How do I blow my new man's mind in bed?
Q. I'm starting a new relationship, and I want to know how to blow my mans mind in bed. He is always on top, and I want to go on top and show him a good time. Any tips?...
A. 4 April 2009: I have been on top before during sex, but usually the man, does the work with his hands instead of on top, if you know what I'm saying, and i want to do all the work, and let him sit back and relax, i know what to do when im on the bottom and other ... (read in full...)
What made him have a change his heart?
Q. I never left myself fully heal from my previous relationship. We had a good relationship, and a bad break up, our fights were endless, and lasting months even after the break up, but eventually we worked it out, and still remain to talk, though I'm ...
A. 25 March 2009: I suggest you put ALL boys off for a good amount of time.
You need to fully recover from your last relationship, depending on how serious you two were and so on, it could take months before you get over it.
Personally, I think you were really ... (read in full...)
Why push for a ring and then back out?
Q. Why would she push for an engagement and then break it off? I have been dating this girl for over three years living together for over two. She really pushed for a ring. We went to jewelry stores and looked for awhile then I purchased one. She ...
A. 25 March 2009: Cold feet, maybe?
It could very well be she is afraid of commitment.
Even though, she planned and pushed it, maybe she bit off more then she could chew at one time, and then the reality started to really kick in..
She could of also thought she... (read in full...)
How do I get my little brother to stop pestering my bf!
Q. My little brother (he's 5) hates my boyfriend. I'm really not sure why he does. If he comes over my bro will stoke with his water gun or silly string (if only he's holding my hand) or he'll call him "pooh" or "tool". He'll (my bf) all get mad all at ...
A. 11 January 2009: It could be that your brother is jealous to see another male figure in your life, and obviously goes about it in obnoxious ways! Or, it could just be that he is young and annoying like most little brothers are! There is nothing much you can r... (read in full...)
I was so mad I slapped her across the face!
Q. My brother died couple of weeks ago because he had canner. I even missied a week of school because of it. When I told my best friend say I'm "obsessed" with him and need to forget about him. I was so mad I slapped her across the face1!! Why would ...
A. 13 July 2008: Your obessed with him, and you need to forget about him?
Well I know another person you need to forget about, and it's her! I'm so sorry for your loss honey! This is such a terrible thing. I would of slapped her across the face too, ( not sayi... (read in full...)
Why are my friends so obsessed with my girlfriend and I not being touchy-feely?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over 6 months now. We are both still in high school and I can't help but ignore the constant chatter by my friends. Every single one of my friends (both friends who are single and some who are ...
A. 11 July 2008: Trust me, a lot of teenagers these days, Will pressure there friends into going further, just because they have, or they want too. If you listen, you'll probably end up going into somewhere unprepared and definetly not ready for. As teenagers, some ... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm not good looking enough to meet girls, help please!
Q. the worst part of this all is my friends tell me if they had my looks and body they would be able to get ten times more girls when we go to the clubs, sadly i disagree. I feel i am the ugliest of all my friends and it pisses me of when they say...
A. 9 July 2008: Ahh oh boy. It's not just about looks. Sure, a good looking guy is always a postive thing. But I know I won't even look at a guy twice, if he doesn't have a good personality to go along with it. We like guys that will be sweet hearts to us, an... (read in full...)
What sort of things can go wrong with sex?
Q. im scared. im not saying im having sex yet but i may be in the near future. im only 14 and im just five foot. i would really like to know some things that can go wrong during or after sex. sideaffects or anything. im very nieve : ]. ...
A. 9 July 2008: Your first time is usually the worst. Most girls bleed and it is very unpleasant the first couple of times. Bleeding is usually the worst thing that can happen and you might feel a slight discomfort after having sex. Make sure your ready for s... (read in full...)
Shall I wait to have sex with her until she becomes of legal age?
