I've accepted that I'm gay but I'm still confused
Q. Ok i recently accepted that i'm gay, but im a little confused. I still see a lot of beauty in girls, even with girls that most guys wouldn't be attracted to. but the thought of sex with a girl turns me off. Yet the more attractive the girl is, the ...
A. 11 July 2009: Based on what you've told me here in your question, I'm wondering about some psychological distress. You mentioned that when talking to girls you "froze up like a deer in headlights", and that you thought it was "a lot easier to talk to girls ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex with my first cousin
Q. i was wondering what other people thought about this. For many years me and my older cousin(female and 17 years) have been REALLY close.we talk each other often about sex,life and that sort of thing.Is stuff like this normal for first cousins? By ...
A. 3 July 2009: well Arvind, you might lose the best friend you've ever had, But you might gain the greatest lover.
I'd say, slip her your spicy samosa, and experience that kind of passion with her!... (read in full...)
I am in love with my step niece. What should I do?
Q. My step niece and I are very close in a relationship and we are so crazy about each other! I don't know what to do because the families will disown us if they find out. I've never been so happy in my life! Please tell me what I can do it would ...
A. 3 July 2009: well, keep it on the DL, but slip her the sausage and see how it goes. Make sure to tell us all the details... (read in full...)
Pointy boobs and big nipples - is it okay to have boobs like mine?
Q. My boobs are pointy and my nipples are big. I have small boobs already so neither of these things help at all. i have never seen anyone with boobs like mine. I want a boob job but i'm only 16. My boyfriend says they are fine but sometimes when we ...
A. 3 April 2009: Oh you poor dear,
Of COURSE it's ok to have boobs like yours! Oh, don't worry at all, you're completely natural and fine! Really, everybody's body is different, and you won't find two sets of boobs alike. Don't bother getting a boob job, they sou... (read in full...)
I have razor rash! How can I avoid this when shaving?
Q. i shave my public hair and now i have gt little red dotes all over .. lots . wtf !! i cant shave now cause it iwll get worse and they will get caught in the razor and i dont think they will go away !! help !! is this common ????? what can i do ??...
A. 3 April 2009: Hey there, I know what you're going through. Though i don;t shave my pubic hair, I do shave my face and neck, and often have similar irritation.
There are a few things that you can do to reduce the irritation you're experiencing:
1) Befo... (read in full...)
Why are all these teenagers talking about their sex lives on here?
Q. Is anyone else here fed up - and worried for - all the under-aged girls who come here, desperate for answers about how to solve their problems with their boyfriend who is 10 years older than them? I mean, a lot of these girls are 15 years or ...
A. 3 April 2009: DoubleM, there’s no need for you to be such a condescending, pompous jerk. Save your high and mighty comments for yourself, and don’t waste time trying to correct insignificant spelling errors. Frank_B_Kermit and a_decent_1, your answers were some ... (read in full...)
I know I'm "ready" but I'm scared his penis won't fit in me...
Q. Me and my bf have been dating for about 4 months and I'm still a virgin but he's obviously not. I really want him to be the one because I trust him fully and even if we do break up - I just know that he's the one. I'm only 14 but I know I'm read...
A. 1 April 2009: Good lord Kat,
Really? You're 14 years old, and you think you're ready for sex? Lots of people go to jail for having sex with 14 year olds. You can't be serious. This is SO wrong. Geeze, when did you hit puberty, 2, 3 years ago? I know people h... (read in full...)
I'm heavy and worried it will affect my chances of asking out a girl
Q. Help! I think I might be interested in a girl and I want to know what to do. The problem is I am very overweight and I get a feeling that being overweight and asking someone out may get a really negative reaction...you know sort of people being ...
A. 14 December 2008: hmm, I here you brother. I am overweight as well. But let me say a couple of things first.
It sounds like you're only just getting to know her, and it also sounds like you're not entirely sure if you want to ask her out: These are both very goo... (read in full...)
