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Is there a chance that this relationship can be saved?
Q. For the last five months I was living with my boyfriend. He moved in only a few weeks after we started dating but we have been friends for several years. Things were going great, our kids got along well and we all had fun together. The problem is we ...
A. 14 November 2009: FIRST OF ALL STOP DRINKING!!! SECOND OF ALL i think it could work if he loves u too! u could try asking him to move back in and see wat happens!!!!! GOOD LUCK :)... (read in full...)
How can I do better in school?
Q. I am a university student and my friends and groupmates doubt my ability to do well in my studies. It is definitely not a good feeling and I am beginning to feel increasingly inferior and lost the confidence in myself after this. Exams is next week ...
A. 14 November 2009: saying dat u WONT DO WELL!!! WILL MESS U UP by taking ur confidence away from u.... if u want somthing really really bad u have to work really really hard to get it!!!!! STEP 1: make a study group with those smart people and get help on the thin... (read in full...)
Should I date my bad boy best friend?
Q. ok so this will only take a few seconds please help... my best friend is 19 and i am only 17 he says he is in love with me.. i think his really hot and sweet and his a bad boy 2..... but i dont want it to ruin our friendship... i trust him with all ...
A. 14 November 2009: THANK U GUYS SOOOOOOOOOO MUCH :) i think keeping it just as friends is a good idea and i did!!! but now his super pissed at me and is crazy drama.. his acting like a child :( idk wat to do..... (read in full...)
I lied about my virginty. Can a man feel your hymen?
Q. I am a virgin, but for my own personal reasons I do not want my guy to know. We are having sex for the first time tomorrow night, and I'm afraid he might feel my hymen and know I lied to him. I don't care about the bleeding, since I know that can...
A. 4 November 2009: why did u lie???????? ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is icy cold and won't even cuddle!
Q. Hello aunts! I am 21, have a girlfriend for 2 years and I love her more than my life. I am in deep heart ache these days recieving each romance restriction from my girlfriend every other day. 1st of all, she is never willing to go on a date with me. ...
A. 3 November 2009: u sound like a great guy! any girl should and probably would be glad to kiss u... i would say dump her and find a new girl that would be glad to kiss u!!!
GOOD LUCK tell me how it goes :)... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to want to date my friend's ex-boyfriend?
Q. A friend of mine hooked up with a guy over the summer. (Mostly likely as a rebound as she had just broken up with her boyfriend of a year). They slept together a couple times and then she told him she didn't want anything more from him. At the bar ...
A. 3 November 2009: Well if I was your friend I wouldn't like it. But that's just me. Take it slow and talk to her about it.. and see if she is really ok with it. Good luck+++ =) ... (read in full...)
I want to spend quality time with my boyfriend, but he just uses my house as a flop-house!
Q. so i just got back with my boyfriend but the thing is i only see him when he comes over and sleep which is like at 2 or 3 in the morning, he gets up at around 11:30 and then just lays in bed until he is ready to leave which is around 1:30 or 2 and ...
A. 3 November 2009: HE IS a total jerk any real man that loves and cares for you wouldn't be using you!! And I would have not even gave that jerk a second chance......... (read in full...)
He was abusive and now he's clingy. I want out, but how do I deal with the emotional blackmail?
Q. Ok I don't even know where to start. I've had a boyfriend for just under 2yrs. The last 6 months he's been different...like taking me for granted. He wouldnt take me seriously, didnt want to hang around me, would make fun of me and my weight and ...
A. 3 November 2009: Dump him! Dump him! Dump Him!... (read in full...)
Is my good friend just busy or is she upset with me?!
Q. hi everyone, in the past week i have been confused by the way one of my best friends is acting. We've known each other for a couple of years and are within a tight circle of friends. We usually meet up for lunch every couple of days, and ...
A. 3 November 2009: YEAH maybe she is busy but if ur soooo worried u could offer 2 help her.. have u tryed asking her to lunch???????? she doesnt have to all the time u know!!!!!!!!
I dont think shes mad but then again... u could have done somthing with... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's best friend has interfered with our relationship!
Q. I met this guy a year ago and we have been taking it slow. Recently his best friend came back to town and is thinking about moving back. He is with us all the time. I don't mind, but... Things he is doing creep me out. He calls me all the time. ...
A. 3 November 2009: get the friend to say that he likes u then u could just show that to ur bf and cant make up lies anymore!!!! and if ur bf really cares about u he will go back to normal just the way he was!!
