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writes:I am 19 comming on 20... and I havn't really had a girl friend, let alone had sex... everybody else seems to have partners. I am too scared to even think about getting a girlfriend, mainly becuse I don't think I look like your average virgin: I ride a 800cc custom cruiser motorbike, workout at the gym everyday and have a great body becuase of it, pretty good looking face, dyed bleach blonde hair, expensive branded and stylish clothes, expensive jewlery etc... I mean if I saw me I wouldn't think I was a virgin...If I was a fat, computer geek etc, the girl would know what she was getting her self into :P, but I kinda pose as a cool trendy guy, it will be the last thing she would suspect... I just will feel so embarressed telling her/ her finding out... I just feel I have left it too late due to my super shyness...
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reader, DiamondGirlx +, writes (13 August 2010):
 okay, so your nearly 20, you got swag and aint got the cockyness.. hmm mate im sorry but who cares if your a virgin!! i bet ya got girls flaunting afta ya! .. however i will say that one thing that is a turn off for girls is a lack of confidence and by the sounds of things you shouldnt be acting shy... if theres a particular girl your interestd in atm, ask her out.. if not then just start looking , your not going to lose anything, in fact it actually helps you to find out what sort of girl your actually looking for, and lets face it , its not always about sex isit.. i mean when you do find the girl that your looking for then you just wouldnt care if your a virgin or not if ur passionate about her tbh.... anyways best of luck dude xxx
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (12 August 2010):
 aww bless you! your still young i know alot of people at your age who are happy being on their own no strings no stress! although im sure we would all love to have the special someone so when we go to the next place we all have pretty pictures to take with us! i bet if you sat on a bus you wouldnt recgonise a virgin from someone whose slept with over 50 people! so stop judging yourself so much! and nothing is ever to late. just embrace life with both hands and make the most of it! as they say you only live once and live like theirs no tomorrow doing the things you love! you just have to bring up the courage to find some females you like and be friend them you never know something might lead to something else.. as for sex its not something your ment to instantly know it takes plenty of time and practice no one is perfect. best thing to do is if you find yourself in that position find out what she likes search websites for tips and be prepared ie condoms so forth dont want to be unsafe have a baby or worse STDs. heres a web site ive seen that has a lot of advice. good luck aphex xx http://www.sexinfo101.com/sp_index.shtml
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