Bizarre stories on how you met your significent other?
Q. I hate the way that most couples meet today. I mean some people go to bars, others meet in the store, some grow up together best friends,introduced by friends,fall in love with their co-workers, ect. But it always seems to be the same way. They ask ...
A. 28 August 2010: i have one, .. my mate actually met her boyfriend who shes now been with for three years through a wrong number text, he texted thinking he was texting his mate, then when she textd him back saying youve got the wrong numba, he rang her, they were ... (read in full...)
I'm not confident on putting myself out there when I make a friendship!
Q. People say that I should make new friends however I always fear that if I try and invite myself to things where I don't know people that well or go round to people's house just for a drink, they'll turn me down or reject me so I never just turn up ...
A. 26 August 2010: okay well for starters, when you make friends you dont have to go round to their houses straight away, text, facebook each other!, go for drinks at the pub or nights out... (read in full...)
Caught him with a man! I don't know how I can trust him!
Q. My name is Thelma. My boyfriend and I met a few years ago, we were friends for months before we ended up dating. We've been dating for over 2 years. He and I have never had sex, as of right now I am almost 26 and he was 2 years older than me. We ...
A. 24 August 2010: jus carry on ignoring him and keepp him out of your life, he's gay and would only leave you for another guy so your better off with out him... (read in full...)
Does he like me or was he just comforting and looking after me?
Q. Hello i need some advice. After a night out last week i wasnt feeling to well, self inflicted i admit. I was walking down with two friends, one of which i usually walk part way home anyway. I wasnt feeling to good at all and walking home i was just ...
A. 23 August 2010: erm personally i think he was just being nice, ive had guy friends look after me when i was drunk, even how yuve explained it aswell and i dont think nothing of it, i think he mite have just been worried about you cus he cares about you as a friend, ... (read in full...)
Please help I want to be with her
Q. Ok there is a girl that I really really like I've only known her for 6 months but it feels like I've known her for years I have told her that I like her but she never tells me how she feels towards me this has me unsettled I don't think it's for me ...
A. 19 August 2010: Okay, well if you know that she was flattered thats a start!! It is true though the only way your gonna find out how she feels is if you ask her, the thing is if she doesnt have those sort of feelings for you back are you okay with just being ... (read in full...)
She won't have sex. I'm tempted to cheat
Q. Hi, I really need some help here. Me and my girlfried have been going out for nearly 2 years (we are both 16) And she has yet to give me a blowjob or sex. I have tried to talk to her about it several times but she said she isn't ready for sex. S...
A. 18 August 2010: look dude im sorry but if the girls not ready to experience sexual things yet you cant rush her.. she might be scared in case she does it wrong, and if her friends are telling her their stories its obv putting her off, or shes just not ready!, dont ... (read in full...)
Need Some Encouragement...
Q. I just need some encouragement from anyone... I finally got up the courage to ask the ex what he wanted from me, and he said he wasn't ready to give all of himself to me (due to all the hrs at work, and some trust issues). I totally understa...
A. 18 August 2010: you go girl!!
your absolutely right... how long you guna wait around for? it could be years before he decides he's ready to commit.. and what are you suppose to do pretend to be the doting friend until one day he wants to be more!!!!
its jus... (read in full...)
We're in a rut
Q. well I have been with my boyfriend now for almost 2years and all we do is the same old thing nearly everyday and we are both starting to find this boring and now he thinks I have a boring personality he says I barley talk to him but I don't really ...
A. 18 August 2010: ermm okay basically if you know things are getting boring then try doing things differently, talk about anything you want with his family, how their days are going, etc, even the weather if you have to!! he's your boyfriend how can you find it hard ... (read in full...)
Please help I want to be with her
Q. Ok there is a girl that I really really like I've only known her for 6 months but it feels like I've known her for years I have told her that I like her but she never tells me how she feels towards me this has me unsettled I don't think it's for me ...
A. 18 August 2010: so when you actually told her you liked her , how did you say it? and what did she reply back?? xx
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She's Obsessed With Dating
Q. My friend has changed ever since we graduated from college. She used to be very outgoing and cheerful, but she seemed to become more quiet and reserved. Though we had always made fun of girls who were obsessed with boys and caught up in their looks, ...
A. 18 August 2010: I think you might be right... as you mentioned maybe she feels that this is chance for her to be in the 'cool' crowd , i know it sounds wierd for someone in there 20's but , i think she might feel she has to fit in with everyone else from her ... (read in full...)
