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anonymous
writes:Okay, So I've been going out with this guy for just over 2 months now, The 1st month was really new and exciting, we acted like we were best friends and still had so much to share and talk about, It was really fun and amazing and we both put 100% into our relationship because it was the very beginning. But after the first month things started to slow down, like we'd got used to eachother, We didn't communicate as much, I don't get butterflies anymore, And i'm always insecure and annalying myself, doubting if he still loves me. We still act like it and see eachother a lot, and laugh a lot, But i'm not too sure if he's gradually going off me because im acting differently at all, like i said, im always annalysing myself and trying to change me. Or whether after 2 months, we've got used to eachother and can just relax with the relationship and still love eachother more than before? help. I'm confusing myself by writing this too. I want to know if this is a good sign or a bad sign? am I doing something wrong changing myself? I'm just never satisfied with my personalitie, and never know which personalitie he falls for? if y'know what I mean? :S I can't remember what it was like back in the flirting days with eachother :/ help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2010): thankyou guys :) this helps a lot :) I may just try and be myself and see how he likes it, and if it's still bad, I'll take a break for around 3 days and see if he misses the real me or decided he doesn't want me back, thankyou :-D xx
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reader, raiders  +, writes (5 May 2010):
 You two probably feel more relaxes in the relationship. Once you feel comfortable to be yourself around your boyfriend/girlfriend is a good sign. You should not consider changing you should always be yourself, and as a relationship feels more secure the couples start to feel more natural.
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reader, laetitia  +, writes (5 May 2010):
 If you act too insecure about yourself, it may turn him off. Just try to be yourself and to have fun regardless if he is around or not. Always smile when you are with him. Try to engage him in activities with you and your friends and maybe family later on.
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reader, iloveyhoo +, writes (5 May 2010):
 Maybe your both just starting to get bored, according your age here your about my age, so to be honest experimenting is the best.. But what i found what really helped me , which maybe you should take into consideration is that what if your explained to him that you want a break for about 3 days and make it clear that you defo not splitting up. When things go on hold and you ahve a break, you really do get a chance to think about what you want and what you need.. Then after a specific amount of time speak to him, and if your both willing to go out again, it will work better, as you will know what your missing andwhat you want, so you'll try harder, and then it should kind of get back to how you started...
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