Did I mess up so badly that I lost my best friend?
Q. I did a stupid thing and lied to my best friend. First I lied about getting free clothes from a store for him, when I really bought them for him as gifts. He eventually found out, about 6 months later. He got very upset at me and refused to talk ...
A. 16 November 2010: These seem like very petty things to fall out over. Either you were trying to impress him as you have some sort of romantic interest in him, or you were just blurting things out. We all do that, but you need to tell him your reasons behind these ... (read in full...)
He has the final say about everything in our marriage, and I cant even get him to talk about our problems!
Q. i have been married to my husband for 27 years. ever since we married he has the say in our marraige, i was married for ten years before we had our son he never helps me around the house he works hard and is a good provider. we have not had a ...
A. 4 November 2010: Do you really want to spend the rest of you life in a loveless relationship with no affection? Are you staying because you feel you have nowhere to go, or because you're hoping he'll change? Suggest couples counselling, and if he says no to that, ... (read in full...)
Sweden verses UK
Q. My boyfriend is Swedish and I'm English. He thinks England is backward and old. He liked some parts of it but generally I got the feeling that he was disappointed. It annoys me because he keeps yapping on and on about Sweden and how amazing e...
A. 22 October 2010: Flynn you're awesome lol. So I'm guessing he's living in England at the mo, and benefiting either from our benefits or education system in some way? If Swedens so fracking great, why is he here in England?
There's nothing wrong with a few jokes, m... (read in full...)
I don't know if I should trust him
Q. I am packing up stuff into boxes at the moment to move house with my boyfriend and I came across his leaving card from his most recent employer - it was signed by loads of people. I was looking at the card laughing at some of the comments when I ...
A. 30 January 2010: It sounds to me like they were just jokey comments. Regarding the 'adonis' comment, it sounds like he said something about it at work, and the woman was just taking the mickey! If anything was going on, these women certainly wouldn't be writing ... (read in full...)
Save your "you are just a kid" speeches
Q. Ok righto. My beautiful girlfriend's mum brewed up a shit storm with a friend of my family. The mum is a hell of a lot less immature than than my love. So after the fact things between my girlfriend, lets call her Ella, and me have been a bit ...
A. 30 January 2010: The only advice I can give you right now is to stick by her. Call/ email Ella and tell her that you're there for her, but don't be too over the top. Don't talk badly of her mother in front of her- she may be idiotic, but it's still hard for someone ... (read in full...)
I don't know what to do, I'm an emotional wreck, I need your help!
Q. I've a massive problem. I've been with someone for 5 years (seems to be common) but had broken up about 2 times. Every year i get into this situation when its the end of the year and i dont feel like i love her anymore. I've found another gir...
A. 4 December 2009: If you can't see yourself with your fiancee for the rest of your life, then you need to put your house plans on hold for starters!
One of the girls needs to go, perhaps both, and you need to take out some time to take care of yourself. Trust me... (read in full...)
Dating for 3 months and don't know what to get him as a present!
Q. Okay im 13 and my boyfriend is 12 we have been dating for almost 3 months now and i rly rly like him he got me real gold earings with my birth stone in them and i want to get him something just as special for christmas sooo wat do i get him i rly ...
A. 28 November 2009: What are his interests? Is he sporty, geeky? How does he dress? Does he like any particular music band? For instance, if he likes Evanescence, (my fav band), look them up on eBay and see if you can get any cool rare merchandise. Get him something he ... (read in full...)
Is there really a "Mr. Right"??
Q. okay, so alot of girls are always looking for mr right, but the truth is, is there really a mr right out there because so far all i've found is mr nasty, mr rude, mr cheat, mr slut, mr too hot for his own good, mr not so good looking, mr late, mr ...
A. 28 November 2009: My Mr. Right is someone who is protective, (likes knowing where I am, but wouldn't stop me going), faithful, touchy-feely, warped sense of humor, loads in common with me and thinks I'm the most wonderful woman in the world I guess. I wrote this poem ... (read in full...)
She has the proof that he is cheating yet she is still with him!
Q. I told my ex husbands girlfriend that he was cheating on her and gave her a CD of him and I talking about getting back together! They live together and he wants his cake and eat it to! I told her everything and she is still with him! Why does she ...
A. 28 November 2009: Some girls will believe whatever their partners tell them, and believe that they love them so much that they let them get away with anything.