Advice on secretive ways to keep in touch
Q. Hi guys, Well, My girlfriend recently moved from New York To Arizona. I am stuck here in New York. Her mom never liked to see us together. EVER. She tried to separate us many times. Of course, we always got back together. Thats love. You cannot...
A. 18 August 2010: i completely understand where your coming from same thing happened with me and my ex, well actually it was my mother who was the crazy one.... anyway make sure your gf renames you under her contacts ... if her parents know your number then it would ... (read in full...)
I just feel I have left it too late due to my super shyness...
Q. I am 19 comming on 20... and I havn't really had a girl friend, let alone had sex... everybody else seems to have partners. I am too scared to even think about getting a girlfriend, mainly becuse I don't think I look like your average virgin: ...
A. 13 August 2010: okay, so your nearly 20, you got swag and aint got the cockyness.. hmm mate im sorry but who cares if your a virgin!! i bet ya got girls flaunting afta ya! .. however i will say that one thing that is a turn off for girls is a lack of confidence and ... (read in full...)
I feel so.. not normal because I'm pretty sure most girls my age don't masturbate..
Q. This is kind of embarrassing, but I want to feel better about it. So i'm 16 years old and I masturbate about 3-4 times a week. I'm still a virgin, i've never gone further with a guy than a guy putting his hand down there (over my clothes) and maki...
A. 13 July 2010: its totally normal, stop worrying! :D x... (read in full...)
Why did I cheat on my boyfriend when everything is so perfect? What is wrong with me?
Q. First of all let me start by saying that I already am aware of what I have done, I am not looking for comfort or criticism - what I have come here for is help or insight into my behaviour. I cheated on my boyfriend, I met someone through work las...
A. 31 May 2010: Okay well for starters acknowledging what you have done is wrong means that it was definately a mistake, why you have done it on the other hand i think is just down to abit of excitement, sometimes people do things just to liev on the wild side of ... (read in full...)
Why did I have to fall for my friend who is in a relationship?
Q. One of my really good friends and I knew each other since high school but we really didn't start talking and getting to truly know each other until this year, which is our senior year. My friend, she's gay, and I really got close, we're so ...
A. 31 May 2010: Oh no fudgestickles lol
Sounds like you've got it bad for her hun, now you have two options here and also two outcomes
1. you tell her how you feel, you tell her that you have fallen for her and your happy she's your best friend but you w... (read in full...)
I'm so confused, have I made the wrong choice?
Q. So i kind of need some advice, i dated my ex for 7 1/2 months and we broke up because he made out with my ex bestfriend and now im with a new guy and i love this new guy but when he is away i brake down in tears i feel like my heart was ripped out ...
A. 31 May 2010: Okay this seems confusing are you saying that you are missing your ex? or your missing your current boyfriend when he is away? if you missing your Ex tehn sweetie theres nothing you can do no matter what anyone says you never stop loving anyone ... (read in full...)
I want to end this friends with benefits situation with my ex?? Suggestions?
Q. Hello, I've been in a physical relationship with my ex boyfriend for the past 3 months. Prior to this we had dated for almost a year, when I decided to break up with him. I did this because I felt my needs were not being met. He was thoughtf...
A. 14 May 2010: Exes can be friends however .....yours? i dont think will be, he is using you for his own pleasure and does not care about your feelings i understand that you are doing the same however you have clearly stated that you still have hope of getting ... (read in full...)
Will I be able to meet a future girlfriend without relying on my work/occupation to find her?
Q. I'm 22 at university and I'm currently doing a masters in Civil Engineering. I've had 2 girlfriends before and after my last one I decided to concentrate on my exams and wait until I start working (after I've done a bit of travelling). ALthough...
A. 14 May 2010: your question really depends on whether you are looking to find someone within your business type? if not then the answer is yes after some girlfriend searching you'll find her :) x... (read in full...)
How do I tell him that we are nothing but friends
Q. OK. i have a boy best friend and it seems like everyday we get closer and like each other more and more. i mean i like my best friend but i think he wants more than just a bff friendship. how should i tell him that it is nothing more than best ...
A. 13 May 2010: Dont give him the wrong idea, just tell him how lucky you are to have a good friend like him, alot of guys get the hint with that one, its very hard when a guy falls for his girl bestfriend so im not saying keep a distance or anything but just dont ... (read in full...)
When it comes time for sex I lost my erection almost immediately
Q. I have a great girlfriend who I am completely comfortable with so there is no awkwardness between us. Sometimes just making out will give me an erection with her. Everything goes great until it comes time to have sex. I will be hard, for ...
