I need skincare advice please?
Q. hi friends!! i need your peoples advice how to reduce the dark spots on my face...? what natural things can i use in the house reduce to get rid of them please advice me if you guys know about it and for how long to keep and when should i do apart ...
A. 13 August 2009: Cucumber... (read in full...)
I want another birth control choice other than the pill!
Q. Ok so I want to get on birth control I was on the shot but I want something else. But I don’t want the pill so does anyone know a good one And please don’t say I’m too young to be having sex I only done it once but I want to keep myself protecte...
A. 13 August 2009: The shot, the patch, the ring, the implant, an IUD, abstinence. ... (read in full...)
Will having anal sex without a condom or lube be safe?
Q. My boyfriend and I have had anal sex before with condoms but, no lube,(i was okay with it). Now he wants to try it without a condom,im not worried about the pain but, will it be safe?...
A. 13 August 2009: It's pretty painful, more of a ripping sensation. Not sure if it's safe, but it can definitely get really painful..... (read in full...)
Anxiety is ruining my relationship. Please help me.
Q. Hello I would like an outside point of view for my problem, I live in USA, I am inmigrant, from third world country, I came to this country after has suffer a lot of missery in my country of origin, my first years here were awfull because I didn't ...
A. 12 August 2009: Congratulations. You have worked very hard and you deserve all of the wonderful things you have right now. You could have depression, a doctor can diagnose you. If you're prescribed something then it helps with anxiety. ... (read in full...)
Help!!! Is she lying to me?
Q. Ok let me start by giving some background info. I really wanted to be with a popular girl, i finally got there, she is now psycho, she has tried to tell me she is pregnant 3 times now. Ok ok ok, now i stayed away from her for 4 weeks. Broke do...
A. 12 August 2009: Take her to the mall, buy a pregnancy test and ask her to go in the bathroom and pee. Wait outside the door for your answer.... (read in full...)
He wants us to live together but NEVER to marry!
Q. I need advice so badly! I am 41 an he is 50. We have been dating 2 years and we both have had 2 divorces each and we both have kids. I have been divorced 6 years and he has been divoced 8 years. We get along great, we love each other we spend all ...
A. 12 August 2009: If this is such a big issue for you then maybe you're not as perfect as a couple as you thought you were. You don't need to be married, you can live together and be common law partners. Same rules apply as though you were married. If the commitment ... (read in full...)
I need help in my decision to lose my virginity and have a baby!
Q. hey... im a 15 year old girl. and i jus wana no wat people think and if they have any advice.. ive been in a relationship with this boy for jus over a month. and i reli wana lose mi virginity and have a baby!! i no people are goin 2 say im ...
A. 10 August 2009: Be prepared to be torn apart in the next couple posts you get. You're not even old enough to consent to sex. You think you're going to stay together forever with the guy you're with now? You're probably not going to.
Having sex is a big enough deci... (read in full...)
I found out she had got another boyfriend whilst I was ill in hospital, but now she claims to be missing me!
Q. I had been in relationship with a girl for the last 1 and half year. One day, I was sick and hospitalized for about 2 months. the 1 week of sickness time my girlfriend is normal. After that she hardly contact me and when I did she has lot of ...
A. 10 August 2009: Just let it go, man. You don't need her. ... (read in full...)
Did my hymen break this time or not?
Q. the first time i had sex, i did not bleed. 3 years later I met my boyfriend and we had sex and I bled. My partner was rather rough. I could feel his whole penis inside me in few seconds. So did my hymen break this time? I bled for only a little ...
A. 8 August 2009: Sounds like it. Yup..... (read in full...)
I found out she had got another boyfriend whilst I was ill in hospital, but now she claims to be missing me!
Q. I had been in relationship with a girl for the last 1 and half year. One day, I was sick and hospitalized for about 2 months. the 1 week of sickness time my girlfriend is normal. After that she hardly contact me and when I did she has lot of ...
A. 8 August 2009: Mind games are never fun. If you want to express that you were hurt by her actions then do so, but i wouldn't go into it with the intention of making her cry.... (read in full...)
I found out she had got another boyfriend whilst I was ill in hospital, but now she claims to be missing me!
Q. I had been in relationship with a girl for the last 1 and half year. One day, I was sick and hospitalized for about 2 months. the 1 week of sickness time my girlfriend is normal. After that she hardly contact me and when I did she has lot of ...
