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Women only: Oral sex or intercourse?

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Question - (26 July 2009) 18 Answers - (Newest, 5 June 2011)
A male United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

This questions is for women only: This might sound like a weird question but just think about it for a minute. If you had to choose between really good oral sex or actual intercourse - Which would you prefer, a really good tongue licking you dry all over until you orgasm or intercourse? I know you might say "both" but personally which gives you more pleasure?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2011):

I like the sexy, silky, funky and sweet enjoyment of having my man give me long-lapping, sucking head and visa versa, but it does not compare to the strong, long going feeling of having him inside me: fucking me, making love to me.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2011):

As much as I adore oral sex giving and getting (especially when enthusiastically given), I have a special place in my mind and heart for the good ole in-and-out of intercourse! I like the connection of it that's not quite the same with oral.

I like the way my man responds and 'surrenders' to the power of the pussy; going easy and strong. Even when he is a bit hard and wild making me feel completely possessed at points. Yet I'm control at the same time at points. Hard to explain...

I like looking up at him enraptured and engaged, shuddering, moving and moaning etc. I don't have orgasms thru intercourse, but would not want have it absent. There's a soothing vibe about it when it's right. It's good exercise.

And I like the whole idea of the lovemaking/ fucking combo of it and squeezing him all over, holding him close, feeling the intensity of it thru out my body, and mind overall -- the all body connection level.

Sometimes if it goes too long I get a bit board, but hang in there as the foreplay or oral that came before it is all good.

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A female reader, alwayznd4eva116 United States +, writes (13 September 2009):

alwayznd4eva116 agony auntoral sex !!! ii loveee when my man eats me out. i have never had an orgasm thru intercourse..but ive had them through oral and its the bestt feeling !!

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A female reader, Olivia(Y). United Kingdom +, writes (29 July 2009):

Olivia(Y). agony auntI would say oral :)

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A female reader, littlekitten1130 United States +, writes (28 July 2009):

littlekitten1130 agony auntintercourse!3

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A female reader, babymama99 United States +, writes (28 July 2009):

babymama99 agony auntIntercourse! No Contest.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2009):

Intercourse of course.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2009):

Oral is a better physical feeling of pleasure. however intercourse is a 'mental pleasure', if that makes sense! the thought of someone inside you is quite powerful, its a real 'connection'.

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A female reader, Hesty United Kingdom +, writes (26 July 2009):

Intercourse is much more pleasurable for me. Simply because of the closeness of a guys body over mine and the intimacy of having him look me in the eyes etc.

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A female reader, bobbles32 Canada +, writes (26 July 2009):

bobbles32 agony auntintercourse.

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A female reader, Starlights United Kingdom +, writes (26 July 2009):

Starlights agony auntintercourse most definately!

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A female reader, sugar_sugar United States +, writes (26 July 2009):

sugar_sugar agony auntIntercourse! I get more powerful orgasms from oral, but the closeness and mutual satisfaction of sex makes it the winner.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2009):

lovie it's sex everytime

oral is goood but to be honest, sex is better

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2009):

intercourse definetely.whilst i love a good oral session i get greater orgasms from intercourse x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2009):

i'd say oral if i'm not in da mood , but if iam then intercourse

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2009):

Intercourse is nice for feeling close and is pleasurable but oral sex wins for sheer sexual stimulation and pleasure.

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A female reader, MistressNataliee United Kingdom +, writes (26 July 2009):

Defo intercourse, pleasure for both and more variety of positons etc.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2009):

intercourse gives more pleasure, its more intimate but an orgasm from my clitoris is probably more intense, this is why when im about to cum my boyfriend will stimulate my clitoris and then bam two in one :-)

also he usually does both in one night!

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