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I may only be young but have seen a lot in my life.
I have had experience with alcoholics, physical and emotional abuse, bullying & family problems.
My friends always seem to come to me for advise so i thought i would give this a go.
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Unable to reject my ex but I don't want to cheat on my boyfriend!
Q. Hey Ok I have this Boyfriend that i really like, I think about him constantly, i always dream about him and talk about him to all my friends, but the problem is I still have feelings for my ex and he still likes me even though he broke up with me,...
A. 28 November 2010: If you can't 'reject' him either; a) stay in the room with your parents or b) make sure you are out until he has gone.
That way, until you decide who you want, you won't have cheated on your 'amazing' bf
X... (read in full...)
He knows I have a boyfriend, so why does he want to meet up?
Q. Hi guys, so this isn't a very serious question, but I'm just a bit confused about what this guy is doing. I'm happily in a relationship for almost 2 years now, we're doing pretty good, but recently this other guy is hitting on me, maybe? Met him on ...
A. 28 November 2010: I completely agree with the previous poster.
If you daren't say no to giving your number out then block him from calling you.
And don't meet him again!
Does your bf know you met him? ... (read in full...)
We both hang out with other people, and I'm tempted to cheat, can our relationship be saved?
Q. can our relationship be saved? my boyfriend begun to allow his female friends in our relationship. i will explain. he is allowing girls that are interested in him to hang out with us, when i told him how unhappy that makes me, now he hangs out with ...
A. 28 November 2010: If you want your relationship to be 'saved' but are tempted to cheat i would cut contact with the guy your tempted to stray with. That's what I would do. There's nothing wrong with either of you having platonic relationships with members of the ... (read in full...)
I am so sick of my girlfriends lazyness.
Q. Me and my girlfriend been together for around 4 years.we moved in and have lived together for 2.as of late she's been a bitch,anything and everything I do goes un noticed. She doesn't cook,clean,or help with bills.she likes to snap over the dumbest ...
A. 21 February 2010: Does she know you feel this way? You need to talk to her about it, she can't live with you and not contribute ... (read in full...)
I'm scared of sleeping in the same bed with him, but I don't know where to go!
Q. i posted a previous story about my bf starting to become aggrasive, i followed advice and just let it go. It happened again,last night, this time he did more, wich I hate to accept, Will I ever find a person who loves me without hurting me? He ...
A. 19 February 2010: U have to leave him, he may of been "gentle" this time but what about the next time and the times after that?! If you stay your letting him get away with it.
My mums ex was really sorry the first time it happened, it ended with him locking ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend what happened in bed with his best friend?
Q. What should I do ? , my b/f was out of town at a business function and we had a party down here , It was all good fun , with drink , music and Dance . When I was getting ready for bed I put on my favorite skimpy nighty and jumped in bed , ...
A. 16 February 2010: This could be just me but personally I wouldn't sit on another mans knee or let another man in my bed other than my boyfriend :/ it would feel soo wrong. Yeah a kiss on the cheek & a cuddle to say happy birthday or whatever but moving around to ... (read in full...)
I really want a baby, but I am confused at the whole situation.
Q. Hi I'm 19, I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months now never been happier and I know he's the one he is a few more years older then me. I've always wanted a baby. Last week I had a scare, told my boyfriend and he said if you are it's good news ...
A. 15 February 2010: I'm the same age as you & my partner & I have been together 2 years & have lived together over a year. We went through a similar thing to what your going through now. We have both wanted children for a while now. I posted a question on here, search ... (read in full...)
I am foxy and gorgeous, and hot for my nerdy cousin
Q. alright so im a pretty gorgeous 19 year old 5 foot three 105 pound outgoing hilarious fun foxy lady haha basically iv never in my life have had an issue in dateing. Guys love me i get them wrapped round my little finger haha :) my issue is i total...
A. 14 February 2010: This post/answers made my day! Lol...wonder if the poster indulged in a little incest after all?! ... (read in full...)