A. 7 August 2009: I'd leave her be. She clearly doesn't respect you or love you enough to be with JUST you. If you give in then you're just going to get hurt even more. Why not find a nice girl?... (read in full...)
I don't believe in true love so I want my friend to pop my cherry!
Q. How can I convince my friend to pop my cherry before I go off to the college? I really don't believe in "True Love", so I'm not waiting for the right man....
A. 7 August 2009: Um, ask him/her to have sex with you. I'm sure they'll gladly oblige.... (read in full...)
Stay in a sexless marraige or take a chance?
Q. I;m only in my early forties ,and my husband does not want to have any sexual contact with me due to some unclear psychological problems. I need sex, i don't believe in cheating, shoud I leave him? It is a tragedy for me, I never thought it will tur...
A. 7 August 2009: Have you tried Viagra? Has he been prescribed anything to fix his lack of sex drive? I'm pretty sure somewhere in your marriage vows it probably said something about "in health and sickness" or did you edit that part out? I realise that sexual ... (read in full...)
He walked out on me after I said one too many drunken things. Should I try and work things out ?
Q. hi, i have just lost my man of three yrs because of my jealousy and insecurity. I came home after 2 many drinks and told him i wanted to be by myself and i wanted him out of my life.well this is not the first time i have done this and now he is ...
A. 7 August 2009: Stop drinking. Call him and tell him you're sorry and that you realise that it's only because of the alcohol you said those things and you're willing to give up the booze to keep him around. Keep your word.... (read in full...)
Should I have a threesome with my best friend?
Q. so my bestie is like 25 and he has a booty call gurl shes 21 and bi iam 19 and bi so my firen well we were kindda dating when i was 15. hes gurl likes me and i like her shes koo but not like immma steal her from him but they bot...
A. 7 August 2009: Pass.... (read in full...)
My b/f started talking to a boy about this hot girl with whom he used to watch porn... in front of me. Is this right?
Q. I have a pretty good relationship with my (relatively new) boyfriend, but the other night we had a little hiccup. This hiccup in itself is definitely nothing we won't get over but it led me to think further about the issue and my reaction to it. B...
A. 7 August 2009: He doesn't sound like he gives two flying frogs about your feelings. I'd be really upset if my guy talked about things like that in front of me. He either A) has no manners or B) is really careless and doesn't censor himself as he should.
I'd also... (read in full...)
Could I become pregnant so soon after stopping the pill?
Q. I Was on the Yaz pill for 2 months straight, I started to take my 3rd pack but in the first week I stopped because they were causing horrible migraines. My period came 6 days later like it normally does because my cycles are regular. Well 2 weeks ...
A. 7 August 2009: Did you read the box? The day you miss your pill you're at risk of pregnancy. ... (read in full...)
I haven't had sex but I'm still worried I might be pregnant... what are the chances?
Q. I'm 16 and have been going out with a guy for just over a year. We have never actually had sex, but he has lay on top of me when both our trousers have been off (underwear still on) and it is a possibility that wet could of touched wet and I hear ...
A. 6 August 2009: You're not pregnant. If you are, you're one in a million, congratulations. I wouldn't waste money on a pregnancy test, if you sit back and relax and keep your mind off it then I bet you that it will come. If you're not ready for a child then be more ... (read in full...)
He was "the one" but he cheated.. should I forgive him?
Q. This thing is eating me inside out for almost a year now, so I decided to seek advice here. It is a long question, because it is a devastatingly complex issue for me. We met 6 yrs ago, clicked right away, talked for hours, ending eachother's sent...
A. 5 August 2009: I'm sorry, but "the one" isn't a scumbag as this man seems to be. If you cheat, then you're a cheater. Cheaters=Scum. No exceptions. I promise.... (read in full...)
How do I explain to my b/f how I feel about porn!
Q. how do i explain to my boyfriend how i feel about porn! it gets me really depressed that im not the only person he wants and he wishs he could have sex with these girls! i ave low confidence and my confidence is completely gone because of this! its ...
A. 4 August 2009: I don't think it's that he wants to have sex with the girls in the films, it's that he liked the images of a girl and a guy to get him aroused. If you don't like it then tell him. If he doesn't do anything about it then leave him.... (read in full...)
Having sex outside - is this legal?
Q. Hi The thought of sex outdoors really turns me on and i really want it. However is it legal to have sex outdoors what would happen if we got caught? Thanks...
