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writes: I'm kind of obsessed with sex right now. I go on porn sites and watch live sex cams. What will i do. I really want to stop it. I'm only 14!!!
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reader, David Lewis  +, writes (30 July 2006):
 Whoah slow down, I think some of the other comments here are out of line.
You are approaching this in the right way and are being brave in admitting your problem.
I think you should drop the hint to your parents that you accidentally accessed a porn site.
Most innocent web searches nowadays seem to throw up porn related results.
Maybe tell your dad to filter results or add a parental contol system to the computer.
Looking at porn is not really a problem, but there is a chance that it could become more serious. Especially as you say that you view cams. Are these actual porn site cams or do you mean MSN live webcams?
You are proving that you want to stop, so it is obviously affecting you in a bad way.
Best of luck.
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reader, willywombat +, writes (12 July 2006):
 Look at 14 you really should not have access to the internet....or at least internet porn sites. Where are your parents?
secondly a healthy interest in the opposite (or same!) sex is nothing to be ashamed about. Just make sure this interest is steered in the right direction. Don't get too hung up on how *porn* models look, cos to be truthful like fahsion models they are a bit of a charicature of femininity.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2006): I think that you need some good and involved parents first off.
How are you able to search porn sites? Your parents must have thought it was perfectly safe to buy you a PC and then have you have it in your own room believing they taught you well enough that you would excercies good judgement and stay the hell away from such filth.
Sadly what most parents are doing when they think giving their kid a PC in order to keep up with the neighbours is that they fail to realize they are creating a PORN HAVEN.
Pornography is a fast growing addiction that tears family's apart, destroys the mind, and fast teaches that viewing women as nothing but sex objects is perfectly acceptable.
Be aware that sooner or later the "normal" porn will not be enough to feed your growing, sickly need for porn and that you will begin to journey down a darker path to fulfill the dark cravings.
Porn is not a healthy view of sex. Soon you will be looking at Beastiality (abnormal) and then what, children?
STOP! Go to your parents and tell them. It is your responsibility to ask for help and it is their responsibility to help you.
Granted that few boys will dabble in such avenues for answers to their curiousity but you have already expressed concern and therefore, you know that it has become a problem. I hear your cry for help. You were not on here looking for someone to say it's okay and healthy of you. No, you were wanting guidance and help.
Parents are there to instruct, teach, guide you into having a good and healthy perspective of women so that you can have a good and healthy relationship with one, one day.
Talk to your parents and get the help you need. Pornography is not a way of life, not for you.
Please let me know when you had the courage to turn to your parents for help.
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reader, ThePixie +, writes (10 July 2006):
 To be honest, if you were 14 and not obsessed with sex it would be more weird. Porn sites are not a bad thing and they serve a purpose, just as long as you keep in mind that the day you have real sex when your older will not be like a porno. It's only unhealthy if porn takes over from any interest in real girls. So are you lusting after so and so in whatever class? Yes? Well then you're fine. The only other thing I'd say is don't go blowing you're allowance on these sites, otherwise you won't have much of a social life - and without that how are you gong to learn how to interact with a real girl?
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reader, bridget +, writes (9 July 2006):
 Hey there anon
Its nothing to be ashamed of lol.. I understand at your age it would be a very embarrassing subject but the truth is everyone gets a time in thier life when they are totally obsessed with sex.. I think if you are worrying that much about your habbit though you should try taking up on a ahobby or something like that..
Join a forum and answer some Q's on here.. You will feel good when your advise has helped someone in greater need..
One day you will be able to enjoy the subject but for now its just a phase!! Dont worry!
Best Wishes
Jacqueline
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reader, ask paige +, writes (9 July 2006):
 well i think that at your age all your hormones really start to kick in a lot and you start looking at things differently such as i neva used to lthink about boys all the time i used to hate the idea of me being in a relationship but when i turned a teenager it all changed my hormones were very different to what they used to be like and all i could think about was boys but as time goes on you do start to cool it down a bit and it is very understandable of a girl at your age be thinking like this so dont worry and feel dirty because im sure all of ure m8s feel the same but nobody talks about it but dont worry it will all blow over good luck paige xxx
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