Do you want your husband back? If so, telling his girlfriend won't make you look very good in his eyes... (read in full...)
Moving too fast?
Q. okay so i went to the movies with this guy that i really liked and he fingered me then asked me out... was that to soon?? should i take it slower??...
A. 28 November 2009: It was a bit too soon, yes. If you still really like him, then tell him you're sorry you let him go that far, and that you do like him and would like to date properly.
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Hairy or bare I'm self conscious! What to do?
Q. Okay, so, with pubic hair on women, how do u keep it neatly trimmed without having to get a wax? It's so uncomfortable and painful. But I'm self-conscious when I'm hairy and self-conscious when I'm bare. Any Suggestions? Is there a middle ground?...
A. 28 November 2009: *Shudder* Wax.. Urgh! I'm too scared to go there! I shave every week. I like going bare, but you could always leave a little landing strip to reach an in-between. You could always try Veet, (hair removal cream). I've never got on with it that well, ... (read in full...)
Green eyed monster problems
Q. I have been with my husband for the past 4 years, I have huge trust issues with him because I found out he cheated on his first wife and never told me even though I told him stuff about my first marriage..I found this out from old love letter he ...
A. 28 November 2009: Trust is so difficult to build, and once it's shattered, it's even harder to regain. Believe me, I know! I know exactly how you feel because I've been the same way! I still kind of am, to be honest. It's a very debilitating feeling, isn't it? And ... (read in full...)
Ex and facebook behaviro..need advise!
Q. So, the ex is still the ex. She has done some pretty odd things that I have written about on her many times. It was her choice to break up with me and then get back, then break up after creating some more drama. Since September, a drunk dial, an ...
A. 27 November 2009: You're not going to be able to relax until you do block her. When my bf split with me, I became obsessed with checking his facebook until my friend caught me. She sat there with me and made me block him and I felt sooo much better! ... (read in full...)
Husband never around and I'm falling for his friend
Q. hi all, have been married 2years and my husband is a doctor. he remains busy most of the time in his works and gives very less time in home. i tried to adjust in this for 2 years but this days its becoming hard for me. my husband is a good man ...
A. 27 November 2009: Dear Taniya, Your husband's profession as a doctor remains one of the most stressful jobs there is, so I'm sure his lack of attention is unintentional. I bet he'd love to be at home with you as much as possible. Do you have a job yourself? I ... (read in full...)
Question about masturbating and pregnancy.
Q. Lets say that I was masturbating and I used moisturizing lotion. If I accidentally got some of my pre-cum on the bottle top and my sister used that bottle, could she get pregnant????!!!!! I doubt it but still.......
A. 27 November 2009: No, the sperm would die very quickly don't worry!... (read in full...)
Is she thinking of someone else or can I just not satisfy her?
Q. After a nice day with my girfriend we where making out, I try to go down on her then she said don't do it if you don't want to, I said don't say anything and she said it again, so I'm thinking I don't satisfy her or her mind is on someone else. What ...
A. 27 November 2009: Have you been down on her before and did she seem to enjoy it? Some girls just don't like their guy down there. Try talking to her and finding out what she does like. If she just says "I dunno", try telling her what you like, and hopefully she'll ... (read in full...)
I'm craving a threesome, with me and two gorgeous men. How do I make this happen?
Q. I've always had very intense sexual fantasies about being with more than one man at a time (a threesome)... I think about it whenever I masturbate or have sex, it's the only thing that can push me over the edge into orgasm. Unfortunately in my real ...
A. 27 November 2009: Put an ad in your local paper... Most have a xrated connections section, and you can make your requests for straight men quite clear!... (read in full...)
I am new to the dating scene Please help me interpret this mans actions!
Q. Please help me interpret this mans actions: I am new to the dating scene and am terrified of it. I met a cute guy today and we were talking for a few minutes. In that short time, he told me I was hot two times and tried to hug me. This was the first ...
A. 25 November 2009: You won't be alone sweetie! You'll find someone, I promise! He does sound like he's flirting majorly with you, and offering to stop by does make it sound like he's after some nookie! If you really like him, then tell him you're looking for a ... (read in full...)
Have her feelings changed?
Q. We haven't been together long and it has been a whirlwind romance! Now in text messages and emails she says less and less she loves me or thinking of me expressing affection etc. Should I be worried?? I would like her to say such things. ...