Q. ive been with my girlfriend for a while now, and the only worry iv really had is about the age difference (3 years), but that turned out to be ok after me meeting her dad and her parents being ok with me. although im 16 and shes 13 (16 is the lega...
A. 8 July 2008: Just keep the thoughts in mind.. Have a good talk with her when she is ready and make sure that is truly what she wants. I cannot tell you NOT to have sex with her, because quite frankly.. I lost my virginty at thirteen with a sixteen year old and ... (read in full...)
How can I be a good Christian and still have a life? My parents are too strict.
Q. My parents and I don't get along very well. Ever since a really bad incident a little over a year ago, they don't trust me with anything. I'm still allowed to do stuff, but you know, they still have that dissappointed tone. I'm a Christian, and I ...
A. 4 July 2008: You are only a teenager. Teenagers want to explore and have fun, and believe or not, we're hungry for friends and we love to socialize. I think you should tell your parents how you feel. Let them know you respect your religion and love being a... (read in full...)
We come from different backgrounds and we both seem to be playing hard to get. Is it going to work? How?
Q. I recently met this guy. We come from different backrounds. Well not totally different, but different enough. You see, he is a gang member. But wait for the whole story before you start spitting your opinions. Are you still with me? Anyways, I met...
A. 3 July 2008: I am going through the exact same thing you are. The exact same thing! Literally. Unfortuantly, I have no advice for you, because I am seeking advice for the same situation myself! Just wanted to let you know, your not alone. Oh, the dangerous boys ... (read in full...)
Why has she stopped wanting to be around me?
Q. I've been going out with my girlfriend for about 2 months now and she's been really happy and always wants to be around me until recently. We did stuff together about every other day during the weekend and I could tell there was nothin more that she ...
A. 3 July 2008: Don't jump to conclusions just yet. You need to find out whether or not there is something going on with her that you just don't know about. Maybe she is having family problems, or something with friends? It could be anything.
It sounds like she ... (read in full...)
I've developed feelings for my friend, but she's not interested. How do I cope with this?
Q. I really need some help here, I broke up with my girlfriend a month ago...since then I've noticed that I've been getting feelings for my closest female friend. I talked to her about my feelings and she said she doesn't want to jeopardize our ...
A. 3 July 2008: Sometimes, when a guy and a girl are best friends - they are inlove and don't even realize it.
I have a best friend. We've been best friends for almost two years and during that short, yet somewhat long period of time, we've been through alot, go... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is wonderful, but I'm still attracted to my 'bad boy' ex - help!
Q. I’m 19 and my b/f is 23. I’ve NEVER cheated on him (or anyone for that matter) and would never. I love my boyfriend of a year who is totally amazing and the best boyfriend any girl could want but I recently redeveloped my love for my ex wh...
A. 3 July 2008: We are both are pretty much in the same predicaments.
I have an amazing guy that I love, who loves me too. Except I met this another guy who has quite the bad boy figure, appealing isnt it?
I cannot stop thinking about him, and he's constan... (read in full...)
Why am I getting bullied because I like to perform?
Q. Well i have this weird problem in school that i cant really understand. Well when usually its talent show night i seriously want to perform. Everytime I always perform they seem to like it but then when i go offstage they bo0 me ??? It seriously ...
A. 2 July 2008: I'd like to see a video of you performing, send me the link.... (read in full...)
My step-father and I are masturbating together everynow and then...is this ok?
Q. HI I am a 15 year old boy My stepfather and i are masterbating together every now and then I was just wandering if it is ok??...
A. 2 July 2008: Some of my male friends whack off together, and I find this a bit odd? I think that is something you should do personally and private, not something out in the open and definetly not something to brag about. In my opinion, it's weird. I mean, who ... (read in full...)
He gave me this look that stopped my heart. Now how can I get him back?
Q. hello, i want to tell you all my story. i was with this guy for a while and we got pretty serious, we got as far as fingering. and he gave me this look that stopped my heart. i fell in love with him. he said he loved me. life was perfect. but then ...
