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*allenAngel1
writes:i bumped into my ex of four years abt 3days ago..we broke up fr a year it was a bumpy relationship but i loved him through thick and thin.he ended up breaken my heart into thousands of little pieces and i felt exactly the same way at dat moment.it ws the second time since our split that ive seen him and we totally ignored each other,i was trying to play cool when he walked past me i acted like i never saw him and when i walked past him i never looked at him.he was there with a group of people and his current girlfriend.im stil not over him becos evrytym he comes online my heart stops waiting for him to chat but he rarely does and wen he does its normally to judge me. That nyt he smsed me and says that i never changed..meaning because i was with friends and i was drinkin.it really really is tearing me apart because i have mixed feelings.i dont kno wat to do.iv hurt him badly in the past to but iv always gave him evryting he wanted.ii was even willing to leave my family as we are from to different religions and even thou my family was against him i stil stuck with him. Hes lied to me a million tyms..one lie being so drastic for a two year period..i stil love him and hate him at the same time because of all the hurt. Any advise wil help. Wat do i do..how do i get him out of my mind.? Or wil i ever stop loving,thinkin and dreaming about him. When can i ever be happy again..
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reader, Trinklett  +, writes (26 May 2011):
 You probably will never forget him but you've got to stop thinking about him. I'm guessing you were more into the relationship than he was and that's why you miss him so much. Take out sometime on your own and look back at that relationship if you need to, 'grieve' over it. But let it end there. You've got to move on with your life. Life is not all about him.
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reader, iloveyhoo  +, writes (26 May 2011):
 You will eventually be happy again, just some things take logner to pass by than others, and you will the right person for you one day, you just have no idea when, however whenever you see this guy you may always get that feeling, after all you was with him for so long! I think it will all be ok in the future, good luck with everything and remember everything happens for a reason.
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