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*enny2010
writes:On three occasions while having sex with my wife, I've noticed that she turned her face sideways, not looking at me ( our position was that she was under me,while I was on top of her ). She closed her eyes and turned her head side ways. Does this mean she may had been thinking of someone else during our sex? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2009): I personally think your wife may have a low sex drive and is not in the mood for sex but at same time probable loves you so much she doesn't want to turn you down and goes ahead it with it, but just doesn't enjoy it and wants it to be over. Another reason is that she could find sex painful but is too embarrassed to say so. I think you and your wife need to talk in order to get this sorted or it will wreck your marriage. Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2009): i do that sometimes simply because i feel claustraphobic...or need air.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2009): I turn my head sideways.. cause his chest hairs are all in my face and nose....lol... also.. my nose and face gets crunched. I think all is well just turn her to you and kiss her. i also agree with the other posters.. why not just ask her.
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reader, LilPixie  +, writes (7 October 2009):
 It doesn't have to mean anything bad, i do it too sometimes, but simply because i'm enjoyin it :)
It'll best for you to talk to her about it though to find out what her reason is
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reader, ellie:)  +, writes (7 October 2009):
 ummm i agree with america52 she could be thinking about other stuff!!! dont just think the worse think about the positive!! talk to her!!!! :)
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reader, vampiric_nikolas  +, writes (6 October 2009):
if you suspect her thinkin of someone else then compare and contrast how she noramlly acts when you have sex to how she has sex lately. then again it could be anything like america54 stated just ask if your asumptious bother you.
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reader, america52 +, writes (6 October 2009):
 Don't necessarily think that worst. There's a lot of things she could be thinking of...I am married as well and there are three reason why I do the same thing...(Not saying they will be the same, because everyone is different)...1. I am bored. 2. I am in pain. 3. Or i am not turned on, so I think of something that does...My advice, if it bothers you that much, just ask her. BUT brace yourself, you may not like the answer you get. That's part of marriage though. Hope This Helps (GOOD LUCK)
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