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writes: My boyfriend wants to have sex and I dont because hes not willing to wear a condom. If we're alone he'll pull me close, kiss me we usually start to make out and take off our (just a shirt or something) clothes and he'll try to remove my bra (Im extremely self-conscious about my breasts). I him push off then we end up fighting so I leave cause our fights can get pretty nasty. Now he's not talking to me. What do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2017): Walk away dear. He is after sex and he doesn't love you truly.
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reader, Harry Castle  +, writes (23 April 2009):
 If you let him back into your life, the abuse will just start all over again before the flowers have even wilted.
Close that door and keep it closed; there is someone out there who is worthy of you and will respect you.
He doesn't love you, by the way - just following his dick!
Harry.
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reader, jerking4ever  +, writes (19 January 2009):
 Personally, my girlfriend likes it when I get rough with her, but that's just my relationship, why don't you call him up and make a deal or something.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2008): this doesnt sound like a understanding boyfriend, if he is in love with you then he wouldnt force you into anything... it sounds like he just wants some... i think you should tell him this, do you realy want to be with some one that is willing to force you into it, when there are other guys out there that wont, and be happy to let you make the choice with out fighting over it... good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy boyfriend text me saying hes "sorry" and wants me back. I honsetly don't want anything do with him but him to leave me alone. He even came to my house with flowers. Just you know I slammed the door on his face lol. What do I do?
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reader, helpjayne +, writes (16 November 2008):
 it wasn't to harsh it's your body if it hurts you then he's not really expressing his love for you is he. you deserve better anyone does than that. go find someone that takes there time getting to love every inch of your body.
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reader, oldfool  +, writes (16 November 2008):
 The idiot isn't qualified to be with a woman. He got what he deserved. I doubt if the next girl will have him, either. He obviously hasn't got a clue. Good riddance!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy boyfriend and me were making out again without our shirts. He started getting really rough (which I dont like at all and he knows it) He grabbed my breast (again something I dont) and biting it and he started hurting a bit. So I push him off. He get mad at me cause i'm not letting him "express" his "love" for me. It cause this pathetic fight and I had eoungh him not respecting my feelings so I broke up with him. Was that to harsh?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2008): Honey read this very closely and remember what I'm about to say. LEAVE HIM WHERE HE IS, NOW! What kind of guy that ever hopes to be a man would ever make try to make someone he probably tells that he "LOVES," to have sew without some kind of prevention method. You have 10 TIMES MORE TO LOSE THEN HE DOES. You're virginity, risk of AID/HIV, an unwanted pregnancy or abortion. If he's not willing to wait another guy out there is. And I hope he doesn't tell that stone-age lie "I LOVE YOU!" Most if not all guys don't link love to sex, but they know that you do, so they say all the nice things you want to hear to get in your pants. DON'T BELIVE IT! And if he's already trying to undress you against you will... RUN! I mean save yourself, you're better then that. Let him keep his silence, and you cna keep you're virginity!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2008): Break up with him and don't give him another thought. He in no way deserves even a moment more of your time.
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reader, aaron bluck +, writes (15 November 2008):
my answer is going to be just like the other say if you don't want it don't do itunprotected sex is a risk getting pregnant, or possibly catching and STD, move on and find another guy that has respect for you and will understand your feelings for safe sex
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (15 November 2008):
He is being a selfish pig who wants to use you for sex. He actually cares more about it feeling good for him, than the fact that you might have to bring up a baby and have your young body WRECKED by pregnancy.
I think it's clear he has no respect for you and doesn't care about you at all. He just wants sex.
Dump him.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2008): No means No! If you're not ready, you're not ready!! Don't let him intimidate you into having sex. Stand your ground! You have a say in the deal. If he won't talk to you, then he's not your boyfreind...He's just a guy looking to screw you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2008): If he really loves you, sweetie...then he would pay his respects to you, and use a condom. And he really shoulnt get mad at you for letting him go as far as he wants to. Dont be selfconscious about your breasts, for perfectly fine as you are=)
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