A. 3 August 2009: You get caught during the act in public? You get slapped with a "lewd acts in public" charge. You get caught naked in public? You get charged with indecent exposure in public. ... (read in full...)
I started my next pack of birth control pills right after the last one so I wouldn't get my period...but I got it anyway. Why?
Q. I recently had sex with my boyfriend, and i started my period while we were doing it, im on the pill and i knew we were going to be having sex so i started to take another packet straight after i finished the last one so i wouldnt get a period. so ...
A. 3 August 2009: It's called "breakthrough bleeding". Your body has it's schedule and it takes a little while to get it on a new schedule.... (read in full...)
I get too wet during sex!
Q. i come to fast and get wet to much why?...
A. 31 July 2009: because everyone has a different body and that's just the way you are. if you think you may have a medical issue, please see a doctor.... (read in full...)
Does Plan B work?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 3 months and having sex for 2. He sometimes asks me if he can just pull out but I've always been too afraid to risk it (because I'm not on any other type of birth control) so we always used a condom. ...
A. 30 July 2009: There is still a chance because Plan B doesn't work 100% of the time, it's intended to be an emergency form of birth control, and it was not intended to be used as you used it. if it does work, you should start your period soon. ... (read in full...)
What should I do on my 18th birthday?
Q. So my 18th birthday is coming up and I'm afraid that I'm a bit socially awkward in regards to parties or anything that involves a big group of people when academics are not involved. So far I've tried to have pool parties or something of the sort, ...
A. 30 July 2009: take a day trip with your friends to a nearby city or town and go to dinner.... (read in full...)
Help its my first time today!
Q. okay..today is the day i have sex with my boyfriend and i'm scared because i don't know what to do with him and he wants me to be on top and i don't know anything about sex and he does not want to be on top of me because he is going to be tried and ...
A. 28 July 2009: haha, good one. Um, sweetie.. we're not going to advise you on how to break the law, sorry.... (read in full...)
Women only: Oral sex or intercourse?
Q. This questions is for women only: This might sound like a weird question but just think about it for a minute. If you had to choose between really good oral sex or actual intercourse - Which would you prefer, a really good tongue licking you dry all ...
A. 26 July 2009: intercourse.... (read in full...)
Which pregnancy test do I buy?
Q. Well hey everyone, before you anwser I just want ADVICE, not your criticism. Thanks. I'm 14 and I have irregular periods, like sometimes its it is in the beginning of a month and then at the end or middle. I had sex for the very first time on J...
A. 26 July 2009: Hey sweetie. You should just relax. Stress can bring along a lot of the symptoms of pregnancy, especially stress about being pregnant. It's kind of like a vicious circle. First response is an early pregnancy test. It can be used up to 5 days before ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says he's curious to date other women
Q. I have a boyfriend that appears to be curious to date other women... I'm his first girlfriend, we've been dating for 3 years. He was 25 years old when we first started dating..He's been very critical of me lately, says that I'm difficult and wants a ...
A. 26 July 2009: Let him know he can't have his cake and eat it too. If he wants to throw away your relationship and date other women, let him. But don't sit there and let him soil your relationship because he's curious about other women. If he wants to be with ... (read in full...)
My ex mentioned he'd kill another guy if I was with him!
Q. A while ago me and my boyfriend broke up and we decided to be mates with privileges, it was all good until we actually had sex, he got like half way through it and then said “what are we?” and I said “mates?” and he stopped? Eh, don’t think he’s got ...
A. 25 July 2009: I'd let him know that he can't keep speaking like that because eventually you'll have a new guy, and he can't control you. Personally, I'd stop speaking to him all together so he can get over you. I'd be worried about him getting abusive and even ... (read in full...)
I always thought we would remain friends, but she has told me to stop bothering her!
Q. I'm 30 yrs old and I was in a relationship with a single mom who is 7 years older then me. The relationship lasted approx. 3 years in which we lived together the entire time. It's going to be a year since our break up next month. She has a 7 yr...
A. 24 July 2009: You definitely need a hug! In all honesty, i'm not sure why she reacted that way either, because unless you left something out, there is no apparent reason.
There are some possibilities though.. she could be pmsing (classic, eh?) I know it soun... (read in full...)
Do I start an affair with my student or keep it stricly professional?
