Was it just a joke to him? He e called me PG and text me a pig cartoon
Q. Hi, Thanks for reading my post. English is not my native language I need advice. I am trying to the find right person. I started online dating . I met few guys but things did not work out. Its almost a month a guy tried to reached me. He ...
A. 18 December 2015: Calling some one a pig is very offensive...more to some people than others...but offensive non the less. It was not meant as a joke, and if by some chance it was intended as such you do not need someone with that kind of humour. You don't have to ... (read in full...)
Do you think this girl and I are right for each other?
Q. Hello, I wanted to ask whether this girl and I are right for each other. I think we are. I'd like some more feedback before I make a move. I care about this girl so much that the though of rejection petrifies me. I want to be as certain as possible ...
A. 24 November 2015: Just one word ...or rather sentence of advice.
Faint heart never won fair lady." you need to take that leap of faith. She is worth it.... (read in full...)
Should I ask her to my place for Thanksgiving?
Q. Would like some advice, I have been seeing someone for about three months, thanksgiving is coming up. She didn't offer, me to come over, that is fine, I got friends, I can go over, to their place, it's just the thought, she didn't ask, she k...
A. 18 November 2015: I wouldn't think too much into this. You may be getting close but she is most likely spending thanks giving with her family and thinks maybe three months is a little too early for you to be meeting the folks. I was seeing my boyfriend for over a y... (read in full...)
I'm in a new relationship and want to know if I should tell him about sleeping with my ex when we were just starting to date?
Q. Hello, I am in a new relationship which is going so well and I am extremely happy, when I first dated this man I was still in contact with my ex on a civil level or as friends as most would say, I went on a few dates with this new man and didn't ...
A. 28 October 2015: No. You shouldn't tell him it will only destroy what you have just begun to build with him. You probably feel guilty about it and subconsciously want to punish yourself for it by confessing to your new boyfriend knowing full well what the ... (read in full...)
We bicker so much. Breaking up is proving hard to do. How do I proceed from here?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 2 and a half years. About 3 months ago we decided to move out together, however we moved to a different town, not too far from home, maybe about 2 hours. At first I was happy and enjoying the new change, but within ...
A. 22 October 2015: It will be really hard on you both to break up but it will be harder on you still to stay together in a relationship that is this difficult and makes you so unhappy. Life is too short to waste time in something that just plain is not going to work. ... (read in full...)
How can I open up to him more when he talks about sexy stuff?
Q. im 19 and in my first ever relationship. my boyfriend always says sexy stuff to me and i never know what to say back. i look like an idiot and he gets a bit annoyed that he's the one that always does the talking in terms of sex. when he asks what i ...
A. 17 October 2015: Most of the time it is not what you say but how you say it. Use soft sultry tones, talk a little slower in a husky whisper.
What do you want me to do?
I want you to touch me...all over.
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My boyfriend lied and cheated for over a year and got another woman pregnant. Should I dump him?
Q. Should I dump my boyfriend he has fathered a child with another woman and lied and deceived me for nearly a year he was having sex with both ov us but I had no idea he was cheating neither did the other girl know about me. He told me cause I caught ...
A. 16 October 2015: Before you decide if you want to dump him or not...and you have to decide for yourself not us...ask yourself one question. Would he still regret it and have come clean about the cheating and the pregnancy if you had not found out or would he have ... (read in full...)
Should I cut contact with my ex? I'm worried about my new boyfriend
Q. I've met and am in a new relationship with the most amazing, incredible man I have ever known. We both make each other very happy indeed and already have very strong feelings for one another. I feel very relaxed and comfortable around him and he is ...
A. 27 September 2015: I suppose the question you have to ask yourself first is are you still attracted to your ex? is he still attracted to you? if the answer is yes but you don,t want to get back with him then distancing your self is a good idea. If you have zero ... (read in full...)
I feel like he just charmed me to get me to the bed and now that it's over, he's withdrawing himself. I feel disrespected, humiliated, hurt and betrayed.
Q. I've been dating this guy for the past three weeks. He seemed to be a nice, caring and romantic person who made me feel special and showered me with attention. Now, we've entered a relationship since the last 15 days (the guy himself brought this ...