A. 13 May 2010: The most obvious answer here would be to see a doctor! x... (read in full...)
He says he doesn't love me anymore that he cares for me as a friend.
Q. I'm really upset, my boyfriend of almost 9 months just randomly broke up with me. It started with 2 days of no talking after a stupid argument in which he pretty much assumes I told him he couldn't go to the movies with his friends when I never said ...
A. 13 May 2010: I hate to be the one to tell you this hun but you've most probably heard it before and will hear it again later on in life, the truth is nothing can really prepare you for the pain of a heartbreak and eventhough this guy meant the world to you, you ... (read in full...)
Great connection one day, the next she barely acknowledges me?
Q. So I'm interested in a girl in a few of my classes. I began by just talking friendly with her, asking her for homework help, ect, and getting her used to me, as we are both shy people. It worked out well. We sparked a conversation after about a week ...
A. 13 May 2010: Some girls have mood swings hun it might just be that, she seems like she wants to get to know you, i know you said you shy but TRY to pick up the courage to ask her out on a date at least you know then wether or not its something or wether its ... (read in full...)
How do I give boyfriend the green light to do more?
Q. My boyfriend is 16 and so am I. A while ago we were making out and he slipped his hands into my pants, I later said we should slow it down for a while. How do I now show him it's ok? And is this likely to lead to fingering?...
A. 13 May 2010: If he has slipped his hands into your pants thats most probably what he intended to do, and if you are definately sure!! .. that you would like to take it further then you can give him hints e.g. slipping your hands into his pants. x... (read in full...)
Is she being polite? Or asking me to get in touch with her?
Q. Hi there, I would like an input ideally from the ladies out there. Her goes:- I will call her "Sally" and call myself "Ben" (not our real names) 30yrs ago almost to the day I met a wonderful,intelligent,kind, considerate beautiful young ...
A. 13 May 2010: She is not asking you to get in touch i think she just has fond memories of you two and they will stay in both of your minds forever and maybe she would like to stay in contact as friends but i doubt anything further. x... (read in full...)
His family won't let him marry her because of their religion
Q. hi thier is one guy whose relationship has been ended with his girlfriend since the girls parents dont allow her to marrya person who is not of their caste he is my friend from childhood and he also has purpose me in school days but due to my ...
A. 23 December 2009: If he has only just broken up with this girl then he must be feeling very heartbroken and he might just be looking for someone to hook up with so he wont have to feel so down anymore, dont rush into anything because you dont want to be the person he ... (read in full...)
We're just too good of friends to date
Q. Hey, I'm just looking for a bit of advice here.. There's this guy, and he wants to date but i'm just really unsure about the whole thing. I'm afraid that we're just too good of friends and I don't want to ruin that. I can't completely give in...
A. 22 December 2009: Most of the times dating a friend of yours can actually be better than dating a new guy, unless you make it ruin your friendship then it shouldnt be a problem just take things slow to start off with, try it out if it feels too uncomfortable then ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid she'll get hurt because of me!
Q. ok, well im ive been dating this girl for awhile, and we have both agreed that we want to get married some day, and we'er madly in love. but her older sister is a super bitch and is trying to make it so that we cant date anymore for some reason, and ...
A. 22 December 2009: why arent you able to be together then?
xx... (read in full...)
Is she leading me on? Or confused?
Q. Hello, I recently have been hanging out with this girl on whom I am very interested in. She flirts with me constantly (touches me, playfully slaps me, she even sort of bit my shoulder). She gives me her number at work and I told her I'll call he...
A. 17 December 2009: Hey
I think she just wants to be friends and maybe she just has a flirting habit, by naming everything she has planned for the week is showing that she is trying to think of ways so she wont have to hang out with you, i think she wants to be yo... (read in full...)
I feel like I am cheating my ex when I am interested in other boys
Q. So my last boyfriend and i broke up about 2 months ago and now him and i are really good friends. we get along and were still kindof flirty but its all fun. him me and my other girl friend are really close and we always hang out. the problem is that ...
A. 13 December 2009: If you really like him and you know you wont get back with your ex then give this new guy a chance, however it sounds like your not going to because you worrying about your ex's feelings however if you are ex's then it shouldnt matter and as a mate ... (read in full...)
Should I recreate a scene from the "Twilight" book?