I caught her red handed cheating on me!!!
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years now.. i am not happy with her.. i caught her red handed cheating on me but she always tries to convince me in a fashion that i was wrong... i dont trust her any more... i really wanted to break up with her ...
A. 14 February 2010: If you caught her red handed how can she convince you your wrong?
You know what you saw.
The only way you can move forward from this is for her to admit everything. If/when everything is out in the open you can both sit down & talk things th... (read in full...)
Should I tell the boy what might be coming for him or just wait it out?
Q. Hey on friday i was at a restarunt with my best friends and my boyfriend and his friend. My best friend had to be getting to know one of my boyfriend`s friend and she barely talked to him. [she said she was nervous and so forth, and after the date ...
A. 14 February 2010: If I were you I would tell your friend what's going on, you havnt even done anything wrong yet it's you that's in the middle!
Tell her your boyfriend knows (or has heard or whatever) what she did and wants to tell his friend. Then tell her it i... (read in full...)
Girl advice needed on how to get to know her better!
Q. Alright, so I'm 16 years old. this is weird, but i've talked to this girl, texting wise, a lot. i never really talked to this girl with a long conversation before but my friend told her i liked her, and i basically admitted to her that yes i do like ...
A. 14 February 2010: Talk to her face to face! Text her to arrange somewhere to meet. If your shy suggest the cinema then a coffee after, hopefully after sitting with her through the film you will feel more comfortable & be able to open up a little bit.
If your too... (read in full...)
Am I REALLY that repulsive???
Q. I have been dating a great guy for abt 2 months. Things have gotten more intense the past couple of weeks (lots of kissing). Last night, I really wanted the sex to happen ( and it seemed like he did too). Then when I was mostly undressed ...
A. 14 February 2010: If this man keeps in touch and still wants the relationship to carry on then he is showing respect for you.
I don't think he can be repulsed by you or he would of stopped kissing you.
Maybe he doesn't want you to think he is only there for t... (read in full...)
Are we ready?
Q. okay here goes I'm 18 years old and will be 19 in june. I have been with my partner for over a year, we have been living together for 10 months and we adore each other. We both have stable jobs and have the option to overtime if we wanted. e...
A. 13 February 2010: Looking back to this question I asked nearly 12 months ago makes me so glad I took on board all your advise!
My partner and I are still together (2 years next week!), we have moved to a nicer house in a nicer area, we both have better jobs, I'... (read in full...)
Asked to be a God mother, what do I do!?
Q. My friend has just asked me to be god mother to her 2 children. I'm really flattered but I don't know what to say! Do you have to be a Christian to be a god parent? What will my role be? ...
A. 13 February 2010: Thanks guys. I see the kids often anyway, that's why she asked me (I think?!) I seem to have been roped into helping organise it too, not that I mind. I'm glad to be a part of it...now to find the christening presents... (read in full...)
I had sex with a bodybuilder!
Q. Hi everyone ..thanks for reading , Im in a spot here and I really dont know what to do ! I had always wanted to go to bed with one of those really BIG body builder guys at the gym , just watching them always got me aroused . Then one...
A. 13 February 2010: If you think your boyfriend should understand then why did you lie to him about it when he confronted you? You just made the situation a whole lot worse! Now when you tell him that it did happen (i'm presuming you'll do the right thing and co... (read in full...)
I am 19, want to get engaged and pregnant but I am afraid of my parents reaction.
Q. Me and my partner (both 19) have been together for a a year and 2 months we love each other dearly and are mature for our age. We have talked alot throughout our relationship about having a child and also getting engaged. It seems like forever ...
A. 12 February 2010: I'm 19 too, my dad said to me if I want children then that's my choice, I'm old enough to live on my own and support myself so I'm mature enough to make the decision myself. He also said he would prefer it if I waited untill my mid 20's (not that ... (read in full...)
