2012: Im sure he would confront hyis dad if it didnt mean my boyfriend getting his butt chewd, its a loose loose situation... his dad is only about himself, and i want to stay with him, i just need advice on how to cope...... (read in full...)
How do I handle my boyfriend's drunk father?
Q. I'm living with my boyfriend for the summer because i wanted to be closer to him. His dad is an alcoholic, he drinks a 30 pack a night and on the weekends its double that, and always gets drunk, and when hes drunk, he is not the best person to be ...
A. 7 July 2012: we live in 2 different towns, only 15 minutes away, but mines a small town theres nothing here and itd be more of a hassle for him to stay here and waste the gas going to his work and mine.. it would bee asier for us 2 stay there...... (read in full...)
How can I spice this relationship up?
Q. Alright, im not sure where to begin, I've been with my boyfrined for 2 years, in these 2 years alot has happend trust issues cheating blah blah blah, weve overcame it, but lately, and this has nothing to do with his chetaing, but my sex drive with ...
A. 7 May 2012: See, you are missing the point, i dont want to hear about dropping him, thats not what im asking advice about, if i wanted to break ot pff, i would have, hes a great guy!... (read in full...)
I've grown up but my boyfriend of 6.5 years hasn't!
Q. Hi I just wanted to get someones opinion about my relationship... I have being with my man for 6 and half year we got together when I was 15 and he was 20.. Since then I have grown up a lot and he doesn't seem to want to grow up.. In terms of jobs ...
A. 1 May 2012: Hi,
Well it doesnt seem odd that your not attracted to him, he refuses to get off his butt and help, i wouldnt worry to much about that, id try to approach him about it, tell him if things dont change youll leave, cause that may what it comes do... (read in full...)
Can I reconcile with my gay best friend under these circumstances?
Q. Hey guys.. I need help here. So i have been trying to reconcile with my ex who is a male. Long story short, he was my bestest friend and although we never clearly opened up to each other that we are gay/bi, i can sorta confirm he liked me (romanti...
A. 1 May 2012: Okay i have a few suggestions 1. You can gradually sstart talking to him (facebook, texting etc...) ask how hes doing, and try to keep a conversation going, and gradually work up to hanging out, zand all that, this isnt the fastest way, but... (read in full...)
Does he just need time, or will I never mean as much to him?
Q. Ok, so this guy who I've liked for a really long time told me he doesn't want a relationship with me. He recently broke up with his girlfriend of 8 months and since then, we've been getting closer and closer together. A few weeks ago, we ended up ...
A. 1 May 2012: Well, you could tell him how you feel, see if that will work? bring him to relise once youve have sex, youve shared the most intimate part of yourself.. but if hes acting like this, he isnt worth it, he probably wants you to beat yourself up, it ... (read in full...)
Do my dreams about my ex mean I want him back?
Q. i have a quick question. i broke up with my ex of two years in june. i really did love him and care so much for him, but we got to where we fought so much that i just felt it was hopeless. i moved out and started seeing another guy. recently my ex...
A. 5 October 2011: More times than not, when you dream about an ex (girlfriend, boyfriend, husband, wife), it isn’t really THEM that your dream represents. Usually (though not always, of course) it’s the period of time that your mind is revisiting – your ex just ... (read in full...)
I need help making my younger man happy in bed
Q. I'm wanting to continue make my younger boyfriend happier in bedroom we been together five months he says I don't work my back or hips enough in bed give me tips to keep man in my bed we stay complete I thought I was doing good he says I only got ...
A. 5 October 2011: Well, you being on top you can be in control and help yourself climax, since you know more about your ORGASMS than he does. Do you have problems with your hips? that is causeing you not to be able to work up to expectations? OR maybe just need to ... (read in full...)
I can't stop thinking about my ex boyfriends!
Q. I cant stopp thinking about all my ex boyfriends is this nirmal? I,m not in a relationship at the moment but its weird I keep thinking about them all...
A. 5 October 2011: Everyone does this sometimes, They were people you loved, its normal to go back in time, i do this sometimes, ecspecially when i talk to them. If you dont wnat to think about them, keep your mind busy, or think of a hot celeb, but its normal :)... (read in full...)
