I need help with my erection problem before it ruins my relationship!
Q. Does anyone have any advise for men with erection problems? Sometimes I cannot get an erection with my girlfriend when we are going to have sex and other times I get an erection but I cum as soon as I enter her. I have diabetes many years,but I...
A. 18 November 2006: if you're still there contact me as my partner and I have experienced the sames probs... (read in full...)
When are we too old to attract a romantic partner?
Q. When are we too old to attract a romantic partner?...
A. 18 November 2006: Never!
I remember my 72yr old Nana being mortified that a man was interested in her and this was nearly 20yrs ago!! Times move on. It's never too late.
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We only make love when I approach her...we really need some spark back in our bedroom. Any tips?
Q. ive been with my babe for just over 6 years we have a 5 year old daughter but she never comes on to me i think it has been 2 years or so we do have sex but only when i urge the situation we need some spark back in our lives...
A. 18 November 2006: Many women suffer from a low sex drive after the birth of their children. From what you say there was a very short period between you getting together and your having children. You need to remind your partner that she sexy to you as a woman rather ... (read in full...)
We are still fighting over his habits on the internet. It's ruined our relationship!
Q. The other night I had the police at my door yet again and no before you ask kids no it was me and my bloke. We have been together since june 2005. Everthing seemed great till about 4 mnths ago then we ordered the pc then it all went downhill...
A. 18 November 2006: My darlin I'm gonna give you advice you're not gonna wanna hear.
I've been a battered girlfriend on more than one occassion and I can tell you this much .... no matter how much they tell you that they're gonna change, they ain't gonna change. ... (read in full...)
My guy friend took advantage when I was drunk..we had sex! Do I tell my fiancee?
Q. Ok, this is really awkward. I'm getting married in August and I love my other half. Our sex life is not brilliant, when it happens it's great it just doesn't happen very often. I suppose I have to say that as an intro but maybe I'm excusing mys...
A. 7 November 2006: Thanks guys you've qll been really helpful. I've asked this friend not to contact em for a while as he was e-mailing like nothing had happened.
Still no memory of the night at all. Far as I'm concerned I got drunk fell asleep ALONE.
I have ... (read in full...)
Is someone able to tell if I haven't been fingered before?
Q. Will someone know if you havent been fingered before?...
A. 7 November 2006: Not unless you tell them. There's no medical way for him to tell.
Just relax and enjoy the sensation.... (read in full...)
I might be pregnant and am getting so used to the idea I don't want to do a test incase it says I'm not!
Q. I think i might be pregnant i have most early symptoms. I could be anything up to 2 months. I've always used protection but I still got pregnant. I dont agree with abortions or adoption and ive got used to the idea i am pregnant and have started to ...
A. 7 November 2006: Do the test darlin. The femal body is a terrible thing! I've thought I was pregnant and have taken a test and it's been negative. I'd stopped having my period because I was so stressed about the possibility of being pregnant!! Sounds wierd I know ... (read in full...)
We are planning to get married but my mother and sister recent me!
Q. Please help, My Mum is very ill, has been for a long time. The longer she's been ill the more difficult she gets. I was engaged to a chap when I was 19 and I'm now 32. She constantly refers to this guy who I dumped when I was in uni (we were eng...
A. 7 November 2006: Ok girls my Mum comes over to visit tomorrow. I am really nercous kinda sitting here worrying about whay faults she's gonna pick ........... arrrrgghhh!! Will let you all know how it goes.
I've taken all your advice on board, just hope it helps... (read in full...)
17 year old gay guy who has a crush on someone is already in a relationship!
Q. Hi i am a 17 year old gay guy , who really likes a friend ive met very recently but the friend has a boyfriend already...what will i do?...
A. 18 September 2006: That's a difficult one hun. This guy's taken and you'll have to tread carefully.
How taken is this guy with his b/f and how well is it going? How much do you really like him and do you have any indication that he likes you back?
It's always d... (read in full...)
I think I scared him off, but would at least like to be friends, how can do this without thinking I have feelings ?
Q. I liked this boy . a real lot . but i think i scared him away one day we just stoped talking . i would say anything in conversation to get his interest just to talk to him . I still liek him now and ill be going to his school soon i odnt know what ...
A. 18 September 2006: You don't say what you said to him that you think scared him off. ... (read in full...)
Im a little loose after childbirth, anything I can do to improve this ?
Q. I had a couple of children and am now a bit loose down there during sex. Any ideas? Will PC excersizes actually make any difference? ...
A. 18 September 2006: Pelvic floor exercises can make a huge difference and no-one need even know you're doing them!
Clench your muscles like you're holding in a pee. Do ten or twenty repetitions of this a day and you'll be in tip top shape in no time!!