A. 27 September 2015: He is not going to break contact because he thinks you haven't caught on to this lying tricks yet. He will stay as long as he feels he can get some bed time fun. Tell him the sexy time well is dry and your not falling for his sad routine and move ... (read in full...)
Should I go for it and have a threesome with my boyfriend and girlfriend?
Q. Need open and none judgemental advice people. I have a boyfriend and a gf. They both know about each other and they are both ok with the situation. The reason why I have two was I met them both within a week of each other and was "dating" like you ...
A. 11 September 2015: My suggestion would be to sit down with both of them together and tell them your fears, any concerns you have and let them voice theirs as well. It is very important you know whereevery one stands before you begin. Decide on a safe world that either ... (read in full...)
We're not teens. So is not getting 'butterflies' in a relationship a reliable indicator that our relationship will not ''work'', as he seemed to claim?
Q. I'm not sure how to word this. Almost seven months ago I was with a guy and everything was good, texted all the time, he remembered things I said (so I knew he was actually paying attention) he would be open and share things that I knew were pri...
A. 6 September 2015: I would say you have a strong mental compatability, you like the same things and seem to be a real meeting of minds. But from what you said it sounds like you don't have the sexual or the emotional compatibility needed to be a lasting couple which ... (read in full...)
My crush has a twin brother and he doesn't like me
Q. Hey everyone, A little advice needed so I like his boy d he's told me he likes me back but nothing seems to be happening we talk a lot and he's in my year at school as well what's nice so we get to see each other a lot. Anyway so he is a twin and...
A. 6 September 2015: The brother you like says he doesn't want you to back away, he is obviously as interested in you as you are in him. So it is his job to deal with his brother. He needs to talk to his jealous brother and assure him that you are no threat to their ... (read in full...)
Am I getting my life back on track? What could I do better?
Q. When I was 16 I had my first relationship ever and it turned out pretty awful, the guy was terrible/abusive and the whole thing left me in a terrible state where I was taking drugs till I tried to kill myself and I failed school, getting an 8 out of ...
A. 6 September 2015: I think you are very much on the fast rack to getting your life back together. You could have quit after the lowest point in your life but you haven't. You have pulled yourself up by your shoe strings and got back into school and are working so hard ... (read in full...)
I'm scared my boss will retaliate if I start dating my supervisor!
Q. At my job, I have several admirers but its ok since they are for the most part gentlemen and dont harass me or anything. Now, one of my supervisors "Joe" has liked me from day one. We have a crazy-cool rapport but he has told me straight-up that we ...
A. 6 September 2015: Firstly do not call yourself a whore, you put your faith and trust in someone and that trust turned out to be misplaced. We all make mistakes in our love lives and that is how we learn. You have nothing to be ashamed off. You should certainly tell ... (read in full...)
What can I do? Getting feelings for an online crush
Q. I met a guy online a couple weeks ago. We started texting and I'm starting to like him. Every day I find myself looking forward for his texts everyday because he always makes me laugh and is fun tot all to. I have no idea what he looks like sin...
A. 3 September 2015: I think as long as you have no plans to met and you don't get to serious with him then I see no harm in keep talking to him. Have him as a fun pen pal or overseas friend but keep him in that category. Don't let his existence in your life stop you ... (read in full...)
How can I break this cycle? How do I make my boyfriend less possessive?
Q. My boyfriend of almost 2 years is exceptionally caring, generous and always complimenting me. However he is also an incredibly jealous person, and gets angry at the slightest things, for example me liking photos that have boys in them on social m...
A. 3 September 2015: Unfortunately it isn't very easy to just simply break some one out of a possessive cycle. Jealousy isn't about " ownership" or " possession" of a person, it is about fear of losing that person to someone or something else. They are so afraid of ... (read in full...)
Should I give up on Prince Charming? Says he won't marry me unless I agree to become a swinger with him
Q. I am a very attractive, tall, successful, and fun-loving 25-year-old young woman. I am deeply and truly in love with the man I want to spend the rest of my life with. Our sex is amazing, and the adventures we have together are truly unreal. ...