Why am I so shy with my boyfriend?
Q. How come i am so shy with my new boyfriend?? idk why, we been dating for almost 3 weeks and i kissed him yesturday. Why did it take me so long. And why am i fine when i don't talk to my x but when i do its kinda like why did i dump him, and when i ...
A. 5 October 2011: Well It is a new boyfeined of only a couple weeks,I wouldnt rush it, just slowly wokr your way up to not being shy, kiss a little more, touch a little more evrytime, It might help. Chances are, hes just as shy!!! or just talk to him about it, ... (read in full...)
Do you think not talking to him will change his mind about how he's acting and he'l come chasing after me?
Q. Lately, me and my now ex boyfriend have been haveing relationship problems... we have had a rough year, from cheating, lying, breaking up, losing babies... and it seems right when we get to the point where our relationship is healing... he breaks up ...
A. 5 April 2011: Ive Told myself, that im not texting him anymore, if he txts me, ill txt bak, but only 1 message, no duplicates, and i refuse to text him first, he got a letter last night of how i felt about him, so hopefully things will look up soon, thank you so ... (read in full...)
Is there any way our fooling around could have caused pregnancy?
Q. I'm extremely scared, probably freaking out a little too much. But I need help. My boyfriend and I were in his car fooling around this past weekend. Clothes were on. By accident I put my hands on the inside of just the top of his jeans and it felt ...
A. 5 April 2011: You will be fine, stop freaking out, theres a 0 to no chance you could be pregnant, worry more when u dont have ur period for 2 months, this is what i always tell my friends" dont worry until you have a reason to"... (read in full...)
B/f wants to have sex without a condom
Q. im 15 and my 15 yr. bf finaly got me 2 give him a b.j after 2 mounths of dating and now after 3 mounths he is trying 2 get me 2 give him my vergenity and he said we should not use a condom cuz it feels better w/out 1 then he said he wnts r 1st time ...
A. 5 April 2011: Bad idea hun, for 1, if your not ready for sex dont rush it, i lost mine when i was 12 and regret it... you need 2 use a condom, for one, you never know whos he had sex with, if you knw ur ready, then thats up to you, but the std chances, and ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend is extremely insecure and controlling
Q. My girlfriend is extremely insecure and controlling. To her credit, she was absolutely honest with me up front about her "tendencies" but said during her 7 months of being single prior to dating me, she had softened up a bit. (Her ex-boyfriend of 2 ...
A. 5 April 2011: This sounds like me and my now ex boyfriend, I know how i like to be treated, and she probably doesnt want anything to happen... and i personally think you should comfront her about everything... it probably wont be pretty, but communication is a ... (read in full...)
Why do I not attract nice men?
Q. I'm 33yrs lasy year a guy i normally wouldnt be interested in asked me out he a farmer 40yrs came across shy at first everything was going well except he wanted to keep our relationship secret i was ok with this at first as we have same circle of ...
A. 5 April 2011: Oh Sweetie, all weomen attract horribale men! its just the matter of if their worth it.. Im currently going through a horrible break up, and all the men ive dated were players, its just something we all go through, my advice, stop dateing for a ... (read in full...)
Why does he want to keep all of these pictures of her and them together?
Q. I've been going out with my boyfriend for very nearly a year. We got together only about 2 weeks after his last long term girlfriend ended their relationship which is a fact that I only recently found out. That wouldn't really bother me (as I've ...
A. 8 February 2011: I agree, When i saw pictures of my now finace, of him and his ex, and even pictures of her naked! i knew he was cheating on me.. Maybe that what your dealing with? I would just call him out on it say "either u open up to me, get rid of the pictures, ... (read in full...)
How can I fix things between us and kick this other girl to the curb?
Q. so ive been with my boyfrined, Scott for over 4 months... im always worried about him cheating, but its never really bugged me, cause i never thought hed do it, well there was this girl Bella, that i askedt o him to stop talking to, he did, and then ...
A. 17 July 2010: i dnt think you guys are gettin everything... its a complicated story, the easyest way to explan it wud be to talk to you guys... or sened you a video, its hard to type everything... but thanks for youe help... and he cnt feel trapped or anyting, ... (read in full...)
