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I have a suspicion he's being devious. How can I trust him again
Q. I have been seeing my boyfriend off and on over 2 yrs,it usually only lasted 3 months at a time but this time we've been together for 7 months.I have trust issues because he has lots of girl friends and many of them he met on internet date ...
A. 24 December 2010: can I ask you a question? Are you happy? Like, honestly happy and feeling any kind of joy out of this relationship? It seems like ur spending all of ur time and energy focusing on this guy and what he does and what he says, but what about you? If ... (read in full...)
My ex still has my heart and its so annoying!
Q. i split from my boyfriend about 3 months ago, we havent spoke or anything since coz i want to get over him. i thought i was over him, but i started talking to this lad i really like and i cant seem to fall for him, my ex still has my heart and is so ...
A. 24 December 2010: I definately agree with Love-Wisely. Unfortunately, the only thing to do is wait until you are completely over ur ex before starting a new relationship. Time will heal ur heart, but very slowly and u need to be patient. I'm sure if u went out wth ... (read in full...)
I'm not feeling pleasure from sexual acts and wondering why?
Q. Hi! I am 15 years old and i cant understand a thing. So i use to estimulate my clitoris and i love it but i cant put anything on my vagina because when i put i feel a little bit of pain but nothing to worry about and i dont feel anything, like i d...
A. 23 December 2010: It sounds like your just nervous and too focused on getting everything right and feeling things u think u should feel. I think anyone can feel pleasure when they relax and just enjoy foreplay, sex, etc. When the time is right, and i know it may ... (read in full...)
Do I wait for him to call?
Q. Just wondering what men think..... I met a guy for dinner that I met online... we hit is off great. Had a great time. Met for a second date... it was hot. Did some making out... I did not do it with him. Told him I dont do one night stands. He...
A. 23 December 2010: Well I'm a 20 year old but I believe I can still give u an answer to what I think. Sometimes guys are just so caught up in the single life and tell themselves they do not want to get involved, get hurt, etc. If he is calling you and making the ... (read in full...)
I know he's the one...but not sure if he feels the same.!
Q. This same sorta question probably appears a lot but anyway.. .I met this guy in work just over a year ago and really hit it off we liked all the same music and tv shows and I had never met someone so like me before... Everyone in work thought ...
A. 22 September 2010: This guy definately has some feelings for u, but probably just needs to spend some more one on one time with u. guys can sometimes be shallow, but u shouldnt judge him and think thats all he wants. when it comes down to it, i feel that guys really ... (read in full...)
I get the feeling that I just annoy my boyfriend!
Q. ive been dating my boyfriend for 22 months. Everything was good until about u year ago he told me he didnt have any feelings for me, even though he said he didnt mean it, i just cant believe it. Lateley i just get the feeling that i jus annoy him. ...
A. 22 September 2010: The best thing for u to do now is to give him space and time to figure himself out. It seems like he forgot how much u mean to him so he needs a wake up call. If he does love u and wants to move in with u, he will come back and love u even more than ... (read in full...)
Mixed signals? He's so hard to figure out
Q. Ok so I met this guy at school and I've liked him ever since school started back(3 weeks ago).He was dating one of my friends at the time so when they broke up he knew one of my other friends and she got us talking.It turns out he's really funny and ...
A. 22 September 2010: This guy obviously has a crush on you, but you do not know what he wants. Even though you feel like u should make a move, let him figure things out. Never underestimate playing a little hard to get at first too. If this guy likes u, he will be the ... (read in full...)
I'm feeling very vunerable and needy for somebody!
Q. In the past year I have lost all my friends to university (they are all far away) and generally drifting away/poor effort to stay in contact. Then 6 months ago i found out my boyfriend has been cheating on me for months and I ended it with him. ...
A. 22 September 2010: Of course you are going to feel vulnerable, and everyone goes through this at least once in their life. You have been hurt and need time to heal. The worst thing u can do right now is go out and find any guy to make u feel whole again. You want to ... (read in full...)
