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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes: OK. i have a boy best friend and it seems like everyday we get closer and like each other more and more. i mean i like my best friend but i think he wants more than just a bff friendship. how should i tell him that it is nothing more than best friends?
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reader, True +, writes (13 May 2010):
ight... you cant do anything until he says something to you because it will only bring him awkardness and ruin your friendship although its the same possibility when he asks you or something.
but if he does asks you out then say your answer sincirely and then reassure your friendship with him by some form like asking to hang out like however you hangout now and/or hug him and tell him your great concern that you dont want to affect your relationship with him as friends and how your happy as things are now.
**keep in mind** that this issue is very delicate and must be handled with the UTMOST care.
But if im not mistaken but did you unconsiously put "like EACHOTHER more and more" =
Well... GL
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reader, DiamondGirlx +, writes (13 May 2010):
Dont give him the wrong idea, just tell him how lucky you are to have a good friend like him, alot of guys get the hint with that one, its very hard when a guy falls for his girl bestfriend so im not saying keep a distance or anything but just dont act flirty towards him. x
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