A. 30 August 2015: People get married because they want to publicly declare their love and devotion to each, they want to pledge their lives to each other and the bond that binds them together. How seriously do you think he will take your marriage if he is so willi... (read in full...)
I Love her to the max! But since she's not talking, has she found a new guy?
Q. Should I still call her my girlfriend while there's no communication between us,we dated for 1 year and 7 months, so just because we not talking I think she found another guy at her school? Or maybe is't because of long distance relationship? I don'...
A. 30 August 2015: You say you are not talking so you think she has started seeing another guy. If that is true it would seem like she is only going out with someone else because she feels you are not interested anymore. If you really love her " to the max" then fight ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's phone rang, I went through his messages and now I feel sick
Q. I did something really horrible, my boyfriend left his phone at home, it rang and I saw the call from a woman he had done work for.but recently I saw a text, not sure if it was to her or from her saying "I am on my way see you soon." I went through ...
A. 30 August 2015: What sort of work did your boyfriend do for this woman? Is it the type of work that might need a follow up like for example if he was a handy man and he went round to repair something for her and something else needed fixing. Like wise if he is a ... (read in full...)
Do I get back with my ex? My current g/f is away for six months!
Q. I had a bad break up with my ex 5 years back we were dating 6 years. She had my baby and gave me a choice my new girlfriend or her and the baby. I chose my girlfriend. 5 years have past and now my ex is sending me pics of my child telling me all ...
A. 26 August 2015: From the information you have given I would think that your ex contacting you now is not about her but about your child. If she is five she is just starting school and no doubt is seeing all the other children with their parents and is curious about ... (read in full...)
I always stop us from going any further sexually but I'm not sure why?
Q. I am a bi male I've known this woman since last August, but we've only been dating since March. And this would be my first relationship with a woman. (I've dated women before but it never went anywhere nor did it get sexual.) Prior to dating this ...
A. 26 August 2015: I think to a degree it is because you are used to being with men. Maybe unconsciously you have anxiety over performing with a woman, of pleasing her because what feels good to a man does not necessarily feel good to a woman, some of the magical, ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is working but I'm here still waiting to go to university. Should I go to work instead?
Q. Hi, My girlfriend just dropped out from university and is now finding a working job, while I'm still waiting to go university next year due to national service for my country. I still left another 10 months before getting my civilian status. ...
A. 25 August 2015: This is really a question you can answer yourself but I would suggest a few things you should ask yourself while you are deciding. You decided what you were going to study at university, what you were going to university for... because you had ... (read in full...)
I almost cheated in a desperate bid to get pregnant. Should I tell my husband?
Q. This is a long one, and I hope I wont be judged, because I would never tell anyone this. I feel like a despicable human being. You guys are my only hope! My husband and I have been having a six year fertility struggle, mostly male factor. It ...
A. 20 August 2015: Tell him what? You briefly thought about using another man to get pregnant but the thought was so horrible for you you physically threw up. Yes you feel wasteful for even thinking it but you didn't do it. We have all had those moments where we are ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend of 7 months will not have sex nor let me see her naked
Q. My partner will not let me see her naked and as of yet we have not had any form of sexual contact and this is after us being together for over 7 months and each and everytime I try to talk to her about this she starts to cry and tells me that her ...
A. 20 August 2015: Have you considered wearing a blindfold? I know it sounds silly but if she is embarrassed about her body it wouldn't be a problem because you couldn't see her and if she is a virgin it would give her a chance to visually and explore your body at her ... (read in full...)
I want to tell my cousin I am in love with her. But what should I do?
Q. I am in love with my cousin , she is my mother sister daughter. I afraid to tell her I am not sure she love me. i'm afraid to tell her because we're so close to each other and i don't want to ruin this if she told she doesn't love me back . I a...
A. 17 August 2015: I looked up the law in your country regarding in family relationships and it is legal for you to marry your cousin thus it is legal for you to have a relationship. It is now really a matter of how your cousin feels about you. Has she given any sign ... (read in full...)
Three years together and my Gf has asked me to pay ($5000) towards a medical procedure she wants. What would you do if in my situation?