Are there any safe ways to remove unwanted hair at home without expensive tools?
Q. i have hair on my stomach and my back. having hair in my armpits, legs and you-know where is normal, i know. but it's summer and i want to wear bathing suits and go to the beach and not feel like people can see the hairs. is there any SAFE way to ...
A. 28 August 2010: Believe me when I say that you are not alone on this one. Shaving is always the safest way to go. It's easy so while your in the shower it takes a few seconds and your bathing suit ready. Waxing hurts and doesnt last very long. I've tried other otc ... (read in full...)
I'm too much of a people pleaser and not true to myself! How do I stop doing this?
Q. i need advice because im sure theres something wrong with me. it sounds silly but noone really likes me. this isnt about feeling sorry for myself but im convinced theres something wrong with me. when i was younger my dad left my mum for his sister ...
A. 28 August 2010: Well I can relate to you completely, and I'm not just saying that. I'm shy and seem to never make friends or just let loose and be myself. Recently, I've tried a new thing where I say screw it, if anyone is mean to me or says anything. That doesn't ... (read in full...)
How to flirt?
Q. How do u flirt with guys? I need tips please. Advice, lines, anything. Pleasseeeee! xD...
A. 28 August 2010: Guys love compliments. You don't have to go over the top or say more than one thing, but say anything about him. Ex: that shirt looks really good on you. or i love that watch its really nice. Touch his hand or his upper arm lightly during a ... (read in full...)
It seems as though he may like me...but then he ignores me!
Q. OK, I like this guy, and sometimes it seems like he likes me. for instance: 1-we were supposed to go to a fair w/a group, but it rained, so (over texting) he said he might go see a movie instead, and I said that sounds like a good idea, and he organ...
A. 28 August 2010: It seems like he's trying to make you jealous with other girls, so I would be careful with this guy. He may be a player who just likes girls, or he may really like you but not know how to go about it. You just have to take some more time to see ... (read in full...)
Help this relationship please
Q. I know this sounds bad but i have a boyfriend who's shy. He wont say anything sexual. I told him today that im a little horny sometimes...and now im afraid im losing him. He didnt reply back ( it was over Facebook ). What should i do? What can i say ...
A. 28 August 2010: How long have you two been going out? I am going out with a shy guy also and I know where your coming from. You did not mess up by writing that, he probably just isn't that comfortable with u enough yet to talk like that. Ease up on the sexual talk ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to only spend 1-2 nights per week with your partner?
Q. Is it normal to only spend 1-2 nights per week with your partner? My partner and I have been living together for over two years, and I have always shared his time with his daughter (to a previous relationship) and his work. He spends 3 nights p...
A. 28 August 2010: Its totally normal to spend 1 or 2 nights a week with him. He works, has a daughter, and has a new passion doing his band. I am sure you also have work and other priorities. Maybe you should join a club or activity to keep yourself occupied while ... (read in full...)
Should I let him approach me? what does he want?
Q. Hey, im on my friend's account, and im 14.....i just started my freshman year of high school two days ago, and i think i found someone who is showing signs of liking me, but im not sure. He's definitely older, and i see him at lunch because he sits ...
A. 26 August 2010: Well nobody can know exactly what he wants, but do you like him? You said he can be mean and he gives u bad looks, so do u really wanna approach him? Your still very young and theres so many great guys out there that u will meet. But if ur ... (read in full...)
Love sick??
Q. i went out with this guy that i really liked and he liked me and swore he hated this other girl. well one of my friends that i really trust or i did trust cuz OP's own title. i liked him b4 i dated this guy said that my bf was just using me to get ...
A. 26 August 2010: he hasn't answred ur calls, accepted ur friend requests, and he said he didn't wanna try it again. I would just move on, even though you may like this guy and it hurts right now alot. When you think about, do u really want a guy that makes u ... (read in full...)
Help to find a summer romance.