Would it be so bad to get a tattoo reminding me of him, even though this weekend will be the first time we have met up?
Q. I have recently met a younger man (3 years) on a dating website. We have texted and talked on the phone. We are supposed to meet this weekend. To add insult to injury his father passed away this last Monday. I feel a VERY strong connectio...
A. 12 February 2010: Hmm when I read the title of this I felt like screaming NOOOO because I got a tattoo when I was with my boyfriend ... Then we ended the relationship and I now despise that bit of ink on my body.
But I suppose if it's symbolising a happy period i... (read in full...)
Is there anyway to find the guy I lost 2 years ago?
Q. Okay, so I talked to this guy over summer of 2008. Yeah its been 2 years... He was one year older than me and amazing. We got along so well and we had so much in common. We flirted the whole time we takled and it was great. My friend intoduce...
A. 12 February 2010: Facebook? ... (read in full...)
He told me he prefers larger breasts, when I only have small ones! How do I get over this?
Q. Lame question... but I have small breasts, and my boyfriend prefers big ones. I know this because his celebrity crushes have big breasts and because I asked him and he straight out told me. During sex I'm not self conscious about them, although when ...
A. 12 February 2010: My boyfriend prefers small boobs & mine are huge so I wouldn't worry too much about it. I used to think about it all the time but then I realised that if it mattered so much to him, he wouldn't be with me. ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend what happened in bed with his best friend?
Q. What should I do ? , my b/f was out of town at a business function and we had a party down here , It was all good fun , with drink , music and Dance . When I was getting ready for bed I put on my favorite skimpy nighty and jumped in bed , ...
A. 12 February 2010: Why was it "fine" for your boyfriends best friend to get into bed with you?... (read in full...)
A survey about Birth Control pills.
Q. Okay, so this will be a survey concerning birth control pills and its effectiveness.This survey is for my own purpose only, not for any scientific purposes. The subjects will be those of you who had or taking birth control pills, and have one par...
A. 7 May 2009: glad i could help x... (read in full...)
13, pregnant from first time and it was a dare
Q. Hey i have just turend 13 in december and just found out i am pregnant since I am really young and only just started my period in november i had sex in march and only slept with one lad a dont know what to do but i dont want an abortion but in a...
A. 7 May 2009: good luck with everything and keep us posted x... (read in full...)
A survey about Birth Control pills.
Q. Okay, so this will be a survey concerning birth control pills and its effectiveness.This survey is for my own purpose only, not for any scientific purposes. The subjects will be those of you who had or taking birth control pills, and have one par...
A. 5 May 2009: 1. I dont take it at the same time, i just take it before i go to bed. Unless im going out, then i take it before i go out.
2. I have never been pregnant & have been taking the pill for 4 years.
3. My partner does not use a condom. We have ... (read in full...)
13, pregnant from first time and it was a dare
Q. Hey i have just turend 13 in december and just found out i am pregnant since I am really young and only just started my period in november i had sex in march and only slept with one lad a dont know what to do but i dont want an abortion but in a...
A. 2 May 2009: your going to have to tell somebody, if you tell the nurse & they inform social services your parents will find out from them, im sure they would rather hear from you.
it sounds horrible but the longer you leave this (if you want an abortion... (read in full...)
My teacher loves me too!
Q. hey im 16 and i like so many others have fallen in love my with teacher but this time its different! He says he loves me too. now im totally confused. he told me last week and iv seen him a few times since but he havnt mentiuoned it again. i fi...
A. 29 April 2009: stay being friends, atleast untill you have left school & he has divorced his wife.
if he has no plans to leave his wife & children then your wasting your time, i know thats not what you want to hear but sometimes the truth hurts.
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How can I show them that I am not trying to trap their son?
Q. This year I went out of state to college and met a guy in the beginning of the school year and a few months into our relationship I found out I was pregnant. He said he was too young to be a dad so he bailed. During the time a guy in my apartment ...
