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writes:Hey all... heres the thing, i got with this girl at a party last weekend. Nothing major really, was all over her for most of the evening, you know just "accidently" rubbing up next to her, making sure we sat next to each other all the time, the usual stuff. Later on we ended up outside with a load of other people (dont know how/why, i was kinda drunk), and the two of us were just sitting on a wall talking, my arm was round her waist feeling her up a bit, and she was kinda huddled up. Then she turns to look at me, and says "Dyou want to?" - and all of her sudden her tongue is down the back of my throat.20 senconds later she stops and tells me she has to go, i beg her to stay (mostly the booze talking i think) but she ups and leaves...My problem is i cant stop thinking about her. We used to go to school together but i barely talked to her (we're both quite shy), i always kinda liked her though. That party was the first time we'd seen each other in over a year - i feel like i just really wanna hang out with her and get to know her a bit, but im thinking it would be weird if i just randomly started talking to her on facebook or something, because i doubt she feels the same (she wouldnt of just left the party otherwise).So should i dismiss what happened at the party as a bit of fun and just get on with life? Or should i talk to her - and if so could you suggest a way for me to do this without freaking her out?Sorry for the novel by the way, i just thought the full story would help...
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2009): People are affaird of love, she may have her reasons for not acting on it.
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reader, DiamondGirlx +, writes (29 November 2009):
 Dude i think if she was interested she would have contacted u by now or atleast tried to contact u in somewayi think u shud just leave it go, dont bother thinking about it and move on, if u feel really strongly for this girl then u can try talking to her on facebook leave her a message saying something like hey how are you long time no speak or something like that:) D.Gx
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