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*arlgoo
writes:I can no longer stand my girlfriend's dad! He is a great guy but he stresses me out so much and the last 2 days i have had this bad stomach ache because i have been so stressed!..He no longer wants me to put my arm around her and hold her unless she is on her period! He says this because he understands how when holding each other like that emotions flow and you get aroused..He wants to minimize those emotions because he wants our relationship to last and thinks if we start that then it won't and we aren't ready for that!... I am really frustrated with this. We made out last weekend and he's really blown it out of proportion. this rule was in place even before we made out but my gf and i didn't know that it was not ok with him and so just this week he has mentioned it. and he sees nothing awkward about this! ahhh what do i do?!
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reader, karlgoo +, writes (21 November 2008):
karlgoo is verified as being by the original poster of the question Ya thanks but she really gets uspest if she thinks she is upsetting anybody and it is hard on her too because she feels like she she is upsetting me and doesn't want to upset her dad even if he is not around. (or won't find out).
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (15 November 2008):
The fact he wants you to hold her when she's on her period, which is the most emotional and hormonal time of the month for a girl says to me that he doesn't know what he's talking about.
Get out of his house and then you are free cuddle and kiss all you want. But she will have to agree to lie to him
He says he wants the relationship to last so he obviously likes you, it might be worth asking him why he thinks you are stupid enough to do anything to jeopardize what you have with his daughter and ask for some trust. Tell him all you want to do is put your arm round her, that is hardly going to get her pregnant.
Perhaps he doesn't want her to have boyfriends at all? It's tough but because of your age you really just have to deal with it.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Jendorset +, writes (15 November 2008):
Get some time together out of his house, if your under his roof he will keep butting in. Spend some more time at yours or go out together a bit more. Go for walks and diffrent things. Its up to you and her to decide if you are ready not him. message me if you need anymore advice.
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