My frie... (read in full...)
We are planning to get married but my mother and sister recent me!
Q. Please help, My Mum is very ill, has been for a long time. The longer she's been ill the more difficult she gets. I was engaged to a chap when I was 19 and I'm now 32. She constantly refers to this guy who I dumped when I was in uni (we were eng...
A. 18 September 2006: Been to see them .... it went ok! Better than i thought. Sis kept her nastiness to herself, maybe some one had a word!! Mum managed to be very positive so I'm very pleased!... (read in full...)
Currently unemployed, how do I decide what to do next?
Q. hi iam 21 and am currently unemployed after being in a company for 3 years that was a dead end job and iam really unsure as to what i want to do....i know the things iam good at but dont know how to put them into something that i will enjoy doing ...
A. 9 September 2006: I used to work in recruitment for unemployed people and still often give advice to friends. Many people don't realise that they have what we call 'transferable skills' which can be applied from their old job or even from their life experiences.
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Is there somebody for everybody? I'm 36 and never had anyone to call my partner. What's wrong?
Q. Is there somebody for everybody? Or is this just a fairy tale? What's wrong with me? I've kissed my share of frogs but no one turned into a prince. They all remained amphibians, happily jumping around in the mad. All my friends are married with...
A. 9 September 2006: I don't believe that a life not shared is a life in vain.
I've not had anyone I could call my partner unlit recerntly and I'm 32.
Until last year I lived alone with my cat, did my own thing, bought my own house and basically took care of mys... (read in full...)
I find it hard to love because my mom and dad split...
Q. hiya well i have a good life i got really great friends and i have such a laugh at school with them and my m8s are the people who get me through my life at home because me and my mum dont get along at all and i dont have a dad anymore so i think ...
A. 9 September 2006: Darlin,
This is really hard for you because all you're seeing is your Mum and Dad's mistakes.
You have to realise that that's their lives and their mistakes and that you are an entirely different person to either of them and, while there's no... (read in full...)
The skid marks on his boxer shorts is turning me off. He says it stings to wipe his bum...what is his problem?
Q. Iv got a slight problem here and i welcome any help that i can get.My partner is a wonderful man and is very good with the kids but i am quickly going off him. He doesn't wipe his bum properly because he has loads of skid marks in his boxers! I am ...
A. 9 September 2006: Ok, admission here!!
This is awfully familiar to the argument I've been having with my other half recently.
Picking up his drawers and noticing those indelicate marks was not very nice..... to say the very least.
I have asked him to ensure... (read in full...)
How can I go about becoming a "Goth" ?
Q. Hi can ayone help me? My problem is that I want to becaome a Goth.. however I am also considering a career in acting/as an actress or working with horses (going to an agricultural college) Can I do both?? I have NEVER seen a goth working with ...
A. 9 September 2006: Please igonre Ponungalungb. My best mate is a goth and she's the greatest!
She also has a fantastic job as a senior administrator and has never had any problem either in getting or holding down a job.
You need any help or advice please co... (read in full...)
I s sex on the first night wrong?
Q. i just wanted to know everyones opinion... do you think sex on the first night is wrong?? ive been talking to alot of people about this and everyone has mixed views, I'm not sure what exactly guys look for? do they all look for a quick shag on the ...
A. 8 September 2006: Personally I've had sex on the first date a hell of a lot in the past. At the time it was great and achieved what I wanted to achieve i.e. sexual release, a bit of fun and some self affirmation ... without it having to get too serious. Didn't do my ... (read in full...)
Even after taking the morning after pill...Could I be pregnant???
Q. i had sex with my boyfriend and he came inside me i got the morning after pill about 2 hours later and have taken my period for this month only it was a week late but it was normal could i be pregnant? ...
A. 8 September 2006: It's unlikely. if you're unsure see a doctor or buy a prenancy test just to put your mind at rest.... (read in full...)
How can I tell my parents he is of a different race???
Q. i just posted the question "I finally got with Pete! Problem is I've never had a boyfriend before, so dont know how to make us an adorable couple!" around 2 days ago, but i honestly need as much advice as possible. So we've been spending soooooo...
A. 8 September 2006: I'm a white woman and I've dated Indian men and have many Indian friends so have seen your problem from a number of sides!
You don't mention how strict your parents are and a hell of a lot hinges on that.
What are their expectations of ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend farts alot...Is something wrong with him???
Q. This might sound like I'm weird, but my boyfriend seems to fart alot. I know everyone does and it's a human thing, but sometimes I feel very embarrassed with him doing it in public. My questions is: Is he doing it because he doesn't care what other ...