I'm 15, he's 26, we really click, should I consult my parents?
Q. Dear Agony Aunt, do you think that age matters? i mean in our world which we live in, these days, you hear stories about 60 year olds having babies and 8 yer old's smoking, so is it such a bad thing for 15 year old and a twenty six year old to f...
A. 14 December 2008: You seem to be under then impression that just because other people do something, that it makes what they do alright, and excuses you from any responsibility of your own. You think because 8 year old's smoke that it's ok? You think that gives you a ... (read in full...)
Poll: What has been your most pleasurable, or most erotic sexual experience and why?
Q. Poll: What has been your most pleasurable, or most erotic sexual experience and why? Details and explanation are encouraged. My hope is that the answers will benefit those looking for ideas in their own respective sex lives. ...
A. 7 December 2008: daletom, I think you may have just given the best and most meaningful response. I hope I can have similar experiences when I get married. Thank you for sharing. ... (read in full...)
My life in a nut shell: bad marriage, and I want my ex back!
Q. I'm Married and have been for over a year now. In the begining it was great. Life was perfect... til she hit twenty one. Shes always been the party drinking type, but now it is worse. She works nights and I work days, but when it's the weekends, ...
A. 6 December 2008: Well man, we never can turn back the clock - it's just a simple but hard fact of life. What's done is done. Even if you do go back with your ex, who's to say it will be so great? I dunno man. As bad as you feel your marriage might be, you also made ... (read in full...)
I have never been kissed but now I have to kiss on the stage, any tips?
Q. I am in a school production. I have a few kissing scenes... problem is I have never been kissed. I am ok with a stage kiss and he is also and that is what the director wants but in the play I am a very aggressive character that kisses him. I don't ...
A. 6 December 2008: This is a great question. I have never been in a play which required me to kiss someone on the lips - and frankly I think that's a little too much to ask from someone your age. So, if you're really not comfortable with it at all, then talk to you ... (read in full...)
Does his e-wink ; ) mean anything?
Q. I sent a message to someone i like on a social networking site, and told him i thought he was attractive and funny, and he replied saying thanks, kiddo and put a wink symbol like this - ; ). what do you think his response means ?....
A. 5 December 2008: I agree with others that you probably shouldn't read too much into the wink. He probably just appreciated the compliment, and that's all. Also "kiddo" isn't really something you call someone you're interested in. It's more of a condescending term - ... (read in full...)
We will wait until marriage to have sex, I know he likes oral sex but I can't do it, any ideas for a first-timer?
Q. My b.f and I started daing about 3 years ago.. we will be getting marring in about 1 yr. actully less then that the date is aug 2009. Anywho we decided a long time ago that we would wait till marrage to have sex well. hear we are im still a virgin. ...
A. 5 December 2008: Hey there, Thanks for posting this question, it's a good one. First, just let me say congratulations on getting married, and congratulations on staying a virgin! That is really an amazing and blessed thing to see. Your sex life with him will be... (read in full...)
Is he my toyboy?
Q. Hi everyone my question is this who come guys can date younger girls but girls cant date younger guys? I'm having this problem I'm 13 so's my bf but hes in the year below me I feel like we're falling in love we have loads in common and inseparable! ...
A. 5 December 2008: No, he's not a boytoy for goodness sakes - you're the same age as him. The people who are saying this to you don't know what they're talking about. Boytoys/toyboys, are what much older women try to date in their late 40's and 50's - like when they ... (read in full...)
Are my breasts/areola normal?
Q. Hello dearcupiders, I have a question regarding my breast. I am a size 34 C. My areola are some what big... when they become hard I find that its bumpy... not monstrously bumpy but you can tell around the nipple is not smooth. Is this normal, and...
A. 5 December 2008: Dear dearcupider,
Listen, all people - men and women, children and adults - come in different shapes, sizes, and no two people share the same anatomy (not even identical twins!). There are lots of women who have large areolas, and there is nothi... (read in full...)