A. 2 July 2008: I bet it feels like you just lost the love of your life right? Wake up wishing it was all a dream kind of heart ache. Been there, done that girl. Trust me it passes. Go out and be with your friends, do things that make you happy. Being depressed ... (read in full...)
Tonsilitis? How can I reduce the swelling? Help!!!!!!!
Q. it's 5:00am in the morning. I know a little late for somebody to be up now isn't it? Well it's cause about an hour ago, I decided I was going to go to bed, but before I decided to go to bed, I decided to look inside my mouth, cause it had been ...
A. 2 July 2008: Unfortuantly, I have no aspirin or advil or anything of the sort. I took the last two this morning for the headache I woke up with. But thanks for the suggestions so far, anymore advils? I am starting to feel weak from the lack of sleep I am ... (read in full...)
Is there any way to notice if you've had sex? Do you walk differently?
Q. my boyfriend and I are starting to have sex. last time, we were having sex and when i took his thing out of mine their was white stuff all over, an I think it might be his cum, but I cum alot and it might be mine, but he said it was not him because ...
A. 2 July 2008: May I ask why your having unprotected sex in the first place? Get yourself on the pill, or at least use a condom.
Trust me, I've been exactly where you are, having unprotected sex and all. It's not fun to panic and stress out completely before your... (read in full...)
I have no idea what I'm feeling so I really need help!
Q. Alrighty, I'd rather give help then ask for it. I'm usually not very open. But at htis point i don't have a clue what to do or what I'm feeling.I've known this guy literally from kindergarden. We went to the same school for about 4 years. Then i ...
A. 2 July 2008: What do you mean you have no idea what your feeling? What your feeling is how much you miss this boy that you've known your whole life. All the feelings you use to have for him, rushed like a wave and came right back! Is that considered a bad thing? ... (read in full...)
I'm tired of being a virgin, maybe I should have just gone out with sluts and been more liberal. I think it's time for a change in values...
Q. I´m a 23 year old virgen. I was brought up believing that saving virginity for marriage is the right thing to do. I believed in being patient, honest and faithful with my girlfriend. I believed in sacrafice and putting my partner´s feelings above my ...
A. 2 July 2008: I find it a bit disrespectful of most of you, this boy wanted some advice and mostly all he got is a whole conversation about how you shouldn't call women sluts.
... (read in full...)
Why am I getting bullied because I like to perform?
Q. Well i have this weird problem in school that i cant really understand. Well when usually its talent show night i seriously want to perform. Everytime I always perform they seem to like it but then when i go offstage they bo0 me ??? It seriously ...
A. 1 July 2008: In my opinion, there just jealous of you. I haven't seen you perform, so I don't know if your any good or not. But, I'm going to guess that your good, and there not. Don't worry about it, just ignore them. When you perform and they boo, just smile ... (read in full...)
Everyone is rowing and I'm in the middle. I must be the worst wife and mother in the world. Please give me some advice.
Q. I have been married for 22 years not happy and i have a boyfriend. my husband and i still live together just for financial reasons. I have 2 sons one 16 and another 13. the 13yr old has had severe anxiety problems that has resulted in him being a ...
A. 30 June 2008: You are not the worst wife and mother in the world! Don't think that way. I am only fifteen years old, I think when kids turn into teenagers, We all go through phases and to where we think we don't need our mothers around anymore,
We come to term... (read in full...)
My brother and his girlfriend had a baby. I want one so much...
Q. ok my brother and his girl just had a baby and i love her dearly and i want one but you see im only 13 and they live far away so i dont get to see her that much and i really want one what should i do ...
A. 30 June 2008: Girl, are you serious!? You are just young yourself.
I really do not believe you are responsible enough to take care of a baby. What about all the expenses of a baby, diapers and food, and all the rest. Are you going to be able to wake up in all ... (read in full...)
Second cousin has a crush on me. Could it be a problem?