Q. Hi aunty, I have been following your forums for a while..I am 25 yr old female-single teacher,I teach Computers for 12th grade boys school in USA..I often were tight dresses and mini skirts to school, i have a decent figure as I am fitness freak!!! ...
A. 24 July 2009: Do you want to lose your career? Didn't think so. Just leave him alone. If he loves you or you love him then maybe it can happen long after he graduates, but as of right now it sounds like lust. When teachers date students they get fired. You have a ... (read in full...)
Freakish foreskin?
Q. Ok, I'm 19, and I've never really been concerned about the fact that I'm uncircumcised, but today I tried on my first condom, it got all bunched up due to foreskin problems, and one thing lead to another and I got online checking all sorts of things ...
A. 24 July 2009: S-Breeze, most women don't care either way. If you're in love with someone you're not going to stop because they're circumsized or not, that just doesn't make sense. Sounds normal, simply cosmetic. If you want it changed you'd have to get ... (read in full...)
Should we give our child the freedom to choose or enforce one of our religions on our child?
Q. hi, umm so i found out a few weeks ago that me and my husband are going to have a baby, and i'm really excited but the only problem is that he's christian and i'm catholic. were both stressing out because we don't know what to raise our child, ...
A. 23 July 2009: I would leave it up to your child to decide. Does it really matter in the long run? I was brought up catholic and now i'm an atheist. Let you child decide when it's older. It may choose no religion, which is great isnt it? A world without religion? ... (read in full...)
Should I go back to my ex-girlfriend, or stay with my fiancee who lied to me, and has a shady past, I do love her?
Q. This is a mess of a problem... and after reading this, you won't like me. Partially because I'm discussing cheating on my fiancee, and further because I end up passing sweeping judgment on people who've slept around. Ironic, right? That said, if you ...
A. 19 July 2009: I don't understand why this is so hard for you to just leave the girl. You knew about her past, and you still asked her to marry you. But now you've changed your mind so leave.
None of the girls you dated were quality? What? Are you God? You thin... (read in full...)
I want to be more...
Q. I know there are many, many flat chested women in the world who are living life happily. However, I'm not one of them. I'm single, and it just seems so unfair that despite having a nice face/hair, taking care of my appearance, and dressing up well, ...
A. 19 July 2009: You can't do anything to make your breasts larger, aside from plastic surgery. I've met guys who prefer small boobs (seriously, they're out there). It's just a matter of finding the right person for you, because there is one. ... (read in full...)
What is your meaning of life?
Q. I have no idea what I'm supposed to do. I thought maybe reading other people's raison d'etre might help me figure my own. So does anyone here know why you exist?...
A. 19 July 2009: We are just organisms, we have no specific "life mission" other than to die. Before society became so complex, humans hunted, ate, and slept. That's it. They had no "God", no religion, and no mass murder machines. Life is what you do while you're ... (read in full...)
Should I go back to my ex-girlfriend, or stay with my fiancee who lied to me, and has a shady past, I do love her?
Q. This is a mess of a problem... and after reading this, you won't like me. Partially because I'm discussing cheating on my fiancee, and further because I end up passing sweeping judgment on people who've slept around. Ironic, right? That said, if you ...
A. 19 July 2009: After your last response (which was not directed at me, I know) I feel as though you're just a hypocrite. A Christian hypocrite. I don't understand why, if you're so unhappy with this girl who you feel is completely below you, you don't just break ... (read in full...)
Should I go back to my ex-girlfriend, or stay with my fiancee who lied to me, and has a shady past, I do love her?
Q. This is a mess of a problem... and after reading this, you won't like me. Partially because I'm discussing cheating on my fiancee, and further because I end up passing sweeping judgment on people who've slept around. Ironic, right? That said, if you ...
A. 18 July 2009: Two wrongs don't make a right.
I'd love to tell you that's all I have to say, but it isn't. You're rediculous. You've constructed yourself according to some "morals" that are more than likely fabricated solely on the basis that the "bible told... (read in full...)
Any products or ideas to tighten vaginal walls?
Q. Hello, I am 20 years old and I am very experienced when it comes to sex, lately I've been noticing that my vagiana is looser than ususal, usually it doesn't matter how much I have sex and my walls will still be very tight, I don't know what's ...
A. 18 July 2009: Here's one. http://www.ayurvediccure.com/vagina-tightening-cream.htm Beware of hoaxes though.... (read in full...)
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