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writes:well I have been with my boyfriend now for almost 2years and all we do is the same old thing nearly everyday and we are both starting to find this boring and now he thinks I have a boring personality he says I barley talk to him but I don't really know what to talk about and when I am with his family I never usually know what to say. So, I just sit there really until they make conversation with me and I really don't want him to loose interest in me. What shall I do ? Reply to this Question
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (18 August 2010):
 MAKE CONVERSATION! It can be completely random if you want, anything that's on your mind! Something funny you saw the other day, a great movie, the places you want to go to. At this point, something random is good!
I hope that helps.
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reader, eternallyinfinite  +, writes (18 August 2010):
Do you have any interests, hobbies, or activities outside of the relationship? It's hard to have interesting conversations if you don't have anything "interesting" that you do apart.
however, if both of you have busy lives apart from each other and still feel this way, perhaps you or him have outgrown the relationship and it's time to move on.
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reader, DiamondGirlx +, writes (18 August 2010):
 ermm okay basically if you know things are getting boring then try doing things differently, talk about anything you want with his family, how their days are going, etc, even the weather if you have to!! he's your boyfriend how can you find it hard to make conversation with him?? well unless you actually dont want to? x
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