Q. so im going away in just under 2 weeks, not abroad just to another part in england. im going with my mum and friend, but me and my friend will be going off by ourselves, to have a bit more fun, i want to find a summer romance. nothing serious, i ...
A. 26 August 2010: I've learned that a romance will come when you least expect it and when ur not looking for it. I honestly believe this. Have fun and do things you love, and someone special will come your way. I'm a shy person too, so I know how you feel. You feel ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I made the right decision!
Q. My boyfriend and I have have been together for nearly a year, the other night something happen that scared me. We were lying in bed and I accidentally hit him in his, er, area, it was a complete accident and I apologized straight away, but he turned ...
A. 26 August 2010: Be careful with this guy and if he physically abuses you in any way again, definately break it off. It sounds like maybe he was just having a bad day or it probably really hurt. If he does anything like this again, don't expect that it was an ... (read in full...)
Is this a date or just friends meeting up?
Q. I need some advice (hopefully from guys and well as girls). So I'm meeting a guy from work for lunch at the weekend. His suggestion. We've talked a few times at work, and he drops compliments from time to time, but we've never been out together, ...
A. 26 August 2010: Him suggesting the date in the first place signals that he wants to be alone with you and see you. I would just go with confidence and be happy this guy is really noticing you. Dress nice, something u feel comfortable in also, don't dress too sexy. ... (read in full...)
Misunderstood lovers
Q. Me and my boyfriend are currently in a long distance relationship and have been for a month. We are 15 years old and live 700 miles apart. We talk everyday, and in no means are growing apart. We grow closer everyday. We have known each other for 2 ...
A. 25 August 2010: You are only 15 and shouldn't be looking for someone to marry yet, its way too early. You can definately be in love when your 15 and its great you guys are doing this, but just make sure you both are 100% comfortable and happy with this decision. It ... (read in full...)
I hate my boyfriend, I'm lonely and sad..
Q. I need a lot of help with something. My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year now and we have lived together for most of that time. 2 months into the relationship he started calling me curse names and yelling at me constantly. When he ...
A. 25 August 2010: Do not put up with abuse of any kind. Love is supposed to make you feel happy and you will not be happy with him. Please move on as soon as you can, you are better than this.... (read in full...)
I can't open up and be comfortable around him
Q. ok, so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little over 4 months now. ive always been really shy and one of those people who needs to warm up to people before actually being comfortable and myself around them. the thing is, usually after 4 ...
A. 25 August 2010: I think your focusing so much on getting over this, and your not relaxing and giving it time. Everyone warms up in their own time and this is normal. If you two like eachother, just tell him how you need some time and ask if he can be patient with ... (read in full...)
I get nervous on dates and my mind goes blank
Q. Help! My conversation always dries up in social settings-dates, with groups of friends... I get nervous on dates and my mind goes blank. With groups of friends, I used to be a bit of a chatterbox with my friends when I was a teenager, but I was ...
A. 25 August 2010: Well I can relate to being depressed, so I know how hard it can be. Be thankful that your better now and ready to meet new people and get out there. The best thing to do while on a date or with friends, is relax and breathe. Think of things ahead of ... (read in full...)
I wanted him, then I didn't, now I want him back! Help!
Q. so im a 16 year old girl and just about 6 months ago i lost my two best friends over a boy.. one of those friends had talked to this boy and liked him before so thats why we arent friends. this boy was my best friend until we started dating in ...
A. 25 August 2010: You need to step back and think if you truly want him in your life. It sounds like you two have had alot of history and ups and downs. I would just ask friendly, casual, and try to talk to him as much as possible. The worst thing to do is play ... (read in full...)
Why am I so insecure about my boyfriend's friends?
Q. I don't know why I am becoming increasingly sensitive with my boyfriend friends. He is someone who has a lot of friends and sometimes when I am out with him, there will be a lot of people who will call him and even sms him. And when there is girl ...
