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writes: Is this wrong? I'm 18 and ready to graduate high school, but I also have been taking college courses at a local community college. Well my one professor at the college started taking an interst in me. He never said so but I could tell. We were talking about a paper after class one day, when he pressed me to his desk and put his hand under my skirt. Of course it felt good, but he's 38 (unattached) and I'm not sure if I was right to let him. He continued on right in the classroom until I was finished. We didn't even kiss, but I ended up pleasuring him orally also. Is this relationship, if you can call it that, bad? Should I be concerned? I like him, but not in a boyfriend way. He and I just have a chemistry. I don't know if I should continue. Reply to this Question
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reader, chipmunk37  +, writes (26 July 2015):
 I'm sorry but college professors are forbidden from dating students even part time ones let alone be intimate with them. Any professor caught will be suspended while the case is investigated and then fired. I agree with the other people that have kindly given you advice that you are most likely not the only student he has tried this with. so it would be in your best interest to get yourself tested and avoid being alone with him in the future. If he wants to discuss a paper again make sure you discuss it in a relatively public place or have a friend or class mate go with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2007): Honey, if it pleases you and it pleases him and your grade's have improved, keep up the good work and you can some day work for the Federal Government and maybe even get to buff another President. Who know's ??
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2006): I guarantee you that you are not the first and won't be the last student that this professor abuses. Report what happened to both your high school guidance counselor as well as the administration of the college where the prof teaches. Also, you really ought to get diagnosed for STD's; the prof violated an ethical code by having sex with you, so what would make him so honorable that he'd be beyond transmitting a social disease to you?
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reader, Aunty Nah +, writes (3 February 2006):
he abused his position and knows u were vulnerable. I know a little danger can be exciting but what you must ask yourself is how many other students will he be doing? Open your eyes and think about it, u should report him as he should not be allowed to get away with it, please don't get too attatched as it will be hard to let go and cause a lot of pain once u fall deep.
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (3 February 2006):
 You are playing with fire here. I understand that you may feel a sexual attraction to him as an older man and there is nothing 'wrong' with that as such since it is not uncommon for younger females to be attracted to older men just as younger guys can be attracted to older women. However, more from his than yours but yours also point of view you are in a potentially bad situation.
If you were found out he would almost certainly lose his job and face alot of social stigma. You may well be viewed somewhat as a 'victim' but also in some social circles this incident would cause you to attract alot of scorn and comment.
I beleive that you are 18 but would i be correct in guessing that you are either a) a virgin or b) lacking in sexual expereince? What you do is ultimately your call. Just be aware of the potential consequences of your actions and also that there are 'safer' ways to get sexual experience.
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reader, willywombat +, writes (2 February 2006):
 jeez, go and get a life.
How old are you really?
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