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Is it ok for live-in boyfriend to keep sex tape of ex-girlfriend? Male perspectives welcome...
Q. Hi, I am in a crisis with my live-in boyfriend (I just moved in officially last month) and wanted to ask you all for your opinions, men and women, and the reasoning behind your views. My boyfriend likes to videotape his life and keeps several V...
A. 28 June 2006: You have every right to be upset. If I were you I would be worried that he may still have feelings for his ex. I believe that if you break up with someone, then the only reason you might keep something personal from the relationship is because you ... (read in full...)
He's 29 & I'm 18 - he has no job, has a kid and lives with his parents but he brings me to life!
Q. He's 29 and I'm 18... I don't think that I have a problem with it and he says he doesn't either. My parents could care less, but he told me to tell his parents I was 20 when we meet. I said I would not lie, and he said okay you dont have too. W...
A. 28 June 2006:
If your man doesn't have a job now then he is comfortable with being taken care of. For goodness sakes he is 29 and does not even support his own kid! Maybe the child is being well provided for by its grandparents, but don’t you think that if t... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hounds me for a threesome - with another guy!
Q. every time i have sex with my boyfriend he wants another guy joing us either doing me or him. what should i do?...
A. 28 June 2006: If you are not interested then you need to let him know right away, dont let him keep on mentioning it! You need to express to him why you wont allow it and tell him that if it is something that he really wants then he needs to find someone with ... (read in full...)
I want to leave my husband, he has to many troubles!!!
Q. Hello, please if someone can give me some advice! I am 40 and have been married for 10 years. Over a month ago I talked to my husband that I wanted to leave him, but it seems that he doesn´t want me to leave him, is like I feel obligated to stay ...
A. 21 June 2006: The best thing for you is to get marriage counseling, it could help you and your husband out in so many ways... that is of course if you would like to at least try and save the marriage? Your husband probably feels obligated to take care of his ... (read in full...)
Who is to blame in this relationship? Me or him??
Q. Hello, here's the problem. I work in an environment where I run into a lot of people who are victims of domestic violence. Furthermore, I met a woman in my college class who was in a violent marriage before and she said, if you're ever going to...
A. 8 May 2006: I am sorry if this comes out the wrong way, but if my man ever acted towards me like you are to you boyfriend I would think he is very immature! No adult relationship should have to put up with this! The more you test him the further you will push ... (read in full...)
I feel like sex but he says he feels "tired"... Any ideas?
Q. Anyone who reads this, I would love some feedback. My fiance and I have been togeather four years,and he is always turning me down for sex when I ask for it; saying he's tired. It's not just some of the time, it's all the time. This makes me feel so ...
A. 5 May 2006: Hmmm... you need to ask him if he is happy with your sex life, ask him if he would like to have it more. If so then you need to both do something about it. Me and my husband make time for it and go to bed a little early, so that we can still both ... (read in full...)
Is my little fella big enough to do its job?
Q. I am sure this question has been asked many times, but I am very insecure about the size of my penis, its just over 5 inches long and on somedays measures about 6. Is this big enough to do the necessary? I am not a virgin, but i feel nervous about ...
A. 5 May 2006: It sounds like you may be watching too many pornos. You may not be a virgin, but it is pretty obvious that you still haven't learned what sex is all about. Bigger does not mean better! Any man's penis size may restrict him to do different things, so ... (read in full...)
My husband was having an affair and lying about it.....why would he risk his family?
Q. i found out sept 2004 my husband was texting a woman he worked with we had arguments he said he would stop texting their was nothing else going on. oct nov 2004 i found phone calls and texts to this woman he still said nothing was going on he ...
A. 3 May 2006: You need to seek couples counseling if you want to work this out. Not only you, but your husband needs it as well, and if he refuses to go then you will know that he doesn't truly want to work things out. It is possible to get through this but you ... (read in full...)
I'm always thinking I look fat and now I want to quit eating...
Q. Hi i have a bit of a problem on my hands... You see i'm 12 and in sixth grade and ever since 5th grade i've always considered myself fat.I was so upset about it last year i stopped eating and then got very sick but lost a lot of weight and looke...
A. 3 May 2006: How could you ask if anything bad will happen to you when last time you tried to do this you got really sick? Of course really bad things could happen to you... especially since you are only 12! Your body is just starting to grow into adulthood, and ... (read in full...)
We're getting married in a few days but she doesn't enjoy sex...
Q. We got married a few days and my wife dosent enjoy sex. She says she dosent feel anything during sex and it is painful. We had sex 3 times now. Is this normal for woman for first few days or how can we overcome this....
A. 2 May 2006: Is it painful for her or does she not feel anything, I don't understand how it could be both? Since you have only had sex 3 times, her body needs to get used to your penis. You need to take things REALLY slow and use lots of foreplay to loosen her ... (read in full...)