GOOD LUCK:)... (read in full...)
Should I date my bad boy best friend?
Q. ok so this will only take a few seconds please help... my best friend is 19 and i am only 17 he says he is in love with me.. i think his really hot and sweet and his a bad boy 2..... but i dont want it to ruin our friendship... i trust him with all ...
A. 3 November 2009: i get what everyone is saying. but maybe u guys didnt understand what i was trying to say . i dont mean "bad boy" like he cheated. he has never cheated!! but like he is way more experinced!!!!,he has gone to jail b4...... i am really attracted to ... (read in full...)
She likes me, she likes me not. Should I pursue her?
Q. Hey so there's this girl that I like and have only known her for around 6 months, she was a friend of a friend but has now become quite close to me. Every time we meet up on a night out with friends etc we really hit it off. The only problem is ...
A. 2 November 2009: i would just say ask her out being afraid never helps. and if she said she likes u she does!!!!!!
GOOD LUCK DUDE :)... (read in full...)
I wanna lose weight... fast.
Q. I wanna lose weight... fast. What is a way I can lose a lot of body fat and tone my body up fast?...
A. 22 October 2009: workout day and night and even in da afternoon i did dat i went from a size 5 to a size 3 and you could eat less too that help too but not eating is krazy......... (read in full...)
I am acting like my parents! Help!
Q. HI, everybody. I am studying in a different country from where my parents live. My parents never really have a peaceful relationship. They argue almost all the time for everything. I didn't really understand why do they argue and fight. What does ...
A. 20 October 2009: You don't have to be like your parents!!! Trust him he sounds like a trustworthy guy and if he didn't give you a reason not to trust him I don't see why you don't! AQnd saying you're turning out to be like your parents is going to go in your head ... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and paranoid. Should I see a doctor?
Q. im 16 and suffering from paranoia which has only recently started, will it get worse? do i need to see a doctor about it? x...
A. 19 October 2009: yeah i think you should talk to a doctor or someone u trust.. ... (read in full...)
Do I tell my new boyfriend my ex was abusive?
Q. My ex told me he would hit me if I cheated on him and he forced me to do sexual acts I did not want to. My bf wants to know more about my past relationships and how they ended. Do I tell him? I was also sexually abused and I don't know if that'...
A. 18 October 2009: if u trust him tell him but if u dont trust him with all ur heart then dont tell him cause he might turn out that way........
BEST OF LUCK :)... (read in full...)
I want a real boyfriend so I don't have to lie about having one!
Q. i want know if i will ever find the guy that makes me not be able to think about anthing else. I have never had a real boyfriend its got to the point where my friends think i am so sad that i have started lying to my friends bout having a boyfrie...
A. 18 October 2009: yes u will! u should flirt and have fun...and dont lie about having a boyfriend cause if your friend find out they might lose their trust in u.....
GOOD LUCK :)... (read in full...)
Does he think I'm cute or what?
Q. Hey guys! Ok well first ill tell u a little backround info and then ill ask my question. Alright well i just started highschool in september and i saw this guy in my science class who i instantly thougt was hott. For some reason i have trouble tal...
A. 18 October 2009: if u dont feel like talking to him face to face.call him and talk to him on da phone and after a few days go up to him and say hi how are you doing.small talk and make shur he knows your shy..
GOOD LUCK:) ... (read in full...)
Why did the drunken 'you're hot' texts stop now that we're dating?
Q. This is probaly gonna sound stupid but... back before summer, this guy liked me, and whenever he went on a night out I would recieve drunk texts and phone calls. They basically said 'Your hot.' or 'I want you.' Ya know usual guy stuff. Now we have ...
A. 17 October 2009: he sound like a player! You should take things super slow and ask him whats up..... (read in full...)
Is my teacher crossing the line?
Q. Okay, there's this teacher at my High School, and I think he kind of flirts with me a little bit, and I just want to know if he might like me too much. First of all, I don't even have him as a teacher, he's only my homeroom advisor. But we h...
A. 17 October 2009: change your advisory class..... or talk to one of your teachers ... (read in full...)
What is up with her?
Q. I dont get it. Why do women tell a guy that they aren't interested in them, they don't feel the same way, reject them... then all of a sudden they end up liking you? I had a girl tell me she didn't feel the same way, it hurt so much i didnt tal...
