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writes: I have only been with my boyfriend a few weeks but really feel strongly for him however i think he's goin off me because he never chases me no more and dont randomly phone me or text like he used to, i think i have become too paranoid and i always winge at him and i think i have drove him away but i really like him but dont know how to win back his attention please help xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2006): You have only been going out with him a few weeks. Partly this is a time of "testing" trying out, if you like, to see how well you get on together and whether you might both want to continue dating.
Yes, the spark does die down after a while, as askpaige says, but after only a few weeks? That's a little soon.
Leave things alone for a while and get on with your life. You can always call or email him in 2-3 weeks (if you have not heard anything) to see how he is. That should give you a better idea of where it stands.
Good luck!
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reader, ask paige  +, writes (6 August 2006):
 i think that at the start of a relationship it is all over each other and then it starts to die down a bit and that spark that u had seems to feel its not there anymore so i would try and get his attention back by not being to paranoid or mabey ringin him up more or what always works doin somethin new in the bedroom if u no what i mean and if u are still together in a few months or years and this happens again i would suggest moving things to the next step good luck hope i helped xxx
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