Q. I'm in a serious relationship with my girlfriend for the past 3 years. She's always been independent and has never asked me for anything. For the past couple of months however she has been thinking of getting a surgery that insurance won't help wit...
A. 28 July 2015: Does she have other options open, other people she could ask to help her such as family members or were you here first choice? Maybe if you are unable to loan her the money or are uncomfortable about it may be she could apply for a bank loan.... (read in full...)
My new guy is so much better than my ex. So why do I still want my ex?
Q. dear cupid I am a 20 year old girl and I have some relationship problems. I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years and started dating a new guy. The new guy is totally different from my ex, all the things that I wanted from my ex but I miss my ex so...
A. 27 July 2015: I think if you miss your ex so much and want him so much why is he your ex? There is obviously a reason you broke up and it was serious enough that you ended a three year relationship and choose a guy completely the opposite of your ex. I think this ... (read in full...)
I've been scarred from previous relationship and think of ex though I don't want her back
Q. I split up with my ex a year ago and have only started to get intimate with someone new but I keep getting very emotional being with the new person. I don't know why! I really, really like this new girl but I keep thinking about my ex and how bad ...
A. 27 July 2015: I think you keep thinking about your ex because you have unfinished business with him. You unconsciously need closure on an issue with him and he will keep haunting yourthoughts until you get it. Maybe it is a little too soon for you to enter a new ... (read in full...)
He isn't so fit with his clothes off!
Q. I met a guy online, and he actually turned out to be amazing...he's cute, he's smart, secure, funny, etc. etc.; pretty much perfect for me. We've been dating for a while now, and have even gotten to the point of saying that we love each other. ...
A. 26 July 2015: If you really love him you should love him because of his faults not despite his faults. He has lost a lot of weight through no doubt lots of hard work, effort and self discipline. You should admire him for his strength and determination, not judge ... (read in full...)
Oral sex with my college professor. It wasn't planned, it just happened. Should we quit it?
Q. Is this wrong? I'm 18 and ready to graduate high school, but I also have been taking college courses at a local community college. Well my one professor at the college started taking an interst in me. He never said so but I could tell. We were tal...
A. 26 July 2015: I'm sorry but college professors are forbidden from dating students even part time ones let alone be intimate with them. Any professor caught will be suspended while the case is investigated and then fired. I agree with the other people that have ... (read in full...)
Does anyone believe it is possible to love two people at the same time?
Q. I am not exactly young or naive, but does anyone believe it is possible to love two people at the same time? I don't understand why so many peole think it is impossible to truly love to people when you can love more than one child, more than one ...
A. 22 July 2015: There is nothing wrong with loving two people at the same time as long as you are faithful if you are married to one of them. There is no limit to the human hearts capacity to love so society shouldn't place a limit on it.... (read in full...)
My partner won't cum
Q. Me and my partner are 43. he has problems with cumming. I have never been able to get him off with oral, hand jobs have made him cum occasionally, he will never cum with me on top during intercourse. more recently he can only cum when we have sex ...
A. 21 July 2015: Is he on any form of medication? My lover was on medication for his depression and anxiety and it effected his ability to cum. He would stay hard, that was no problem, but it sometimes took up to half an hour of continuous stimulation ( very ... (read in full...)
He hasn't officially asked me to be his girlfriend. Are things are on the right track?
Q. I have been seeing this amazing man. He is one of the best men I've ever dated. For the two months we have been seeing each other, his intentions always seemed clear to me and I never pressured him or forced anything out of him. We've met each ...
A. 21 July 2015: You say you have been going out for two months, met his family and friends and you have introduced him to the important people in your life as well. In his mind you are dating he just doesn't realise that he has to make it " official" because he is ... (read in full...)
He couldn't handle the distance but says he still loves me
Q. 10 months ago I met this guy in an MMORPG (massively multiplayer online role play game) . Normally I don't talk to people I don't know because it normally aggravates me when strangers attempt to make friends with me. I prefer to be a solo player. ...
A. 16 July 2015: I know this may be hard to hear but he is doing the right thing. You are both young and have your whole life ahead of you and by waiting for years to be together you are missing huge chunks of it. He is forcing himself to do the right thing by both ... (read in full...)
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