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My ex is back and pregnant, saying she'll have another abortion. Is she playing me?

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Question - (10 April 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 April 2006)
A male , *inty writes:

My ex girlfreind left me in July last year. She just went off to Cyprus for two weeks and sent me a text telling me it was over. I was down so much I was treated for depression.

Then I've just got back on track and she's back, telling me she loves me and wants me back. But then I find out she's pregnant and she will have a abortion, which I hate the idea, because she did it to me in 2004 and now I haven't heard from her for two weeks.

Is she just playing games with me or is she genuine?

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A male reader, tux United States +, writes (11 April 2006):

tux agony auntExactly what Angelicc and danielle said. I wouldn't give her a second chance. It's not going to be worth the pain you'd suffer if she breaks it off again which i would say that there is a high chance for. I could see if she left on more amicable terms, but breaking up by text is not amicable. over the phone is more amicable. But in person would be the way.. she didn't have the decency for that and has lacks responsbility. I would stay away.

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A female reader, Angelicc United Kingdom +, writes (11 April 2006):

Angelicc agony auntFrom what i've read, this woman doesnt seem to care for any but herself. She's dump you by text because you couldn't be bother to do it face to face. She's aborting another child. which shows she's a person obviously doesnt learn from her mistakes. This woman may love but doesn't mean that will stop her moving on from you in the future. so yea i beieve she's genuine. but i don't think it'll last

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A female reader, Danielle934 +, writes (11 April 2006):

Danielle934 agony auntI say dont give her another chance, lots of people never change, and if she was so cold as to break up with you over a text message then she will probably hurt you again. She is just playiing mind games with you... if she calls you again then let her know that you dont want anything to do with her. There is no way she is genuine, because to be genuine you have to be serious, and there is no way she is serious if she is pregnant with some guys kid (especially if the baby is young enough to abort). Just think a couple of weeks ago she had sex with some guy who got her pregnant... does that sound like she was serious back then? I dont think so. Some people do change, but I don't think she is one of them.

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