A. 29 April 2009: if his family is anything like him then you will be fine. just be yourself, when his family see how much he cares for you and how happy you are together i dont think your pregnancy will be an issue.
good luck & enjoy yourself... (read in full...)
Financial support for single mothers?
Q. I'm 17, and i've just found out i'm pregnant (I was on the pill, so definately not intentional). I've decided to keep it, and i've made an arrangement with school so I can carry on with my education. I'm a bit stuck with what to do as regards to ...
A. 29 April 2009: the job center will sort everything out for you, all you will have to do is answer a few questions and give your details. my friend is on income support and at 25 weeks (or 27 i cant remember exactly sorry) she will get a 500 pound maternity ... (read in full...)
Pregnancy from this?
Q. can you get pregnant if a boy has came in your mouth then fingered you ...
A. 28 April 2009: take a test & find out for sure then. If your not you can choose to tell your mum, if you are then you havnt got a choice. x... (read in full...)
13, pregnant from first time and it was a dare
Q. Hey i have just turend 13 in december and just found out i am pregnant since I am really young and only just started my period in november i had sex in march and only slept with one lad a dont know what to do but i dont want an abortion but in a...
A. 28 April 2009: ask your doctor ... (read in full...)
Pregnancy from this?
Q. can you get pregnant if a boy has came in your mouth then fingered you ...
A. 27 April 2009: the longer you leave it the harder its going to be.
just be brave and tell her, she's your mum & she will love you no matter what... (read in full...)
He is addicted to drugs but I still fancy him!
Q. Hello, I have posted a similar question asking for advice but this is what has been happening lately. Please feel free to read and tell me what your honest advice is because I am stuck and soon I don’t know what to do. Thank you. How...
A. 24 April 2009: you cant make him stop, he will only stop if he wants to
the only thing you could do is ask him if he likes doing the things he is, research the drugs he is taking & explain some negative points to them & then tell him when he is ready to stop you... (read in full...)
Average bedtime for 14/15 year old?
Q. Heyy!! I was just wondering what the average bedtime for a 14/15 year old is?because it's school holidays at the moment and my bedtime is 9.30 and because it's the holidays, I thought that I could go to bed later than that. But no!! Blatentl...
A. 24 April 2009: my sister is 14. On a school night she has to go to bed inbetween 9 & 9.30. At the weekend or school holidays she goes to bed whenever she wants.... (read in full...)
Can't let go of my married man because he's good in bed.
Q. hi im 18 and i am seeing an 21 year old guy who i really like and care for but the problem is he is married i tried leaving him before but always go back to him i dont expect him to leave her and im happy with him am i doing the wrong thing he also ...
A. 24 April 2009: does marriage not mean anything anymore?!
you need to leave this guy, change your number, dont contact him, leave him to get on with his marriage & get yourself out with friends! Go out, enjoy yourself & meet new people, there are loads of guys ... (read in full...)
A request to all the young teens out there
Q. well i have realised that in the past few weeks there are so many young girls coming up with just one problem thats PREGNANCY.. why are the young teens underage(11-17) so unaware of the consequences it is soo sad that at the age of 13 or 14 instead...
A. 24 April 2009: coming from a teen who wants a baby, i know how these girls feel - the difference is i know now is not the right time, im 19 in a couple of months so its not illegal for me to be having sex but im not in any financial state to be bringing an ... (read in full...)
Please help! I am getting bullied by this mean Asian girl!
Q. Well I get bullied at school by this very mean Asian girl. Her name is Amen and she is so mean she calls me a fag, stupid, retarded, but mosty she calls me ugly and I don't know what do to =[ What should I do?...
A. 24 April 2009: i was bullied at school too, all the teachers were involved but unfortunately the bullying only got worse & i ended up leaving the school.
my sister goes to the same school & after i left they made a big effort to put a better anti-bul... (read in full...)