A. 24 November 2009: Maybe things are just moving too quickly for her. Why don't you try cooling off just a little and concentrate on having fun together rather than waiting for her to say she loves you. If she's feeling a bit overwhelmed by your romance, it would make ... (read in full...)
He sends mixed messages. Does he like me or not?
Q. First, i like this guy. next, im confused as to how he acts. So...he treats me differently than other girls, basically, and idk if im just overanalyzing cuz i like him or if he really does treat me weird. He basically talks to me a bunch and invi...
A. 24 November 2009: Oh he definitely likes you honey, he's just shy! Reserve your best smile for him, and when he looks your way, hold eye contact for 3 seconds whilst smiling and look away. That'll give him the hint you like him too! Try chatting to him online... ... (read in full...)
Is it possible for someone to have accessed porn because my router has no password? Or is my boyfriend lying to me?
Q. Hi there, I am looking for a little bit of advise. I have a very strong view on porn n I total hate it. Personal reasons of course. Do not want to offend anyone who enjoys it. Anyway, my boyfriend of 4 years knows my view on this but I went for a...
A. 24 November 2009: If someone was using your Internet through your unsecured router, they would be accessing it on their own computer, not yours. So unless someone broke in just to look at porn, it's your boyfriend. Do you have a particular reason for being so against ... (read in full...)
Am I just using her to get over the pain of losing my girlfriend and my best friend?
Q. about a year ago my girlfriend died. I went into a depression. I think about her every day. I let it affect me too much and ended up losing my job. two weeks ago my friend who I knew since I was 6 killed himself after losing his job. I havnt talked ...
A. 10 November 2009: Maybe you're both helping each other, but either way, I think you may be over thinking the situation with her a bit too much. If she makes you happy in your time of need, then there's nothing wrong with that. Would you date her if you hadn't lost ... (read in full...)
I want to fight for this girl...so anyone got any good tips?
Q. Its me again. This one will be short and sweet i promise, no 1000 word questions this time. Background----------------------- 6 mos ago I had this little crush on a girl, except my vulgar best friend (unintentionally) complicated th...
A. 10 November 2009: All I can say to you is think how the girl you don't want to date feels. What could she do to possibly win you over? Maybe there's nothing that would make you want to be with her, and you've got to consider that maybe your crush feels this way too ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hasn't touched me for a month. Is there someone else?
Q. Looking for honest answers here: My boyfriend of 4 years and I have not had sex in more than a month. He was away for 3 and 1/2 week on business, but he's now been back for an entire week. We live together, but the first 2 nights he was back, he ...
A. 8 November 2009: This definitely sounds like depression. I had the same problem with my boyfriend, whereby we went on vacation for 2 weeks and only had sex once. Before that, we would go ages without sex, and of course, I'd think it was either me at fault, or there ... (read in full...)
Busy with sick mum for a week so my girlfriend ended it!
Q. Here is the situation, and thank you for reading this and possibly giving me some advice. Me and my girlfriend have been together for a few months now, and we usually spend everyday together. If not then we talk on the phone often and text. I am ...
A. 8 November 2009: Did you make her aware from the beginning that your Mom was ill? Could it just be a misunderstanding? My advice to you is to send her an email or a letter telling her that you're very sorry if she felt neglected, that you do want to be with her, ... (read in full...)
Should I leave my wife? She held my viewing of porn against me for years... now I find it on her laptop!
Q. Let me start from the beginning. I love my wife and in the beginning of our relationship everything was perfect until she found some porn in my computer the same day that we have had sex. I explained to her that it was nothing to worry about and ...
A. 8 November 2009: First of all, you need to evaluate your situation... Are you both happy in your marriage, or is the consistent arguing one of you looking for a way out? You both need to sit down and make sure this relationship is what you both want, and sort o... (read in full...)
How can I stop my addiction and stop these fantasies running through my mind?
Q. Hi everybody. I'm 16 year old and I have a pretty big problem. I never thought that I'd go through this but it has gone to this extent that I have to get external help. I am and have been addicted to pornography for about 5 months now. Ever since I ...
A. 6 November 2009: First of all, there's nothing wrong with a healthy sexual appetite. Where it all goes wrong is when people start sleeping around with any person and not using protection.
Now, don't go and sleep with the first person you date straight away. Be... (read in full...)
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