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For the ladies: a few questions on the subject of attraction...

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Question - (15 November 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 15 November 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Just a quick question or two from little old me. Which notion is 'sexier': a relationship which has evolved over the years from friendship or one which has evolved through, shall we say, 'traditional attraction' e.g. eyes meeting across a crowded room? Also, would a woman prefer to pick 1 from 10 men or 1 from 3 men in an office environment? I think I know the answers but would love to have your confirmation, ladies! Thanks and have a good evening!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2008):

Every woman is different.Strangely I have never been attracted to any of my friends.Probably because I knew all their dirty secrets.ha ha.Eyes meeting in a room sounds definitely sexier to me.If a guy I liked asked me out in my work place I would definitely go out.I would pick one from the 3 men.I had an arranged marriage.It was fun imagining the scenario.Thanks.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (15 November 2008):

You are aware that we ladies are human and not a breed. We all like different things so my views are going to be nothing like the girl you want to know about. If you think that you "know what a woman wants" then you are probably clueless.

I have done the building up from friendship thing. It lasted 3 years. We had some good times but grew apart.

I've done the eyes meeting across a crowded room thing. One of them lasted 1 night and I regretted it, one of them lasted 1 night and I think of him fondly, and 1 of them has so far lasted 5 years with no sign of ending.

As for picking a man out of an office environment (if I break my rule of not shitting on my own doorstep) I want to pick from as many as possible.

But then I wouldn't date a guy who works in a suit all day as he'd probably be very boring.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, elitzabeth United States +, writes (15 November 2008):

elitzabeth agony auntdefenitely, for me it has to be a relationship which evolve over years from friendship. 2. I don't like to pick man so it would be 3, and picking a man from the office or work is a big no, no for me..

hope it helps

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