I'm a tomboy, but want to be more girlier. What should I do?
Q. hi i am 16 and i am a tomboy. the only problem is, is that i want to become a bit more girlier in the way i look. i want to start wearing make up and girlier clothes but its hard cos my older sister who is 17 is still a tomboy and i am afraid s...
A. 1 May 2006: I know what you are feeling; me and my older sister were both tomboys. She was 18 when she moved away from home and I was almost 16. I didn't have the guts to start being more girly until she was gone. I was also afraid of being teased by other ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if I should go to the next step yet or not. How can I tell?
Q. hi i am 16 yrs old and all i have done in relationships is kiss. i have got a bf at the moment we have been going out for about three weeks, but ive known him for ages an liked him for quite a while, i think im ready for the next step in our ...
A. 1 May 2006: Even if you have known a guy a while, being in a relationship on three weeks with him is a very short amount of time to think of taking the next step... ESPECIALLY since you want to do the next step when you are in love. Being friends with someone ... (read in full...)
I don't want to cheat, but I know I need the attention my husband isn't giving me!
Q. My husband and I have been together for 9 years, married for 5 years. We have 2 beautiful sons. A 3 year old and a 9 week old. Before I became pregnant with my youngest son, one of his close friends used to make passes at me and flirt a little. We ...
A. 1 May 2006: You really need to talk to your husband and let him know you are feeling neglected. Ask him if it is possible for him to take a little time out of his day to remind you how much he cares for you. If you keep this texting going then it could lead to ... (read in full...)
Why is she talking about this other guy? Should I be worried?
Q. Last night i was at my girlfriends, her cousin left her Email-inbox signed in when they went to the video store, im a inquisitive guy and seen a email from my girlfriend to her cousin..i feel rude for reading it, but the Subject line was Private, ...
A. 1 May 2006: I don't think there is anything to worry about. You wrote it yourself that she thinks the guy is an asshole, and unless your girlfriend has no self respect then that statement alone should be enough to stop your worries. So she may think he is ... (read in full...)
He's going to the army and I don't think I can deal with this...
Q. my bf of 2yrs is joining the army im only 18 and am struggling to deal with it. i love him soo much but dont want to any more. i dont think im mature enough to deal with a relationship like this. do you think i shuld try it and see how it works or ...
A. 1 May 2006: You should really do what you think is best. You stated that you think you are not mature enough to deal with this... you are 18, you are legally an adult. Adults have to face things every day that they don't want to; it's a part of life. If you ... (read in full...)
Who do I choose...my bf Mike or my japanese lover, Yosuke?
Q. I'm having a problem with choosing between two guys (or neither of them). My situation is a bit sticky, though. Right now, I'm spending the year studying abroad in Japan. I love it here, and would like to eventually live here for awhile after I ...
A. 29 April 2006: Yes I agree with RJGirl, you should break it of with Y! You have been apart from your man for a while, its only natural to question your feelings for him when he can't show you them daily. It seems to me that you do not like being alone and seek ... (read in full...)
Being without my Air Force guy is breaking my heart!!
Q. My boyfriend has been gone away at the Air Force for about two and a half weeks now, and I feel like I can't take the waiting anymore. It's making me crazy to be without him. Today I came home and I glanced at a picture of us I have hanging on my ...
A. 29 April 2006: That’s right the key is to keep yourself busy. You HAVE to learn how to cope with this! Getting married will not solve all your problems either... sure you will be together if he is stationed in the United States, but you have to realize that ... (read in full...)
Should I dump my boyfriend before or after this holiday?
Q. my bf treats me like a slave, it used to be good but hes showing his true colours he is a sponger and has no respect for me. but i was out last week and a guy was flirting rith me and i spoke to him and he treated me like a human being, he is a ...
A. 23 April 2006: I agree with everything Country Woman has to say. There is just one thing I want to ask... have you tried talking to your BF about how he is treating you and how it makes you feel? I only ask because you said that you recently realized how he treats ... (read in full...)
Ever since she went away we always seem to argue but I really love her and want it to work out!!
Q. Hi, Im with the greatest girl, for most of the time. We met 6 months ago through a dating site, and we hit it off straight away, as if it was fate that we had met. Unfortunately she had planned to go away travelling for a year, so I decided that I w...
A. 20 April 2006: I know exactly how hard long distant relationships can be! I was with my boyfriend (now husband) for almost three years when he left for the military. We had a long distant relationship for 7 months and we also got married after the first 3 months. ... (read in full...)
I think my bf is cheating and he is always angry at me!!
Q. hey, I dont know what to do in my relationship i think my boyfriend is cheating on me i have been with him for a while now and i cant seem to ask him a question without him being angry with me and he does try to get me out of his house. plz help ...