How could I convince her to have sex with me?
Q. I live with my cousin she is 33 and has two kids but she is so hot and I'm 19. I've been wanting to have sex with her forever now. She likes having sex but just broke up with her man. I made this lie where some girl said I was a bad kisser so I ...
A. 23 April 2009: If she won't kiss you she wont have sex with you! It's obvious she see's you as a cousin, that's all it's ever going to be! If you can't get over her and stop feeling like this I suggest you move out. I like having sex but that doesn't mean I w... (read in full...)
One year anniversary
Q. It's almost me and my boyfriend's one year anniversary... Can you guys give me some help on present ideas? Or like anything we can do that's special? Thanks! ...
A. 22 April 2009: how about going somewhere special for a meal? Or if you cant afford that a picnic (sorry i am really really bad at spelling!) or a candle lit meal at home? Why not frame a picture of the both of you and give him that or make him a cd with all hi... (read in full...)
Does anyone believe in fortune tellers?
Q. My question is quite short, I'm wondering if anyone believes in Fortune Tellers? xx...
A. 22 April 2009: one guessed my mum had had an abortion when the only 3 people in the world that knew were my mum, dad & doctor.
But i'v had 3 readings done now out of curiosity & the only things they got right were just lucky guesses.
... (read in full...)
Pregnancy from this?
Q. can you get pregnant if a boy has came in your mouth then fingered you ...
A. 22 April 2009: you can only get pregnant if cum goes in your vagina. So if he came in your mouth then no. If he had cum on his fingers and then fingered you, yes there is a possibility. ... (read in full...)
Somehow I got pregnant and I'm just not sure what to do!
Q. I'm 17, and i've just found out i'm pregnant. I really can't understand how, as I was on the pill, and even the doctor said it just doesn't add up. But after not having my bleed after day 21, I knew there must be something wrong, and so took 3 ...
A. 22 April 2009: nobody can make this decision for you, before you make this decision research your options.
a member of my family had an abortion without knowing what she was letting herself in for...she has regretted that decision ever since.
having a baby... (read in full...)
13, pregnant from first time and it was a dare
Q. Hey i have just turend 13 in december and just found out i am pregnant since I am really young and only just started my period in november i had sex in march and only slept with one lad a dont know what to do but i dont want an abortion but in a...
A. 14 April 2009: it might be cool to dress it up & show off to your friends but will it be cool when your getting up loads during the night? Or when your mates are all going to partys without you because you cant get a sitter?
You need to think about whats be... (read in full...)
Are we ready?
Q. okay here goes I'm 18 years old and will be 19 in june. I have been with my partner for over a year, we have been living together for 10 months and we adore each other. We both have stable jobs and have the option to overtime if we wanted. e...
A. 6 April 2009: hey every1, first of all thanks for the advise.
My partner and i read and re-read ur advise, had a long think & even longer chat & made a decision...
We are going to wait, we have made list of things we want to do before having a baby. ... (read in full...)
Are we ready?
Q. okay here goes I'm 18 years old and will be 19 in june. I have been with my partner for over a year, we have been living together for 10 months and we adore each other. We both have stable jobs and have the option to overtime if we wanted. e...
A. 21 March 2009: thanks again people
Never been on a site like this before so i guess i was curious & thought why not kill 2 birds with 1 stone!
Nooo, dont ever ever ever want to be anything like my parents, they divorced when i was 5, i hardly saw him untill i... (read in full...)
Are we ready?
Q. okay here goes I'm 18 years old and will be 19 in june. I have been with my partner for over a year, we have been living together for 10 months and we adore each other. We both have stable jobs and have the option to overtime if we wanted. e...
A. 21 March 2009: thanks all, appreciate ur time & opinions
in reply to some questions...
Yes we have spent time apart, 2 6 week stints
Yes we have had money worries but we did the best we could & got ourselves sorted again
Yes i do have a job, as does ... (read in full...)
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