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writes: how do you break up with ur boyfriend of 4 yrs???? i like someone else, although i love him, i cant help feeling guilty over liking someone else. i dont want to break his heart he's like my soul mate and we all have the same group of friends. how do i do it????? anon 21
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reader, ask paige  +, writes (1 June 2006):
 well first of all u need 2 imagine your life without him.
everyone has crushes and has feelings for someone else but you need 2 think about who will be most loyal 2 you and who will make you most happy in the long run it's a hard thing love but you have to choose as for your freinds if they truly are your freinds they will expecpt it! all my love paige xx be yourself xx
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (1 June 2006):
 If you think he is your soul mate why risk it? The grass is not always greener on the other side. Plus, if it doesn't work out with the other guy what then? You said you have the same group of friends and you run in the same circle. You will see your ex again and all those memories of love and affection will re-surface and then you're left out in the cold. Think long and hard before you break up with him but if you do just be honest it will hurt him no matter how you do it or when but trust in the fact that he will be alright after awhile. Good Luck.
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reader, richierich79 +, writes (1 June 2006):
 It is hard to leave, but you are doing him more good when you don't waste his time. Tell him how you feel out of respect for what you once had. You should not leave the relationship on a dishonest level. Some times we hold ourselves back from doing what we need to do. Sometimes we claim we don't want to hurt our partners by telling them the truth. Most of the time we are just being selfish and we haven't found the courage to tell our partners. If you care about him, you will tell him ASAP.
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