A. 17 October 2009: ITS CALLED PLAYING HARD TO GET!!!!!!! i personally did dat a lot... i know i shouldnt have! but it was fun:) but if u dont pay attention to her and move on and flirt with other girls infront of her. if she likes u she will ask u out i mean if u ... (read in full...)
How do you approach a quiet girl on the bus?
Q. how should you approach a girl who is only a aquataince that you like who rides your bus?i think she is pretty and i wanna go out with her.im in 10th and i think shes in 8th and shes quiet on the bus.what should i do?...
A. 17 October 2009: u should sit next to her talk to her ask her namae wat grade she is in get to know her better and i think after u get to know her better and she gets to know u better her shyness would go away! GOOD LUCK :)... (read in full...)
Is this my fault for being too weak?
Q. My boyfiriend of almost 2 years is for the most part a sweet heart. But When he is upset with me, ne treats me like crap, he blows me off when I apologize or try to make it up to him. He hangs up or yells at me when I ask him what's really bothering ...
A. 17 October 2009: wat part of him is sweet???????? he sound like a jerk to me.. i would say dump him... there is a good chance he will go from yelling to actually hurting dump him and move.. there r better guys out there!! :)... (read in full...)
Is playing hard to get a good thing?
Q. ok what does a guy mean when he says "your playing hard to get"?is that a good thing?...
A. 14 October 2009: it depends on da guy! he might think playing hard to get makes him want u more or he might think u r a jerk and childish! but in ur case it sounds like he doesnt like it!
GOOD LUCK =)... (read in full...)
Should I take A break from my long term Relationship to explore options or not??
Q. Please help! I been with my mate for goin on 6 years and everything has always been ok. to my knowledge he had never cheated on thats what i believe. and we have had some rocky times in our relationship where he may have slipped up and or I slipped ...
A. 11 October 2009: well we cant tell u wat to do! but wat we think is right to do..... if u want a break from da relashionship tell him dat and see wat he thinks a break means. and u and him should think about wat u guys could or could not do cause in every ... (read in full...)
His ex is causing us to drift further apart... Help!
Q. I've been in absolute love with one of my best mates for bout 2 years now!!! We never went out but we often had a kiss here and there or whatever but I know he feels stronger bout me and i feel the same about him but how can i get him to realise to ...
A. 11 October 2009: You dont have to wait for him to ask you out!! You could ask him out!!! His ex is making up rumors because she khows he likes you, so just go for it and make him ask you out GOOD LUCK [Edited by moderator... (read in full...)
We are talking about marriage, but he can't tell me he loves me more than his best friend!
Q. So I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year now. His best friend is a girl. They have been friends since they were 13 and now are 27. They have hooked up a few times during their friendship, even cheating on one of his girlfriends which he ...
A. 11 October 2009: They have been best friends for a really really long time, 13 to 27, you do the math.... I think he does have feelings for her but it is more like a sister brother love than a girlfriend boyfriend love. However, I could be wrong. Just think of ... (read in full...)
Why don't guys find me attractive?
Q. i wake up every morning and i see different guys at my school. and i think to myself, "Why do guys find me unattractive?" i want to understand why i have no one noticing me and complimenting me, like a guy should. my question is: Why don't guys find ...
A. 11 October 2009: Are you shy???? Because if you are not there are plenty of things you could do to make them notice you! 1.You could flirt with the guy you like 2.wear things you know would get a guys attention 3.give them a clue 4.play it hard to get by tho... (read in full...)
I kissed another girl after my girlfriend left the party.
Q. Hi i ran into some problems at a party tonight. it was my girlfriends best friends birthday and they were pressuring me to kiss her so i did and then after she left another girl came up and kissed me on the lips. I feel really bad and i dont know ...
A. 11 October 2009: You couldnt stop her????? I would say tell her. She should know and if she likes you enough she would continue with the relashionship........ On the other hand you could keep it to yourself and let her find out from someone else and risk her ... (read in full...)
At what age can a girl get pregnant?
Q. at what age a girl can get pregnant?...
A. 9 October 2009: after the girl starts her first period!!!!!! well yeah hope this helped a littel!!!!... (read in full...)
How do you ease the pain of heartbreak you brought on yourself?
Q. simple question haha what can u do to ease the pain of a heartbreak that you brought upon yourself? what i mean is i treated my ex like crap and he broke up with me because of it. i had plenty of opportunities to stop, but i didnt, and just ...