A. 8 September 2006: Oh my god! This is an awkward one!!
You habe to talk to him about the public nature of his farts!!!
Explain to him in a very gentle manner that you're embarressed. It may be that he is too and he can't help it!
If this is the case I would... (read in full...)
The pregnancy tests were negative but no period in 40 days! Could it be stress or what??
Q. My period is very, very late. It's been 40 days since my last one. I've not had unprotected sex, and the condoms were tested after sex for keeping the semen in. We have always been careful- even overly careful. I have taken 4 pregnancy tests, a...
A. 8 September 2006: I've been in the same position as you and was convinced I was pregnant. Turned out that with all the stress of a new job, my partner being made redundant and having to move away from home for a 3 month residential course etc etc, my homones were ... (read in full...)
We are planning to get married but my mother and sister recent me!
Q. Please help, My Mum is very ill, has been for a long time. The longer she's been ill the more difficult she gets. I was engaged to a chap when I was 19 and I'm now 32. She constantly refers to this guy who I dumped when I was in uni (we were eng...
A. 2 September 2006: I'm off to see them next week. Any ideas for coping mechanisms!... (read in full...)
She asked how I felt about her now that she broke off her other relationship. I told her but what do I do next?
Q. I've fallen in love with one of my girl-friends but she's just broken up with someone and still kind of likes him, she broke up with him but asked me how I felt about her, I've told her but I don't know what to do next...can anyone help me?...
A. 2 September 2006: I'm kinda biased here and don't know if I can help but I was in a similar position myself.
A friend of mine fancied me for years and when I split up from my partner he skirted around the issue and we ended up staying friends and both went on to se... (read in full...)
Can you get pregnant by giving a blow job???
Q. Is it possible to get pregnant by giving a guy a blow job?...
A. 2 September 2006: Good god no!! ... (read in full...)
My roomate is bugged by my messy desk..but I think i should be able to have it any way I want it! any thoughts?
Q. ok, i have just a basic roommate question, and need some opinions on this matter. i live in a house with a couple of people, and one of them is bothered by the fact that my desk is cluttered. we have one room where we keep all three of our desks ...
A. 2 September 2006: I live with my partner and my computer desk is my own personal workspace regardless of the fact that he also uses the room for his music.
I f you don't dictate to them what they can and can't have on their desk they really can't expect to do th... (read in full...)
I look so young for my age...any way I can make myself look older?
Q. I need help, asap. The thing is, I look really young for my age. I'm 19, 20 in November and I still get asked for ID. Most of the time I even get asked ID for a 15 rated movie. When I got to clubs it's really embarrassing to be stopped infront of ...
A. 2 September 2006: I've always had the same problem, even now in my thirties I have people mistake me for someone a lot younger! Last time I got asked for my age to buy ciggies I was 27!
Needless to say it is annoying and there's no magic formula on how to 'look ol... (read in full...)
Ladies, tell me why you would want to have sex with a man who looks at porn and gets horny over other women?
Q. It is totally incredible to me that some women will still want to have sex with a man who uses porn. Ladies doesn't this make you sick? Why would you want to have sex with a man whos gets horny over other women? I dont understand. To the argueme...
A. 15 August 2006: Sounds like your man is using every excuse under the sun to support his habit. I agree with you, porn is ultimately degrading to women and if you're in a relationship with a man he shouldn't be looking at it FULL STOP. Tell him you want him to ... (read in full...)
My "one off" guy sort of became my boyfriend, hes treating me oddly at the mo and I dont know what to do because I love him!
Q. about 3 months ago i cheated on my boyfriend (he is now my ex) and went with a 45 year old man, i am 17, and yes i was drunk and it wasnt supposed to have turned out to be anything more than a one off. but once me and my ex boyfriend had split up he ...
A. 15 August 2006: darlin' get out of this relationship before this man does you some serious damage. He's an abuser, emotionally and physically and the abuse will only get worse if you stay with him. You're only 17, you can do so much better than this. Don't ... (read in full...)
I have nightmares, every night! It's been going on for months!
Q. Hi, over the last 8 months or so, almost every night - and I mean like 5 to 6 nights a week - I have nightmares. They always change every night; it can be of someone trying to kill me one night, to someone breaking into my house the next. I even had ...
A. 15 August 2006: Hi,
I have complete sympathy! I have had bad nightmares since I was a child. You wouldn't happen to be a migraine sufferer would you Migraine sufferers tend to have the most realistic dreams and also tend to dream in full technicolour!
I liste... (read in full...)
He want's me to be more dominant in the bedroom,any tips?