First time sex, I couldn't get all the way in! Is this normal?
Q. We had sex for the first time with my GF and i found that i could not insert deeply my penis to her "thing". what must be the problem? is it that my penis is too big or her thing is too small. my penis is normal size. please advice. because we will ...
A. 4 December 2008: how big is your penis? What is "normal" to you? Average penis size is roughly 5 to 6 inches long. But don't look at things as "too big" or "too small" - everybody is different. Just be gentle with her, and don't worry if it doesn't fit all the way ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a girl of that age to be like that? What made her do it?
Q. My girlfriend walked into my room without knocking and I was caught doing sexual activity's. After 3 seconds she came directly onto me she started to take off her clothes and I asked her what are you doing because I was scared, I wasn't ready to...
A. 4 December 2008: Oh my God man, are you serious? You're 13 and you're having sex? That is not good man. You were right to not feel ready - because you shouldn't be ready, and frankly, neither should she. You're so young!! Don't mess around with that stuff yet - ... (read in full...)
He's had over 50 sexual relations?!?!?!?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for a bit over a year now. I have fallen in love with him and completely have devoted myself and my life to him. BUT-- Just a day ago, I found out before he knew me he had taken part in over 50 sexual r...
A. 4 December 2008: Lisa, I feel for you. That is a rude awakening in your relationship. I have two things to say. You're right to question him as a person after finding out about this. I understand you must feel deceived, and you're right to be disgusted by sex... (read in full...)
Is porn and masturbation everyday bad?
Q. Im 15 and i masturbate every day and look at porn is that a bad thing to do?...
A. 4 December 2008: Hello,
I agree with what has been said so far -- pornography can't really be good for you. It gives you a really false depiction of what sex is like. Ultimately porn will just mess with your head, and as exciting as it is, it's probably better i... (read in full...)
I want to have sex with her just once!
Q. Myself a physiotherapist, married with achild. I got in contact with an unmarried girl 10 years younger to me.She is very innocent and a beautifull girl. I was attracted towards her breasts. She also liked me but not sexually.She said that she wants ...
A. 4 December 2008: My friend, you seem to have a serious problem. Do you not even understand the sanctity of marriage? YOU ARE MARRIED, and in a marriage, you keep yourself completely for your wife. You have committed adultery by fooling around with this other woman. ... (read in full...)
Is female squirting abnormal? Is there anything I can do to lessen the amount of liquid?
Q. Is a lot of "come" unusual. I met my boyfriend almost two years ago. He was my first sexual partner and before I met him I could not orgasm. It took 6 months before I could finally climax. Since then my sex life has been quite good. But I have...
A. 3 December 2008: speaking as a guy, I can tell you that this actually turns me on, and that there are many guys who wouldn't mind experiencing sex with a women whom has talents such as yourself ;)
But the bottom line is you ought to love, and be comforta... (read in full...)
Fellas, how do you really feel about pretty 19 year old virgins?!?
Q. I'm a 19 year old virgin... take my word for it, its not because lack of offers.... I'm moving to Scotland and going to live on my own... I feel like an "adult" but I still haven't had sex, oral sex, I haven't been fingered or nothing! Every ti...
A. 2 December 2008: Let me begin first by congratulating you for staying a virgin! You might have no idea just how really special that is! God bless you (He has already)for your choice! In a world that idolizes sex, you are a beacon of hope to all young people who feel ... (read in full...)
How do I REALLY pleasure him?
Q. I'm a virgin.. my boyfriend isn't. I know what to do.. but not how to really pleasure him like he does me. I want to make it good for him too.. e.g.; like I know how to touch him but what would he really like?? Sorry if that's a little graphic ...
A. 2 December 2008: Do you actually love him? There is a difference between love and infatuation/sexual attraction/lust. If you love this boy, and feel ready to commit, consider being married before you give away your virginity. If you really love him that much, why ... (read in full...)
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