A. 24 August 2010: its totally normal to feel insecure, that means you honestly care about him and want him to care about you. you just have to trust that he likes you and that everyone else around him are just his friends, nothing else. Try messaging alot of your ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him about all the problems I feel are in our relationship?
Q. i'm in love with my friend, that i meet year 2007, but before we dont have any afair, coz we only friends, and i got broke up that time, but he likes me a lot, and last year 2010 we meet again in the phillippines, i never thought that i will fall...
A. 24 August 2010: It's always better to be totally honest and tell him everything thats on your mind. He will appreciate when your not afraid to speak your mind.... (read in full...)
How do I take my mind off my crush?
Q. Infatuations...I really hate them. So I just met this guy through my friends and I've only seen him like three times but I'm kind of having a little crush on him now and I want to get over it, because this always makes me nervous around the guy a...
A. 24 August 2010: Well, you say that you don't want to further this into a crush or relationship, yet you can't stop thinking about him. Why don't you want the possibility of dating this guy? He could be a great guy and like you back also. Try to see him again soon ... (read in full...)
Is this a text breakup?
Q. Breakup line or not " I think I better take a break for awhile"...
A. 24 August 2010: This could be a break up line, and it could be his way of wondering how you feel about him. He figures, if she likes me enough, she will try to stop me or ask me about it. The important thing to do is, talk to him about it. Communication really ... (read in full...)
Chest hair removal... how do you deal with the itching?
Q. Hi all, I just need a bit of advice. My new partner doesnt like my hairy chest (just the chest!!). So I used some hair clippers and trimmed it all to practically zero...bare chest for the 1st time since puberty. I quiet like it..s...
A. 24 August 2010: Alot of men shave their chests now, especially if their girlfriends dont like hair. You should use unscented and natural body lotion and apply it once or even twice a day. Lotion will keep the skin smooth and make it itch alot less!... (read in full...)
I felt something was wrong so I looked at his phone, he does not know this, what do I do?
Q. recently my husband went on a trip with the boys. which he often does. I have always had great trust in our relationship. He called and texted everyday to check in. Upon returned, he asked if the washing machine was empty while he was still in ...
A. 24 August 2010: If you do not bring up anything about it, you will torture yourself everyday not knowing what is going on. I would tell him you were suspicious and that u looked at his phone. If he loves and cares about you, he may be mad at first, but he will ... (read in full...)
He's confused and wants to take a break, but wants to be in a relationship and likes me. What to do?
Q. Ok, so I've been in a relationship with this guy for about 4 months now. Before a few days ago, our time together has been amazing, every date is perfect and we have so much fun. We see eachother twice a week, he's a total gentlemen, he plans our ...
A. 23 August 2010: Thank you guys for your answers!
To Pazush: We've met eachothers parents. We do not know eachothers friends yet. We haven't had sex because we want to take it slow. We talk for hours and hours without getting bored. And were both 20 yrs old.
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I want to be single but cant bear to leave him...
Q. (Title chosen by poster was taken) hi Ive been with my bofriend for 3 years now. Althought i love him very much i cheated on him a week ago. me and my boyfriend have a love hate relationship we can argue all the time but always end up laughing a...
A. 23 August 2010: It seems like if your with this guy, your full of disappoints and fighting. You want to find the guy that won't disappoint you or be selfish at all. I know it will hurt so much to be single, but it will be better in the long run. And who knows, ... (read in full...)
Should I start to wear make-up or do I just forget about it?
Q. Not sure how to word this question...basically I'm 16 and I've never worn make-up. Does that mean it's too late to start? I have no knowledge of how to apply make-up the right way. I know that if I one day decide to suddenly start wearing it, people ...
A. 23 August 2010: First of all, you don't need makeup for a guy to notice you! Your only 16 and I'm sure your a pretty girl. If you want to know how to apply it correctly, go to the mall and ask someone at a makeup counter to do your makeup. This is usually in Macy's ... (read in full...)
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