I don't see my internet boyfriend enough in real life!
Q. hi i met this guy in a chat room about a year ago,we both felt something special,we kept talking everyday and we made a deal to meet first in person to decide where our relationship can go,so we met and it was cool and he became my internet...
A. 4 May 2010: Yeah this is normal, But if this is the first long distance relationship youve been in, its gonna take some time to get use to, i had this problem before,i just talked to him alot, and we sent alot of pictures, i DO NOT recommend doing this if this ... (read in full...)
He dumped me because of his friend!
Q. There was this guy back in highschool, who I really liked. But I knew that we'd never be together because he didn't see me that way, if you know what I mean. He was really interested in a friend of mine, and even when she told him she wasn't ...
A. 4 May 2010: You didnt do anything, its normal for a guy to do that, its the saying "bros before hoes" not saying your hoe of course. but its kinda the only way i can help u understand, guys form packs and sometimes they dont care if something ruins it, but if ... (read in full...)
Help! What are the signs that a shy guy likes you?
Q. Hello. What are the signs that a shy guy likes you? Are there any hints at all? Thanks....
A. 28 March 2010: Check the Body Language: If the guy has fallen for you, then his body language would certainly show it. You will find him sitting and standing close to you and most of the times leaning towards you. A true test of finding out if he is interested is, ... (read in full...)
Friend or more than that?!!
Q. I have a very good friend of mine, we stay in college all day together, even now when the college is off, everyday she calls me atleast once. But the thing is she is scared to meet me off the college coz she is scared that someone might see us ...
A. 28 March 2010: hmm, well you could always just ask her out? that should really fix the problem... or well give u an answer, but if you dont wanna jump into that, gradually get closer to her, start hanging out more... you know?... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is still actively looking online and he avoids discussing the subject
Q. mi feel jealous of my bf's web usage. we live together. he still meets girls online. he keeps his singles/dating profile active. he tells me they are just friends that he chats with. what gives? i don't know what to think. to me this is cheating. is ...
A. 27 March 2010: Well, if he wont bring it up, your gonna have to, and keep pushing it on him to tell you, or well, honestly this is what id do, try to find a pasword and look at his things, thats bad i know, but if u wanna avoid the disscusion and to get the facts, ... (read in full...)
He is waaay too clingy for me!
Q. Ok so my bf for 3 months almost 4, hes getting a little clingy, and i dont blame him. i use to be clingy, but i mean i wouldnt have a problem with it if it wasent constant. he says i love you waaay to much, i try to give him hints that i need space, ...
A. 9 February 2010: its to the point where everything he does annoys me... he says things i love to hear to much, so they lsoe their meaning, and he knows this he does it for 2 days then starts again... sometimes i wanan throw the phone against the wall... thats how ... (read in full...)
He is waaay too clingy for me!
Q. Ok so my bf for 3 months almost 4, hes getting a little clingy, and i dont blame him. i use to be clingy, but i mean i wouldnt have a problem with it if it wasent constant. he says i love you waaay to much, i try to give him hints that i need space, ...
A. 9 February 2010: but then if i tell him to go hang out he goes into the whole "i have no friends"... (read in full...)
Am I going about this the right way? Is there anything I should be doing?
Q. Okay I’ll try not to go into this too much because it is a long story…. But me and my ex have been broken up for nearly 6 weeks (we were together for 7 months). We split up cos I suspected he wasn’t over his ex of 3 years (LDR) and he finally a...
A. 8 February 2010: I think your doing what you think you should be doing, If he keeps doing it, then your not gaining anyhting. Do what you think is best, You think it'll be different, and it hasent that has to be a sign...... (read in full...)
I want my boyfriend to do something bad so I hurt. How can I fix this?
Q. Ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 months, i love him to death and he is so good to me, he treats me like a princess, but I want him to fight with me, i want him to do something so bad i hurt. Now in my past relationship they have ...
A. 28 December 2009: Thanks guys... You helped ALOT! Ill try my best... Ima already kinda feeling better about this all... ... (read in full...)
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