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41-50,
*aka123
writes:I had been in relationship with a girl for the last 1 and half year. One day, I was sick and hospitalized for about 2 months. the 1 week of sickness time my girlfriend is normal. After that she hardly contact me and when I did she has lot of excuses. On few occasion we quarrled through text. I want to know the reason for not contacting me, but she peaks up quarrel. After 2 months I recovered and joined my duty. we are working in a same organization. One day, when I came to office she was using my laptop but forgot to logout and I happened to open her email and found that she already has aother boy friend. When I ask about it, she ignores and hardly explain properly. Then we quarrled everyday for about 2 weeks. After that she was acting normally and I tried to settle up the doubts but she never gives me good explanation. Then I stop talking to her 4 about a week. After that she got new job to a different place. I was about to recover from my heart break when she text me and said she is missiong me. I doubt she got married with her new boyfriend. Now What shall I do? Shall reply her text or not.
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (11 August 2009):
 Please leave her alone. No hacking her password, no texting her, no contact at all. The fact that you still want to contact her shows how much power she still has over your heart. Let it go and the hurt will lessen more every day.
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reader, bobbles32  +, writes (10 August 2009):
 Just let it go, man. You don't need her.
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reader, kaka123 +, writes (10 August 2009):
kaka123 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI want to check her email without her knowing. Is thier anyway that I could hack her password. She has Yahoo accounts. Coz, she still says she miss me. I will produce her text as she has sent to me.
"U would not know how m missing u. Its true that lovers feeling increse when we r departed. U r always loved so much."
I am confused what does she trying yo do. Yes I cut off all contact with her. Can anybody help me please.
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reader, bobbles32 +, writes (8 August 2009):
Mind games are never fun. If you want to express that you were hurt by her actions then do so, but i wouldn't go into it with the intention of making her cry.
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reader, kaka123 +, writes (8 August 2009):
kaka123 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI gave her the job, I sponsored for her studies. I did many good things. We were like a married couple till I got sick. I am thinking replying her text with harsh text to make her cry or regret that she made a big mistake in not being faithful to me. What u all think. Please suggest me. I am thankful to all who replied for understanding me. I am going through hard time to overcome this breakup
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (7 August 2009):
Don't reply. Someone who can't be bothered to come see you while you're sick and cheats on you is not a good match for you. Leave her alone and find someone better, a real lady who will treat you will the love and respect you deserve.
Good luck.
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reader, bobbles32 +, writes (7 August 2009):
I'd leave her be. She clearly doesn't respect you or love you enough to be with JUST you. If you give in then you're just going to get hurt even more. Why not find a nice girl?
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