A. 20 April 2006: If it seems like every question you ask him makes him mad, then that is a huge sign of verbal abuse. He isn’t necessarily cheating on you, he could feel smothered by you at the moment… that is why he gets mad when you ask a question as well as why ... (read in full...)
I can't get over my bf's past sexual history. Do I get over this problem or do I get out of this relationship?
Q. How do I get over my boyfriends past? I'm not going to go into details, let's just say it's very colourful with regards to girls. Now, I know he's changed since he met me and wants to settle down but I just can't get over his past, seeing the...
A. 20 April 2006: In my opinion I think if all his fooling around turned him into wanting more than just sex in a relationship, then I think his past is fine. I have this friend who is not even 21 and he has slept with 40 something woman! But the thing is that he ... (read in full...)
He'd rather choke the chicken than make love to me. Why?
Q. i am have been married for 15 years and love my hubby very much. but know him for 22 years. i was a virgin when i go married and as the years got on we had a very health sex live but in the past 5 years it just seem to have gone down hill. i have ...
A. 19 April 2006: You should tell him yes masturbating is normal, but if he has someone who loves him and wants to have sex with him (and he has not had sex in a while) then it is not normal. The only way to solve something like this is to have better communication. ... (read in full...)
The sex is terrible... And now he ogles other women in public and jerks off to porn...
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together 18 months. He has intimacy issues but is a good man who I have felt pretty happy with. A few months ago, I discovered that he was looking at online porn. It bugged me a little, but I am by all means not a ...
A. 18 April 2006: I agree it sounds like he has way too many problems!! You would definitely be better off when someone who treats you like you deserve.
"He said it had nothing to do with me, I shouldn't worry about, all men do it, some women even buy Playboy ... (read in full...)
Missing my boyfriend so much now that he's joined the Air Force! Any advice to help me get through this?
Q. My boyfriend of eight months recently left for the Air Force. I'm having a very hard time with it, as you could imagine. We spent nearly every day together, and we love each other very much. My life just feels so empty without him. I am only 18, but ...
A. 15 April 2006: I know EXACTYLY what you are going through. A year ago yesterday my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years left for the Air Force (we also spend every day together). It was so hard being without him, I was 20 at the time. The only advice I can give you is to try ... (read in full...)
He doesnt work and never goes out but says I have let him down!!
Q. HI ve been with my bf 5 years we have 1 child and live together..trouble is he doesnt work...he blames me and says i nag to much but even when i told him i was pregnant he didnt work i worked full time and now i work part time supporting all of ...
A. 14 April 2006: Its definitely not you. While reading this it reminded me of my sister (except she doesn’t have a baby) She never had any money because she had to support her and her boyfriend, and he didn’t have a job for two years. He used to blame her that ... (read in full...)
I have copper hair-my hairdresser wants to add blonde hilites. What do you think?
Q. hi i have copper hair and have had it like this for three years im happy with it as it fades nicely and its nice and straight .my hairdreeser wants to put in blonde highlights do u think i should? ...
A. 12 April 2006: I used to dye my hair a copper color and I always wanted to get blonde highlights with it too. But I stopped dying my hair years ago due to the damage it causes, so I never got the chance to try it out. I have seen many women with copper colored ... (read in full...)
Could my defect put a women off sex??
Q. Hi this question is really asking for a females opinion. I have have something called pectus excevactum (a funnel chest) and it has caused me to have a low self esteem. I worry that whe i become involved in a relationship with a women and we want ...
A. 11 April 2006: Your low self esteem is caused by your thoughts, which you shouldn't have. Society today focuses too much on appearance rather than what’s on the inside, that is why lots of people who don't see themselves as "good looking" tend to have self esteem ... (read in full...)
I know that Texas is where I want to be, but how do I get started with immigrating?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am an 18 year old girl who is currently living in Britain. I have decided that I live in place which holds no future for me and so I am looking to move to Texas, America (where I lived for six months a few years back, and I know...
A. 11 April 2006: Just wanted to say good luck with everything! I am from Texas (Dallas), but recently moved to Nebraska due to my husband's job, I miss it so much! Most of Texas is so diverse, which is great because you grow up not thinking about how people are ... (read in full...)
My ex is back and pregnant, saying she'll have another abortion. Is she playing me?
Q. My ex girlfreind left me in July last year. She just went off to Cyprus for two weeks and sent me a text telling me it was over. I was down so much I was treated for depression. Then I've just got back on track and she's back, telling me she love...
A. 11 April 2006: I say dont give her another chance, lots of people never change, and if she was so cold as to break up with you over a text message then she will probably hurt you again. She is just playiing mind games with you... if she calls you again then let ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be jealous and want to be able to cope with my boyfriend drinking without me. How do I do that?
Q. How do I handle letting my boyfriend go out and drink without me? Also, how do I get over being jealous and letting him actually look at girls? How do I change all of this if I have troubles doing so on my own?...
