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Why did he ask for a kiss if he's interested in someone else?

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Question - (15 November 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 15 November 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

What's going on in my life at the moment is really confusing. Me and my ex have been split for around four weeks now, we still are friends and have everyday contact over the phone.

Anyway last nite - like most Fridays, I saw him down the pub, hardly spoke to him, when i left he rang me to see if i had the money i owed him from weeks ago which i had. I gave him the money and had a bit of a chat, nothing crossed my mind, and when i was going to drive off he said to me GIVE ME A KISS, I REPLIED WITH 'WHY?' AND HE SAID, 'CUZ I SAID SO', THEN HE WENT ON TO KISS MY LIPS. WHY?

It seems really strange cuz he dumped me to go out with someone who he's not out with yet, but is very good freinds with, and he always says there's no going back into a relationship with us, but he knows i will go back to him if he asked.

What's he doing, and why did he ask for a kiss if he's interested in someone else?

Please help

Amy-Jayne

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2008):

Its alright if you kissed him.Sometimes the journey to kissing a true prince begins by kissing a frog.

According to what I have read he is definitely a frog.Don't let that slimy creature come back in to your life.You deserve better dear.All the best.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (15 November 2008):

Because he was drunk and he wanted

a) a kiss

and

b) to feel powerful, you stood and let him kiss you so he knows he still has power over you.

He's an idiot, if he asks for a kiss again then say NO and walk away.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, Asked Angel United Kingdom +, writes (15 November 2008):

Asked Angel agony auntSorry hun but probably as an ego boost. If he wanted to be with you he would. You said you had been to the pub could he have been drunk? Why are you having daily contact i belive Ex's can be friends but only when they are both over each other and move there relationship to a friendship. This is not easy but can be i done. It doesn't sound like you are there yet. Good Luck.

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