Q. Hi, my bf and i have been together almost 3 years, im 20 his 25, we live together. our sex life is pretty good maybe once a week, we always mix it up,different places in the house,different postions,making our own movies,toys etc the thing is he is ...
A. 15 August 2006: I'm very small compared to my other half as well!
Tying him up would be a great compromise. That way you're in control. If he's lying on his back you can control how much of him you take if you're on top.
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I think my girl is great...but what about her Dad?
Q. My girlfriend is lovely, and a really sweet girl but she tends too talk about her dad as if he is some sort of monster. She tells me things that he has done in the past such as scratching other peoples cars if he has a scratch on his, to make him ...
A. 15 August 2006: You really need to talk to your girlfriend about this!
Sit her down and tell her you're uncomfortable about some of the stuff she's been saying about her Dad. If she's having you on then this is her chance to tell you the truth!
Whatever whe ... (read in full...)
I want to, but I am worried about losing my virginity
Q. Hi, im 17 and want 2 lose my virginity but im worried about loseing my virginity, but only because im scared about the pain and is it possible for me 2 have sex! i feel to tight ? help me please! thanks ...
A. 15 August 2006: Don't just loose your virginity for the sake of it, make sure it's with someone special ok?
Whatever happens, the reason you feel too tight is because your nervous. When you're nervous your muscles clench and it may be difficult to have sex. For... (read in full...)
I am a virgin and my ex wants sex wih me
Q. My x boyfriend and me are still like really good friends and he wants to have sex... But Im still a virgin and Im affraid that it might hurt.. And I want to know if i should or not.? He told me that he doesnt want me to do stuff that i dont want ...
A. 15 August 2006: Hi,
As it's your first time I'd say no unless you're absolutely sure he's the one you want to loose your virginity to.
it doesn't sound like you're in love with him or that there's any feelings apart from curiosity there.
Please make sur... (read in full...)
I don't like hearing stories and rumours about my boyfriend's past!
Q. My bf and I are incredibly close, and our relationship is perfect in every way, except for one thing. My friends and family don't want me to be with him, and they use every oportunity to tell me stories and rumors to try to turn me against him. S...
A. 15 August 2006: Darlin'
The first thing I can say is take everything other peole say with a large pinch of salt. No-one truely knows this man apart from him.
Stories from other people tend to be largely exaggerated or entirely fabricated. We all know about C... (read in full...)
I want to get into office work but am stuck in catch-22 they want experience but I don't have any!
Q. hey guys, I've just left school (in UK aged 18) and i dont have any exceptional grades, just a few Intermediate 2 grades and pending higher grades. I want to get into office work, receptionist office junior, administrator etc. The thing is, offi...
A. 15 August 2006: Have you tried looking at local programme centres or training providers?
My partner was in a similar position and went to his local programme centre. They ended up employing him as a volunteer initially but after 5yrs he was their district... (read in full...)
Jobs with a BTEC first in engineering?
Q. Hi I'm currently unemployed for 5 years as i had to look after my mother who was sick and unable to get around. The only only qualification i have ia a btec first diploma in engineering which i passed with merit all the way. What jobs would i...
A. 15 August 2006: Have you tried going to a local programme centre? They can give you advice on jobs as well as having job search facilities.... (read in full...)
Getting "the fear" about job interviews... Any tips?
Q. I went to search for job - I have work before for 1 year then contract ended for two year I can't get a job. Now I have fear that went I am attending for my job interview I get scared then I walk off. One day before the interview the fear get ...
A. 15 August 2006: You sound so much like I was a few years ago! I used to panic so much in interviews I must have come acoss really badly and I didn't get the job. Obviously this led to a negtive spiral where I felt I wasn't good enough and the interviews got worse ... (read in full...)
Why is my GF being so cold and unresponsive towards me?
Q. sorry but this is a long one but i need to get it off my chest and see what people think is going on Right ive recently got back together with my childhood sweetheart even though im only 20 and i say back together, but she always changes the subj...
A. 15 August 2006: Hi mikezcarz.
I've just read your problem and hope I can help. When you've known somebody for a long time as you've know this girl it's really difficult when your relationship changes direction.
She might be finding it hard to deal with being ... (read in full...)
I need ideas for a memorable birthday pressie for my BF of 3 years!
Q. My boyfriend always does really sweet things for me. He took me to a fair and had our names engraved on matching dawg tags. We have been together 3 years and I want to get him a really sweet present that I know he will like but I dont have a lot of ...
A. 14 August 2006: It's a difficult one without knowing what he likes! A firend of mine bought her boyfriend a hip flask engraved with the date they started going out along with a really good bottle of malt. That went down really well!
If you can tell me more abo... (read in full...)
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