A. 11 April 2006: Has anything bad happened before when your boyfriend and you were drinking together to make you feel this way? Have you two ever drunken together with friends... If you haven't then maybe you should, it might make you feel better about him drinking ... (read in full...)
I want to tell him I love him, without actually saying it...
Q. Hi, I'm 15 How would I tell a boy that I love him without saying it to him or anyone else? thanks ...
A. 10 April 2006: Like Angelicc wrote: why wouldnt you want to actually tell him I love you??? Is there some reason why you dont want to actually tell him how you feel... are you afraid it may scare him? A little more info about your relationship is necessary for ... (read in full...)
I know it's meant to be, but she has someone else!
Q. I had been with this girl for 1 year and we broke up about three months ago. I am truly in love with her and want to spend the rest of my life with her. She still tells me she loves me sometimes and that she just isn't ready to come back to me yet ...
A. 10 April 2006: I am curious to how old you are and how many girlfriends you have had before, because if you are young and/or fairly new to dating then this could be why it is so hard for you to get over her? If it is truly meant to be then it will happen, ... (read in full...)
I do everything for him and because we don't have sex he don't want me!
Q. Hi all,iam so distraught now.me and my boyfriend have been dating for five years on and off.the main problem was that we are in different locations.i decided to quit my high paying job to come to the same localities. the main problem we have ...
A. 5 April 2006: No matter what you have been through with this man it is DEFINETLY time for him to be out of your life forever! I know you must feel very said because you have tried hard at making the relationship work, but you need to get a hold of reality. This ... (read in full...)
Are we ready for marraige as teenagers?
Q. my boyfriend wants to marry me and i know its not just for sex cuz he wants to marry me later. he is 17 and i =ma 16 can he really have true feelings like that? signed confused-...
A. 2 April 2006: I think it is alright to have feelings of wanting to marry your boyfriend or girlfriend when you are a teenager. My husband and I were barely 18 when we started going out, and soon into the relationship he would always call me his beautiful wife. ... (read in full...)
Keen to hear others' experiences with the Yasmin pill...
Q. I'm thinking of going back onto the pill, a number of my friends have been taking the Yasmin pill and they have all said that they have maintained their weight or even lost weight and their skin is a lot clearer and they have less period pains. But ...
A. 30 March 2006: This website could be what you are looking for... it is very helpful! http://www.healthboards.com/boards/index.php... (read in full...)
He keeps promising he isn't going to lie and every time he breaks that promise!
Q. Hi there, I have a little problem, could you pease help me with it if you can? I'm almost 16 and in a relationship with a guy who I really love. like I say, I really love him, but theres just one problem... recently, I've found out that he's li...
A. 30 March 2006: You need to go ahead and end it. Yes you may love him a lot, but love isn’t everything. There are women who love their man who hits them all the time. Believe me from personal experience, if it bothers you enough to ask people for advice on this ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 with facial hair can any one help!
Q. At what age should i be looking to shave at as im 14 and already I have facial hair. what should i do please help asap...
A. 30 March 2006: How much facial hair do you have? My husband had to start shaving early (13). You might think it sucks now because it seems like you are the only one at your age who needs to start shaving. All of my husband’s friends didn’t start shaving un... (read in full...)
Keen to hear others' experiences with the Yasmin pill...
Q. I'm thinking of going back onto the pill, a number of my friends have been taking the Yasmin pill and they have all said that they have maintained their weight or even lost weight and their skin is a lot clearer and they have less period pains. But ...
A. 29 March 2006: I am interested in this too, I recently went to my doctor and asked to change my birth control pill to Yasmin because of all of the good things I have heard about it, but I found out my insurance doesn’t pay for it so she put me on Demulen... I ... (read in full...)
Ever since I discovered my bf uses porn-I am turned off all sex! What's happened to me?
Q. ever since i found out my boyfriend was looking at porn i have lost all self confidence and i hate my appearance and almost everything else about myself,im only 20 and i use to have a very high sex drive but now i never want to have sex again, i ...
A. 24 March 2006: You shouldn't be put off from having another relationship because of this one man. You should just use it as a lesson in teaching you who is the right man for you. The worst thing you could do is let this guy ruin any possibile great relatoinship ... (read in full...)
All I hear is that he's "too tired" or not in the mood for sex. What's wrong?
Q. I have been married for seven months now. Before my husband and I got married we had sex on a regular basis (We weren't living together though). Now we are married we have it at the most twice a month (Were only 23 and have no kids!!) I don't kn...
A. 21 March 2006: It seems I am in the exact situation as you (except im 21 and have been married 5 months). Me and my husband dated for 3 years before marriage and had sex about every day too. Once we moved in together after the wedding I noticed a big change in ... (read in full...)
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