A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:im 18, and im getting married. dont get me wrong im totally ready for the comitment and i really do love this guy, but recently my ex(first love) came back into my life and now im doing the whole "what if" thing. i know that i want to marry my fiance but he won't let me be friends with my ex and i'm kinda mad about it and ever since he said i can't talk to him i lost the spark. i know its because im thinking of my ex a lot but how can i fix it
View related questions:
fiance, my ex, spark Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (15 November 2008):
You fiance telling you what to do has made him less attractive to you. It would to me as well.
And you are remembering all the good times with your ex, but also remember all the hurt and how you broke up.
This could all just be a side effect because in reality although you may be ready for the commitment, you may be having second thoughts about the man you've chosen.
Be careful that you may also be just thinking that the grass is always greener.
Good Luck!! xx
|