Q. When I was in the 6th grade, a school right next to mine was closed down, and some of the students there came to our school. One of these students was Lisa (fake-name). A friend of mine had a crush on Lisa's friend, so a group evolved. We saw each...
A. 6 December 2009: I think what you have decided to do is very sweet and lovely however it also sounds cheesy, and this girl blaintanly doesnt want to further your friendship so it could be a waste of time :S
Ask her out 1st, then if she agrees to go on a date wit... (read in full...)
Fallen for a gay guy?
Q. im so confused. ive fallen for a really nice guy the only problem is that hes gay what the hell do i do? ...
A. 6 December 2009: Theres nothing much you can do hun, he's gay
But hey he can be one hell of a mate :) x... (read in full...)
I'm ready for sex, but not able to lubricate the way I used to
Q. What can you do when you have the desire for sex, but lack the lube to make it enjoyable? This is a recent problem for me and it's freaking me out. I have NEVER had a problem getting wet during foreplay. My b/f is great in bed and really takes the ...
A. 4 December 2009: see a doctor ther may be a reason for this xx... (read in full...)
Does my friend fancy me?
Q. Theres a guy who is my friend and he is really nice to me and whenever he talks to me I feel like he cares about me. I told him once that I called this really cute guy to go out with me and he got really jealous...the thing is i love being friends ...
A. 4 December 2009: He might just care for you hun as a good friend, maybe he doesnt want to see you go for a boy he knows isnt good enough, my male friends are always over protective because they know what guys are like and they dont wana see me hurt.
or he might li... (read in full...)
Is 2 years too big an age difference?
Q. Im 17 and im in love with a girl shes 15, is 2 years a huge age gap for us if we date? ...
A. 4 December 2009: for dating? no its not
x... (read in full...)
13, want a boyfriend and want sex but think I'm frigid
Q. right so i am 13. i ahve no boyfriend and i am really really fridgid, i am scared to even talk to a boy when i am going out with them. but i really want to have sex i tihnk i am phisiclly and emotionally ready, but its just trying to get over my ...
A. 4 December 2009: what worries me the most in you saying this is that i have a 13 year old sister and if i heard that she was planning anything like this i'd faint with shock!!!
hun your 13!! for crying out loud you havent even gone through puberty properly... (read in full...)
How can I get back my virginity?
Q. i lost my virginity with my wex bf... i need to get back my lost virginity ...
A. 4 December 2009: No hun you cannot get you virginity back,
some people say that after 7 years of not having sex that your hyman will grow back (still doesnt mean your a virgin though) and (seriously 7 years without sex??? noooo )
besides you can always lie i... (read in full...)
How do we keep this a secret forever?
Q. I just know this post is going to be long winded because its such a difficult situation to explain. First of all I just want to say that I think that the problem is mine not my girlfriends, I just wondered if anybody had experienced similar emotions ...
A. 4 December 2009: wow, really tricky situation here dude
now i havent or do not know anyone with this sort of problems its urmm very unique,
but after reading this i can tell that you are definately thinking about starting a future with this woman, and thats br... (read in full...)
Is casual sex a bad thing? Will I regret it?
Q. I'm 19 and to be honest...really horny. I masturbate probably too much (it may not hurt you but there is a point when its addiction for some people). I've always really wanted to have sex. I'm a virgin. I've tried going out with girls with no ...
A. 30 November 2009: Okay sounds like this girl just wants sex from you, if your hamppy to just bump her then go for it!
one thing is if u do have sex with her dont expect anything else of this girl (sounds like shes not the attachable type)
x... (read in full...)
We kissed at a party - how do I talk to her without freaking her out?
Q. Hey all... heres the thing, i got with this girl at a party last weekend. Nothing major really, was all over her for most of the evening, you know just "accidently" rubbing up next to her, making sure we sat next to each other all the time, the ...
A. 29 November 2009: Dude i think if she was interested she would have contacted u by now or atleast tried to contact u in someway i think u shud just leave it go, dont bother thinking about it and move on, if u feel really strongly for this girl then u can try talkin... (read in full...)
I want to be cruel to be kind to G/f
Q. Girlfreind went out, was ment to go with me, said she wasnt going, found out she lied and did go out without me, she has done this about 5 times. how do i teach her a lesson other than threatening to or actually leaving? i want to be cruel t...
A. 28 November 2009: There has to be a reason why she is lying to you, and you need to find out what it is, so ask her!
I understand that shes not doing the right thing by lying to you but you wouldnt be doing the right thing either by trying to teach her a lesson (... (read in full...)
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