Q. yeah i have a 2nd cousin thats had a crush on me since we were little. i never really thought much about it but now im starting to get a crush on her... the problem is i dont know if she still likes me or how our friends and family would take it......
A. 30 June 2008: I know we can't control who we like, but we can control what we do with the ones we like and how we act on it.
I think you should really step down and think about how your family and friends would feel about this, I don't think they'd be to happ... (read in full...)
Have I started my periods or just broken my hymen??
Q. hi! i am very worried! about a week a go my boyfriend fingered me! everything was ok ... then i started bleeding 4 a short while then it stopped.i have not started my periods yet but now there is this short discharge(marroon colour...
A. 30 June 2008: It could be either or, if it's your period, you need to search for signs like, are you cramping? mood swings? back pains? etc. He could of also broke your hymen, I don't know how good the chances are of that happening when somebody fingers you, but ... (read in full...)
How concerned should I be about the chances of pregnancy?
Q. i could be a week pregnant but im not sure. but my question is what is the chance? i have the feeling that my worrying is delaying my periode from the stress so thats why i need an answer soon. me and my bf been having sex this past week and im on ...
A. 30 June 2008: Don't be too concerned! It's very unlikely that your pregnant, considering your on the pill and using a condom most of the time. Just try to relax, girl! Wait a little while and if your period still doesn't come then take a pregnancy test. But i'm ... (read in full...)
What should I do about my vile friend? She's getting mean!
Q. hello ! i have a freind and shes my best freind and she has started to be mean to me for no apparent reason. she comments on things i say even if they dont involve her she constantly has a little go at me for no reason.today a girl who i am not fon...
A. 30 June 2008: I have a couple friends like this myself. Except it's all joking and just talk. Maybe she just doesn't realize she's hurting your feelings, and thinks shes being playful?
If so, do it back! When she says something rude, say something rude back and ... (read in full...)
He says I'm the only one he's had sexual feelings over, but in reality he is not gay. I've fallen in love with him, now what?
Q. Well I'm a 14 year old, gay guy and one of my best friends is 16 and doesnt exactly know his sexuality yet. Me and him have made out a lot and I've given him bj's (sorry 4 the tmi). He's told me that he's straight and that im the only one that he's ...
A. 30 June 2008: "He says I'm the only one he's had sexual feelings over"
Are the feelings just sexual, or does he actual have real feelings for you is the question you need to figure out. Don't let him string you along, while he explores his sexuality and play... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant? Or am I one of those people who can't?
Q. I am fifteen years old, and my ex boyfriend and I we're dating for around seven months. October 12 07 - May 9th 08. We had alot of unprotected sex, and it started in febuary and ended early June. I never have got pregnant but I've had alot of ...
A. 30 June 2008: I thank all of you for your answers. I am not pregnant!
Thank goodness.
Best of luck to you all :)... (read in full...)
We kissed and I felt bad, because I'm with someone else. Now what do I do?
Q. I really like this guy, I know he likes me too. The other night we had an amazing time, cuddling, kissing and talking. I felt really happy. I fell asleep beside him, and woke up smiling when I seen him. I don't know where we stand, or if it's goi...
A. 30 June 2008: Please do not reply to this post. I wrote a new one, because my computer will not let me see the question I stated which will eventually confuse me.
But please give me advice to my newest post.
I really need advice upon this question!
Tha... (read in full...)
Should I feel used? Do you think there is any hope that we'll get back together?
Q. my g/f broke up with me about 2 weeks ago and i'm still depressed. she was my first g/f and i'm 18 and she's 17. i thought everything was going great but i had noticed somethings but ignored them, thinking i was paronoid. after visiting her for a fe...
A. 30 June 2008: Do you feel as if you were used? Maybe you were, maybe you weren't. I think that maybe she thought alot about everything that has happened in the past, was she hurt from previous boyfriends, did they treat her badly? If so, she may think you could ... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and I like a boy who's 13, Is this wrong?