A. 9 October 2009: it really depends on wat u did!!!!! he might forgive u but want to stay friends... as for the heartbreak it needs time to heal... its like when u get a paper cut it stings a bit and da next day its all better but ur heartbreak may take longer then 1 ... (read in full...)
She said she doesn't love me anymore after 8 years, how do I know if she really means it?
Q. ok my girl broke up with me 5 days ago and she wouldnt answer any of my calls or textes. so i sent her flowers and i finaly got a text back which didnt say much anyhow. i talked to her today and she told me she doesnt wanna talk to me because she ...
A. 8 October 2009: did you do anything to get her mad???? it sounds like she did love you and maybe still does... maybe you should let her be alone for a littel while soooo she can think what she wants in life if she wants you in her life or not... if she does!! she ... (read in full...)
I seem to attract girls who always end up cheating on me, please help.
Q. Im a 16 year old boy, and I know I'm probably too young to really be needing this advice, but I just want some help. I seem to attract women who always end up cheating on me. That or they're awkward relationships that end in two weeks. I don't k...
A. 8 October 2009: first of all nothing is wrong with you!!! second of all somthing is wrong with them for cheating on you!!!and i dont blame you for having trust issues i would too but never give up on love....ps:you r still young u r going to find somone you truly ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is pressuring me to go farther than I want
Q. my boyfriend wants more then just kissing..he gave me a hickey i didnt want it.... he is making me feel uncomfortable by touching me!!! and i told him to stop and he yells and says its like we are just friends nothing more... and he has slaped me ...
A. 8 October 2009: now my ex is coming to my drill practices and i feel sooooooooo uncomfortable... our drill uniforms are really short..... and today after practice he comes up to me and is like you looked good out there. i said thanks and turned around to go he grab ... (read in full...)
How to attract males when overweight and unattractive?
Q. I am a 21 year old female who is very overweight and unattractive. I am attempting to tackle my weight issue, but it is going slowly. No men ever show any interest in me, while my other friends are constantly getting male attention or are in...
A. 8 October 2009: self confidence and good self esteem:) wearing something sexy will help boost your confidence:) and guys who look whats in da inside are the ones you should be trying to find not the ones dat look to see da outside!!!! good luck ... (read in full...)
Love problems
Q. Some one please help! See theres this girl I like in my classes but I cant tell if she likes me or not. I keep having the feeling she does, but then one part of me is saying "no she doesnt" I'm so confused right now!! I think she likes me because...
A. 7 October 2009: if i was you i would ask her out before anybody else does:) good luck... (read in full...)
I feel uncomfortable about my body with my boyfriend. How do I address it?
Q. I, an American, am overweight. I'm 5'7", 195lbs, a size 14/16, and it's all in my gut. :( This is partly do the fact that when I was younger, I had surgery and was put on steroids--I was 150 pounds by the time I was 2 (seriously)! My bf (of 10 m...
A. 7 October 2009: if telling him about your weight would get you closer to him then do soo :) and you should always be confident in yourself :)
hope that helped:)... (read in full...)
Is she thinking about someone else during sex?
Q. On three occasions while having sex with my wife, I've noticed that she turned her face sideways, not looking at me ( our position was that she was under me,while I was on top of her ). She closed her eyes and turned her head side ways. Does this ...
A. 7 October 2009: ummm i agree with america52 she could be thinking about other stuff!!! dont just think the worse think about the positive!! talk to her!!!! :)... (read in full...)
I'm confused, depressed and possibly pregnant. I need advice
Q. well me and this guy have been and on and off relationship we dated auqust to november and after we broke up he told me its cuz he was 17 and i was 14 nd then he said he didnt wanna girlfriend for his gradution but then he tried to get with all my ...
A. 6 October 2009: well you said he is playing games with you!!!! if he really loves you he wouldnt have hurt you!!! and the reason he says he loves you its cause he knows what his doing is wrong but he still is using you...he is treating you like a toy he plays with ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is pressuring me to go farther than I want
Q. my boyfriend wants more then just kissing..he gave me a hickey i didnt want it.... he is making me feel uncomfortable by touching me!!! and i told him to stop and he yells and says its like we are just friends nothing more... and he has slaped me ...
A. 6 October 2009: thanks 4 your help .. i dumped him infront of the football team :)... (read in full...)
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