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writes:Im 15.. I've never been in a relationship, I've never kissed a guy either.The guy I like is 16, he's 16 and very experienced, in other words, he's done IT more than once. He likes me back.I'm not asking about sex, because there is no way I am ready to even go there!I'm very very certain that I wont be doing anything silly with him, so you dont have to worry about helping me with that.We are going out, however we haven't had our first kiss yet, and I can tell it's gonna come soon.I'm really scared, as I am completely unexperienced, and he is, so he has obviously kissed a few girls.Will he get put off if i'm bad?He knows that I've never kissed or gone out with a guy before.Guys advice would be more helpful.Thanks x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2010): Dont worry just go with the flow.when i had my first kiss with my girlfriend i was the inexperienced one and she had done it previously.so she asked me to just stay calm and follow her.so i locked the door made sure noone was around and then we started smoothly and after we felt comfortable we increased the momentum and then we kissed each other nude.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2010): I think you should just be your self and go with the flow, all first kissis are scary at first but it's one of the most magicl things soo don't let your fears get the better of you and it will then go perfect x
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2008): just go with the flow and things will be alrite. he will know how to handle the situation
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reader, dangerouslove.  +, writes (29 June 2008):
 Don't sweat it! When I was expecting my first kiss, I was very worried and concerned about it. All these questions we're running through my head like, "am i going to screw it up, am i doing it wrong!?" Just relax. He will guide you through it and I'm almost postive it will work out perfectly! It's not as hard as it looks. You will most likely get the hang of it in the first few minutes. When I had my first kiss, I had a very experienced boyfriend, and after we kissed, he told me I was a really good kisser! You never know, your first kiss could end up being the best one. Just be calm and relax, if it doesn't work out perfectly, he will not put off if he really likes you!
Don't worry
Good luck and keep me posted!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2008): Awwwh i remember my first kiiss like it was yesterdsay :D dont be scared, relax about it and it will all come naturally, just 'go with the flo' youll be finee. enjoy while you can =) and guys prefer to be more experienced than the girl anyway, my best friend hated the fact that his girlfriend had done 'stuff' before :D good luckk!!x
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reader, twisted +, writes (29 June 2008):
 awww, I remember that feeling, butterflies and all ad that was 19 years ago! On my boyfriends couch in his basement, right by the stairs! You're gonna be scared and awkward and it's not gonna be great, but with practice, you'll get better.
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reader, LaydeeOfSorrows  +, writes (29 June 2008):
 Believe me i know how you feel, but before it happens, try to read up on how to kiss properly, so when the time comes, you know what your doing.
Kissing comes pretty naturally, just make sure you tilt to the side, and start off slow!
Good luck!
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reader, Miss sunshine  +, writes (29 June 2008):
 RELAX GIRL! You shouldnt worry at all. First kiss is a very nice experience. What you should do is be really relaxed and let him guide you. He knows you havent got any experience but he is still going out with you, which means that he doesnt care if you know how to kiss. When the time comes just relax, close your eyes and enjoy the moment. Believe me if you are thinking too much it is not going to be good for neither of you. Realx and it is going to be magical i am sure!! Plus, guys love it when you are unexperienced and they get to be "your first" and teach you!! ;)
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reader, Msblessed +, writes (29 June 2008):
 If he knows that you've never kissed a guy before then don't worry about it. Don't worry about putting him off either just follow his lead. You'll do fine.
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reader, LilzDon'tKnow +, writes (29 June 2008):
 Lol i am also 15 and was in your position a while ago. Now, he will teach you how to kiss, but its not a put off, more of a put on because they get to teach you and that means more kissing for them. Secondly relax.. its not gonna be enjoyable if your busy wondering if your doing it right. Just follow his lead and try to mimic what he does.
Try to stray away from tounge usage but the most important part is to enjoy it you'll learn quick. just do what comes naurally
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2008): Well when he's kissing you just let him do the work or try and move your tongue and work. Or you could explain to him that youre not too experienced and he'll show you how it's done. When I had my first kiss i did'nt really know what to do but after practise and stuff i got the hang of it.
I know you prefered a boy answering your question but I think im really good with advice so i hope you take it.
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