Q. I am 16 and i like a boy who is 13, i am very immature, and every guy i have liked has been younger than me. I've only been in 1 relationship (if you can really call it that) Is it wrong to like him??? ...
A. 30 June 2008: I don't see anything wrong in a little age difference, But your also sixteen years old, a thirteen year old is just a little boy, and your only two years away from being an adult! I think you really need to ask yourself if a thirteen year old boy ... (read in full...)
Am I too nice for my own good?
Q. I bumped into an ex boyfriend last night. We dated for a few months in 2004, and we stayed in contact throughout 2005, and we met up a few times in 2006, and have stayed in contact sometimes since then. He is a year younger than me. All the time...
A. 30 June 2008: Theres nothing wrong with wanting to catch up with an ex every once in a while. Even though he has told you before that he still liked you, maybe that was before. I don't mean to get your hopes down, but maybe he has moved on? Maybe he hasn't. It ... (read in full...)
I'm expecting a first kiss from my first boyfriend, I'm scared. What should I do?
Q. Im 15.. I've never been in a relationship, I've never kissed a guy either. The guy I like is 16, he's 16 and very experienced, in other words, he's done IT more than once. He likes me back. I'm not asking about sex, because there is no way ...
A. 29 June 2008: Don't sweat it! When I was expecting my first kiss, I was very worried and concerned about it. All these questions we're running through my head like, "am i going to screw it up, am i doing it wrong!?" Just relax. He will guide you through it and ... (read in full...)
I've got a crush on a girl, what should I do?
Q. well what do i do if i've got a crush on this girl and if i've seen her undress and she caught me and i want to do her while she sleeping....
A. 25 June 2008: Are you serious? You watched her undress, and you want to "DO" her while she's sleeping? I am just seeing this from a girls perspective and I hope most of you will agree, but you are a pervert! If you honestly have a crush on her, why don't you try ... (read in full...)
I love her and I trust her, so why do I get so jealous?
Q. Ok, well i have been in a relationship with this girl for eight months. I know i love her, if anything happened to her i swear i would die. And i know she loves me. I really think im the problem though. I trust her, i know she would never cheat on ...
A. 24 June 2008: I use to be jealous and insecure when it came to my ex - boyfriend. I use to hate it when he'd talk to other girls, and be with other girls. I had a long discussion with him about it one night and I told him the things that made me get so jealous. I ... (read in full...)
Help!!! I feel like I'm losing the plot!!
Q. I am very unhappy at the moment, I am6months pregnant by a man who doesnt love me at all, i love him 2 bits but there are things about him that are beginning to get too much for me 2 take. We met in Jan 08', and i found out I was pregnant in March, ...
A. 23 June 2008: You need to move on. You clearly deserve better then what is laid out in front of you. Yes, you did decide to keep the baby and whether he was ready for father hood or not, it is just as much as his responsiblity as it is yours to take care of the ... (read in full...)
I suspect I have been dumped because of her friends. Would it be wrong and stalkerish to message one of her friends about this?
Q. I need someone to smack some sense into me. I get the feeling that part of the reason this one girl dumped me (dated 2 months, long distance, she's 20 in college, I'm 23 out of college) was because of her friends. I never met them and I probably ...
A. 23 June 2008: It probably wouldn't be a bad idea. You should contact one of her friends as long as your doing it with the right intentions. Not to get them to dish the dirty details, but to get in touch with them and get to know them much better. After you have ... (read in full...)
Should I go further? I don't want to be a teenage dad!
Q. My girlfriend have been together have been together for nearly six months now and are very happy.We have got as far as me with my top off and her with her bra undone but still have her top on. I want to go a bit further and suggest oral but...
A. 16 June 2008: If you feel that you are ready, there should be no problem bringing it up in a conversation. You should be comfortable with your girlfriend before you decide to take it to another level. If you want to perform oral sex, but feel awkward talking ... (read in full...)
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