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writes:How come i am so shy with my new boyfriend?? idk why, we been dating for almost 3 weeks and i kissed him yesturday. Why did it take me so long. And why am i fine when i don't talk to my x but when i do its kinda like why did i dump him, and when i don't or when he randomly calls me i remember why i dumped plz answer both of these questoins, much appreciated thanx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2011): you are really young, and you have only been in a (highschool) relationship for three weeks. Of course you are shy and having doubts about everything.
Just try and calm down and enjoy getting to know your new guy and see how things go.
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reader, kaiti30 +, writes (5 October 2011):
 Well It is a new boyfeined of only a couple weeks,I wouldnt rush it, just slowly wokr your way up to not being shy, kiss a little more, touch a little more evrytime, It might help. Chances are, hes just as shy!!! or just talk to him about it, talking with him might be the best solution so he can comfort and make you not so shy..
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reader, fishdish +, writes (5 October 2011):
 q1-maybe you're just getting used to your new guy, and you really like him and you don't want to mess up?I think it's normal to be cautious, especially after what sounds like a recent break up.
q2- you say you're fine not talking to him and occasionally you're reminded of why you aren't together. q2- people aren't 100% good or 100% bad. so it's hard for us if we're reminded of the good in the person. If you truly believe in moving forward and want your new relationship to be successful, you might need to cut ties with your ex completely to get over the hump and not have old wounds opened OR cherished times relived. If you think you're being fair to your new bf and yourself in honestly wanting it to work out with him, you'll have to leave this old time behind you. If you're not ready, maybe you need a little more time before this new relationship.
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